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Alternatively – maybe she just doesn't wanna deal with him crying. The son not the husband. Kids don't always take losing well. Honestly, letting them win occasionally is not bad. Builds confidence to feel like you earned a win against a superior opponent, and affection when you realize at 25 they totally let you win because they love you and value your self esteem.
I'm actually 20, I might sound like a 13, but to be honest, I don't care. Have you been cheated on by someone who seemed to love you and was always craving your attention ? I don't think so. You don't know what is it to lose 1 year because of someone who gave you false hopes. Fortunately, I caught her cheating on me and I'm not sad at all, I used to be, but now, I'm more upset to have been played with by someone to whom I was giving my best to make her happy and give her joy, I can move on and forget everything. But let’s look more realistic at the situation. If we all go the forgiving route, then bad people would rule the world. They would see that nobody is stopping or punishing them for doing bad things, and they will continue hurting people. I don't let anyone be in my life, if you're my friend, then you mean a lot to me, if you hurt me, I'm gonna do everything to give you a taste of your own medicine.
Your comment made me realize that everything is easy for people until they are the main actors of the story.
I mean, he can’t even stop himself from jerking off in the bathroom at work. There’s no situation in which that’s ok. It’s not even about the porn usage.
I dont want to break up over something that, imo, can be resolved with just a bit more intimacy.
But he has told you and shown you over and over he isn't going to change. It doesn't matter if he could change.
I could start training to run marathons, if I wanted. Anyone waiting around for me to start running marathons is going to be disappointed. Anyone telling me over and over that I need to start running marathons is wasting their time and should go find someone else who's actually interested in running marathons, because all they're gonna be doing is annoying the fuck out of me.
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The confusing part is her words certainly imply interest, but there's doubts too.
I honestly don't know her true colours yet, she's quite reserved and I have no idea what is “normal” in today's dating world.
I also feel like it's playing games, and have some discomfort around it, hence my post.
If I “omit” the fact I am having sex with other girls it’s still a lie if I said I wasn’t.
400 is definitely a measly sum for selling your dignity and pride to a random stranger on the internet.
The thing is if she had ASKED me first whatever, but she’s done it twice months apart and told me she doesn’t even message other guys.
Alternatively – maybe she just doesn't wanna deal with him crying. The son not the husband. Kids don't always take losing well. Honestly, letting them win occasionally is not bad. Builds confidence to feel like you earned a win against a superior opponent, and affection when you realize at 25 they totally let you win because they love you and value your self esteem.
Delete and block. 100% a scam.
I'm actually 20, I might sound like a 13, but to be honest, I don't care. Have you been cheated on by someone who seemed to love you and was always craving your attention ? I don't think so. You don't know what is it to lose 1 year because of someone who gave you false hopes. Fortunately, I caught her cheating on me and I'm not sad at all, I used to be, but now, I'm more upset to have been played with by someone to whom I was giving my best to make her happy and give her joy, I can move on and forget everything. But let’s look more realistic at the situation. If we all go the forgiving route, then bad people would rule the world. They would see that nobody is stopping or punishing them for doing bad things, and they will continue hurting people. I don't let anyone be in my life, if you're my friend, then you mean a lot to me, if you hurt me, I'm gonna do everything to give you a taste of your own medicine.
Your comment made me realize that everything is easy for people until they are the main actors of the story.
I hear you ??thank you for being real about the situation
Anybody who tells you they think it’s easy to be the sole caretaker for another person you need to immediately delete from your life.
I mean, he can’t even stop himself from jerking off in the bathroom at work. There’s no situation in which that’s ok. It’s not even about the porn usage.
No. The problem isn't hers and she shouldn't be blamed for her genetics.
The problem is his, and his alone. Let's stop blaming women for the problems of men.
I dont want to break up over something that, imo, can be resolved with just a bit more intimacy.
But he has told you and shown you over and over he isn't going to change. It doesn't matter if he could change.
I could start training to run marathons, if I wanted. Anyone waiting around for me to start running marathons is going to be disappointed. Anyone telling me over and over that I need to start running marathons is wasting their time and should go find someone else who's actually interested in running marathons, because all they're gonna be doing is annoying the fuck out of me.
But even then… why bother dating someone in your 40s who ‘prefers young adults’
Sounds like she’s been groomed. That is totally not okay.