No, don't tell her. You have no idea what their situation is. He might have a free pass to cheat as long as it's not in her face so all you'd be doing is causing a fight. If you had a good time keep that in mind and cut contact.
It sounds silly to say you’re looking at Shane differently because “he can’t protect you”. I think what you really mean is that you’re turned off by him after seeing him get his ass handed to him.
Why doesn't the boyfriend just ask genuinely for a handjob so he doesn't have to be all sneaky about it? Unless OP doesn't give his boyfriend handjobs/blowjobs?
If you don't want to marry someone you've been dating for 7 years at that point it sounds like you actually just don't want to be married. Which is fine. But you need to let her know that.
From her perspective marriage brings stability and permanency. A lot of women are pressured that their 20s are the only time that decent men will want them. She's expressed how she feels and you can react how you feel is necessary.
The guy said their both adults. IF this started around the time I suspected this, it wouldn't mean they both would've been adults. That wouldn't make my brother a rapist tho, hence why I said that was not where I was going with this.
People work off context clues so even if you aren't THAT youthful looking, if you dress like a teenager and wear backpacks people assume you're a teenager.
3 years.
No, don't tell her. You have no idea what their situation is. He might have a free pass to cheat as long as it's not in her face so all you'd be doing is causing a fight. If you had a good time keep that in mind and cut contact.
Thanks pal. I really appreciate your insight. It’s good to know that someone else has gone through it and can empathize.
It sounds silly to say you’re looking at Shane differently because “he can’t protect you”. I think what you really mean is that you’re turned off by him after seeing him get his ass handed to him.
Why doesn't the boyfriend just ask genuinely for a handjob so he doesn't have to be all sneaky about it? Unless OP doesn't give his boyfriend handjobs/blowjobs?
If you don't want to marry someone you've been dating for 7 years at that point it sounds like you actually just don't want to be married. Which is fine. But you need to let her know that.
From her perspective marriage brings stability and permanency. A lot of women are pressured that their 20s are the only time that decent men will want them. She's expressed how she feels and you can react how you feel is necessary.
Hahaha reading this makes me super grateful I married someone with the same values and background as me. Take that with what you will.
You have a child with immature woman. Congrats… 🙁
The guy said their both adults. IF this started around the time I suspected this, it wouldn't mean they both would've been adults. That wouldn't make my brother a rapist tho, hence why I said that was not where I was going with this.
People work off context clues so even if you aren't THAT youthful looking, if you dress like a teenager and wear backpacks people assume you're a teenager.