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Time to cut both of them from your life. They both have issues you can’t fix
He’s trying to place blame on you for his poor choices. Walk away he is not a friend.
Idk, depends on how old you are. I am 35 and I have friends like this. Life is busy for everyone and we all have different social lives and responsibilities. With my friends I know that we've been friends and we may have long periods where we don't talk to each other but we are true friends because it doesn't matter. When we see each other the few times we can we continue on like nothing has changed. Good friends don't deteriorate no matter the absences in each other's lives. I could not see them for 20 years and then reconnect like nothing has changed.
Next time things get intimate, suggest trying out variants of positions. Talk about what works and what doesn’t, the talk about how tweaks to things can change that and see if the other person is good with that. Just switched mattresses made certain previously good positions awkward and talking though what worked for each of us resulted in new positions we had never tried before that worked out great. Spending 30 minutes finding out what does and doesn’t work for each of you will pay massive future dividends.
I have issues when it comes to SO’s buying me gifts especially expensive gifts, it makes me feel like I owe them, and this stems from trauma I endured, therapy has helped me start accepting gifts from my SO’s but even then I still struggle and overthink that there might be some ulterior motive behind it. I can’t really afford expensive gifts but I usually do get something that someone can cherish.
For real. A few years ago I had a medical emergency and was transferred between hospitals, and they don't use the same sticky thinks for ECG, so I had double the amount for a while there. Then the follow ups. More people saw my tits in one year than in all the years previously. lol
Hearing about his behavior makes me anxious. Maybe he needs a pet class. Yeah right.
If it did happen it’s not up to you to discuss it. Stay in your lane
Ugh! I’m so very sorry! Reading this…I got that horrible feeling I spent my life (until my late 20’s) feeling, in my gut.
Sadly, what I learned was to ‘go along, to get along’. I hated every minute of it. But, just accepted & agreed-in a completely flat tone-anything my mother said.
This minimized the yelling. Also, my room/table manners/dress/make-up/etc was as close to perfect as possible.
There was still screaming at me, but the amount was reduced dramatically.
Also-please do NOT make the same mistake I did. Do NOT marry someone, just to get away. Marriage is tremendously difficult. Unless you deeply love, respect & feel unconditionally committed to them-it will not go well.
Sending you strength & hugs! ??
bless your heart !
I'd probably be downvoted to oblivion, but just wanted to say I'm the same age as you and my SO is the same age as your partner. We have a healthy, loving, amazing relationship. Tho my last partner was 12 years older than me and we had the most toxic relationship and I was abused. I know age gap relationships are mostly judged and looked down upon, and I understand it's a valid concern. But as someone who experienced both unhealthy age gap relationship and a healthy one, I just want to say-it can work out. Good on you for looking out for red flags. Take care!
How am I the one poisoning their relationship ? This is ridiculous
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Hi! Just here to say that, even though these feelings are really tough, they’re also very normal. You and your gf are in a long term relationship and, on one hand, you will probably never be in a long term relationship where you don’t have sparks with people outside of it. Part of committing to be monogamous is having boundaries to keep those sparks from crossing a line or negatively affecting your relationship. That being said, you and your gf are still really young and you were kids when you got together. It sounds like you’ve done a lot of growing up together and have a really beautiful relationship. That is still true whether you stay together forever or end your relationship and go down different paths. My only real piece of advice is don’t break up with your gf to peruse your boss. It’s a funny thing a lot of people do when they decide to end a meaningful relationship and it almost always creates a whole lot of messiness and pain that could be avoided by a few months of singleness and introspection. It can be really hard to break up with someone without another thing lined up, especially in your case where you’ve spent so much of your life in a committed relationship. But I have to stress that going through your break up and getting through those feelings (hopefully with support from friends) as a single person is essential to your own growth. If you end your relationship, you will need to give yourself time to grieve it. Get through it and come out the other side, and pursue another relationship when your feelings are less tangled up. Wishing you the best regardless of what happens next for you!
Did you two agree on any boundaries?
“she’s the one not respecting my boundary” – so what you will do about that?
You used blame shifting on her here. You two need to compromise if you feel that her boundaries are not reasonable break up.. stop trying to make excuses!
Are you adventurous in other ways in the bedroom? Is there anything else that makes you think she misses that life?
It’s a wild world where getting a bit of your dick removed is on your list of priorities.
this is 100% inappropriate and BIL is a pos, but we don't know if they knew each other pre 2020, so calling him a groomer is a bit too far at this point
If I knew about my in-laws asking my wife to leave me off future trips, I would not only probably leave her if she did end up going, but also would not feel comfortable traveling with them for a long time. That’s not getting brought up enough.
