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Let’s make Sopy a very dirty slave today [998 tokens remaining]
Date: October 22, 2022
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If you drink enough to black out often, sometimes your brain just trains itself to shut off much earlier in the binge.
Idk how or why that works, but it’s definitely a thing. I get a bad vibe from her based on this post, but it’s possible you’re over drinking even with that amount.
Should tell him early on so if that is his deal-breaker you guys won't be too far invested.
It sounds like your boyfriend is emotionally abusive. Are you also going to solo therapy? We don’t recommend going to couples therapy with abusers because they’ll just use it as ammo to manipulate you.
If you were feeling so backed into a corner about the relationship that you called his ex knowing you were crossing a boundary, is it really worth staying with him? It doesn’t sound like he respects you or makes you feel good about yourself or brings out the best in you.
What does your therapist say?
I was using it in moderation, probably less than the average person.
From discussions with my (some former) friends, it's quite clear that many men view women as objects for their sexual pleasure. This mindset is perpetuated and reinforced by mainstream pornography.
I'm not the exception here. Porn is an incredibly intense and visual stimulus that is hijacking an incredibly powerful and base desire – the drive to procreate. This reward system wasn't designed to be stimulated in such a manner – of course consuming that material repeatedly is going to influence a person's psychology and behaviour in varying degrees – I am not alone in this, I'm just one of the few with the insight / courage to admit it.
If you heard some of the shit the men I know say about women and their views of their sex as a whole, you might be singing from a different hymn sheet.
Both can be true, it’s not fair to expect monogamy from a partner while not desiring to be sexual, that’s expecting celibacy of someone who doesn’t want to be celebrate.
It’s also shitty to push someone into sex acts when they aren’t in the mood. In my world, it’s totally fine to try and get them in the mood, but they have to want to engage.
As far as cuddling as an alternative, for me they aren’t similar, I love both and would have a hard time missing out on either but they fill two different “buckets” for me, they are different ways to fill the same one.
Sounds like the best solution is to find ways to lower OPs stress levels, that’s positive on all fronts. She also may just not be that sexual, in which case she probably needs to let him know and they can decide how or if that’s going to work for them.
Cope harder
I don't trust their assessments of their capability to execute those intentions in different circumstances.
That's the problem. If you can't trust your partner to execute their intentions to not cheat on you, that's a problem.
Housemates not roommates. We all have separate rooms and the walls are thick enough. Not the issue
Involved or succeeded? Sound like trickle truth