Yes, it would be better because they would be closer in age. Have none of y’all fucking watched To Catch A Predator? Do you have any idea how many 19 year olds were going after 14 and 15 year olds? A LOT.
Well if your mom said your bf could have came to those events, it sounds like they expect him to show up whenever you're there since you've been in a relationship for 15 years. But since you somehow haven't put this together, now your parents will be surprised when it's brought up that he's coming.
In the last few years, when you show up to these events, do your parents ask where he is or why he didn't come? Unless they say “don't bring your bf” I think it's safe to assume they expect him there. I think you've been excluding him on your own. You don't need to invite the partner of your child when they have been together for over a decade.
Your sister's bf needs an invite cuz they are still in the “baby stage” of the relationship.
I understand that me dropping out would affect her a lot but I would not be doing nothing just mindlessly going through life, At the very least id have a job while Im thinking about what I want to do (I have a job rn that pays relatively well for where I live). She is just pissed bc she would be making X amount of money which would be a lot higher than what I would be which I think is unfair to hold against me like that.
idk I also think its unhealthy to threaten to break up with me everytime we fight and I want to get that across. If I had a job and was contributing, admittedly not nearly as much as her, and was doing quite literally everything else household wise just like im doing now, why is it fair to say im not doing my fair share? I dont know what I wanna do in general in life but that doesnt mean im not going to look while im doing other things like this and I dont think its fair of her to break up with me bc I have no clue what I want to be
I was once in your girlfriend’s shoes, to an extent. I was addicted to a substance that I had chosen to quit, and I had the support of my girlfriend. However, I relapsed and I hid it from her. When confronted about it, I got defensive and lied about what it is, how much I’ve been using, etc etc. I regrettably did this more than once.
Thing is, I knew she wouldn’t be upset about the relapse, but I knew the deceit would hurt her. It’s actually the very thing that broke our 2.5yr relationship up.
So why did I do it? Because I felt an overwhelming amount of shame and self hatred. Mentally & emotionally, it’s incredibly difficult to come clean about a relapse to someone you care about. Because that means coming clean on the fact that they’ve failed. They often carry shame and feel like a disappointment and don’t want to put that on someone else.
Does that excuse the lying? No, it doesn’t. But whether that changes things, are up to a personal basis. Nicotine is obviously a bit different than a mind-altering substance, but it is also incredibly hard to kick. It’s hard admitting to someone over & over that you’ve failed again.
She’s playing games. It’s a bit much for someone her age.
Yes, it would be better because they would be closer in age. Have none of y’all fucking watched To Catch A Predator? Do you have any idea how many 19 year olds were going after 14 and 15 year olds? A LOT.
Not only does funk make sex less enjoyable, but his sweaty funky genitals can give you infections. He needs to shower before any action
Kind of sounds like it's mutual
My thoughts exactly. You didn't consent, it's assault
Well if your mom said your bf could have came to those events, it sounds like they expect him to show up whenever you're there since you've been in a relationship for 15 years. But since you somehow haven't put this together, now your parents will be surprised when it's brought up that he's coming.
In the last few years, when you show up to these events, do your parents ask where he is or why he didn't come? Unless they say “don't bring your bf” I think it's safe to assume they expect him there. I think you've been excluding him on your own. You don't need to invite the partner of your child when they have been together for over a decade.
Your sister's bf needs an invite cuz they are still in the “baby stage” of the relationship.
I understand that me dropping out would affect her a lot but I would not be doing nothing just mindlessly going through life, At the very least id have a job while Im thinking about what I want to do (I have a job rn that pays relatively well for where I live). She is just pissed bc she would be making X amount of money which would be a lot higher than what I would be which I think is unfair to hold against me like that.
idk I also think its unhealthy to threaten to break up with me everytime we fight and I want to get that across. If I had a job and was contributing, admittedly not nearly as much as her, and was doing quite literally everything else household wise just like im doing now, why is it fair to say im not doing my fair share? I dont know what I wanna do in general in life but that doesnt mean im not going to look while im doing other things like this and I dont think its fair of her to break up with me bc I have no clue what I want to be
I was once in your girlfriend’s shoes, to an extent. I was addicted to a substance that I had chosen to quit, and I had the support of my girlfriend. However, I relapsed and I hid it from her. When confronted about it, I got defensive and lied about what it is, how much I’ve been using, etc etc. I regrettably did this more than once.
Thing is, I knew she wouldn’t be upset about the relapse, but I knew the deceit would hurt her. It’s actually the very thing that broke our 2.5yr relationship up.
So why did I do it? Because I felt an overwhelming amount of shame and self hatred. Mentally & emotionally, it’s incredibly difficult to come clean about a relapse to someone you care about. Because that means coming clean on the fact that they’ve failed. They often carry shame and feel like a disappointment and don’t want to put that on someone else.
Does that excuse the lying? No, it doesn’t. But whether that changes things, are up to a personal basis. Nicotine is obviously a bit different than a mind-altering substance, but it is also incredibly hard to kick. It’s hard admitting to someone over & over that you’ve failed again.