I would not want to be where I’m not wanted.
I don’t know where you live, but in some states in the US, your rapist could sue for partial custody, even if he is convicted. I would talk to a lawyer if you are even considering keeping the fetus.
Also, if you do not get an abortion and end up with your rapists child, they could track down their bio father later in life.
Id strongly consider whether either of those to scenarios are okay with you. I struggled with infertility myself, I know the pain of that, but I personally would not be able to keep a fetus in your situation.
His body, his choice.
His body, his choice.
of course you have to tell her!
Whoops! Reading fail. Thank you for that! I fixed it. 😀
Shes probley seeing another and keeping you as back up incase it does not pan out she is checking on sites to make sure she still has control
Blick her and move on
Take some time to heal but never let her come back. She is not a good person. If you have anything joint get her off if it ..or remove your self so your not stuck paying bills.
Be thankful shes not pregnant.
Block all social media sites
And heal
If you can’t leave your parents’ house, you’ve got no business getting married. Let her go.
Non consensual touching is creepy and wrong and a hug is still non consensual touching.
How would you feel if a strange man hugged you without your consent, repeatedly?
Because I bet you’d suddenly see that hugs can make people feel uncomfortable and want your bodily autonomy respected if that happened.
You should just trust him. His past is his past. It won't help you to know the details. It could actually harm you because visualizing it is completely different than an abstract idea. What do you expect the knowledge to do for you? Is kind of ick. You weren't in a relationship when it happened. I would never tell a partner about intimate details of my former sex life. All you're doing is stressing yourself out over something that can't be changed. He was open with you, and that's all you expect. Do you love him? Do you trust him? Find a way to let it go.
Also, get tested.
Don't leave your art business. You aren't being selfish. You're being asked to put your life on hold until he finishes school. You're going to regret going more than staying.
You went out and spent physical time with both?
What is the point of dating the current one of you can’t spend constant time with her?
Maybe you need to move on to someone more local?
At minimum. If you’re only getting me off once a month like fuck I’m giving you oral every day. Hell every week. Nu uh. You gotta put some orgasms in the machine to get some out.
This story is wildly American lol
Passive aggressiveness aside, It is entirely possible she doesn't feel like talking.
My advice is to strongly take her at her word and only her word. She says she is fine and treats her as if she is fine. If she doesn't want to talk, don't talk to her. Let her live and let yourself live as you both choose to.
She showed you something that made you anxious. You let her know and moved forward. That is really all you can do with another person. Continue to enforce your boundaries.
If she wants to be more positive and open, that's her choice.
It's your choice if you want to be with someone who is passive-aggressive and that you feel closes herself off fron you when something displeases her.
Ouch…
You deserve better & good luck
Your ex should stay your ex
He gets “mad” so he never has to be held accountable.
He sounds repugnant, frankly. I’ve been married 20+ years, and your situation is not what a relationship is supposed to be. You deserve a lot better.
Could it be she found someone else? You will never know, but that happened to me. She doesn't want to ruin a friendship because she doesn't feel an attraction to you anymore. Don't take it personality. We can't all have chemistry with everyone.
It took me so long to realize I needed to take that as a red flag that we were not building a relationship on trust.
This is for your bf, dude. we all like to have pics and videos of our gf, but come on, dude, she said no, so stop taking pics and videos
ngl i would just break up. that whole overbearing mom thing is not something i’d want to be tied to. he’s a grown man but he still allows his mother to dictate his life. getting married into a situation like that is literally my form of hell.
Here insecurities aren't yours to work through. You've accommodated her insecurities about as much as possible and she demands more.
If you want to stay together, she needs to work through her issues.
She is dismissing your concerns undoubtedly she enjoys the attention… dude if she even considers going I would tell her not to come back… this is unacceptable
Her birthday is tomorrow ill be there for that i just dont want to be here for this day when i can do something i actually want to do
she should be home taking care of him and her son. Not just that she should be home. This shows he doesn't respect her as a person, just a nanny. Just someone to do everything for him.
It sounds like what you’re saying is the only acceptable situation is for her to just stay there and do what he wants forever no matter how much that’s not what she wants. Am I misinterpreting your comment, because that seems to be the gist of it?
Oral sex isn't sex. It's just a blow job. As I said it's up to you to come clean about it if you want to. You were not in a relationship with her at the time so I wonder what's the big fuss here.
Recommend talking to your sister to get to the bottom of it. Trust your guy, it was real.
Break up with her. Only sadness is waiting for you