Depends on the guy, some guys like to be told how great they’re how big haha sometimes it’s nice to just hear her moan and make her own noises. That’s what I like. Some guys like dirty talk. But it sounds like he is needing something more to climax. I could be wrong but after 3 years this is just starting it’s either he needs something to help his climax or someone told him to try it
As others have stated, get the blister pack. If she claims it’s more expensive, offer to buy them for her.
Can you move the cat food?
If none of the above are feasible, then ask yourself why you are with a person who would not make a small accommodation over something they felt that strongly about, whether they themselves did or not. There is a small coat on her part to satisfy your request, whether she feels it’s reasonable or not. If she’s not willing to compromise on this, what does that portend for your future when, inevitably, you will have times where much greater needs or demands arise? That’s what this is about. She can’t do this for you even though you feel so strongly about it? And doesn’t realize that going back to her previous behavior is a major “fuck you”? Not good, my friend.
Thanks for taking the time to help me out. I agree, and when I looked around trying to find situations like this on Reddit to try and make sense of it, the term “emotional cheating” unfortunately seems to describe it best.
And you’re right, the focus should be on myself, and this situation has been playing on my mind more than I care to admit. To the point where I even find myself going over it at work and all that stupid stuff.
It’s tough because I genuinely care about her, with or without the feelings I may have. But I think having this conversation, while it may mean losing contact, is better for the long run.
It’s not a situation I’ve found myself in before, so I really appreciate the perspective.
You had have to grow a bit of a thicker skin. Iranian people are very direct, especially if their English isn't great. That's every chance she doesn't mean it. Talk to you bf
Is there something wrong with it? Is the bed in there decent? If y'all aren't having intimacy together before bed, falling asleep together, or waking up together, literally being asleep next to another person is the least important part of a relationship. I actually just woke up in the last half hour, and I don't remember any of being asleep next to my partner while I was sleeping last night for some reason.
If there's stuff in the bedroom you want to use or access (I'm guessing your clothes, for one), I don't think switching off rooms is unreasonable. If there's stuff you actually want to use that would also make sense in a living room, maybe it's time for that to go to a common area.
I don't know, maybe it's because I faced a similar issue in a studio apartment for years and made it work, but this seems like such a non-problem. I feel like you're actually asking how to change his sleep schedule. I don't know why he's sleeping that much and I don't actually know if yours is even reasonable. But seriously, you don't risk waking him up, so just go about your life. I also am not sure when you work, but consider sleeping later. Hth
Which is completely and utterly pointless . The social problems the kid is facing won't change because he now believes that the bullying is built on lies instead of truths …
Are you serious? I have a baseball team of kids. My spouse travel for work. Now who does the laundry? I do. WITH the kids home. You will be alone and can't wash your own clothes or clean up after yourself?
ALSO record everything if she starts freaking out or tries to stop you from leaving
Just in case she tries to claim you did something that you didn’t do
Depends on the guy, some guys like to be told how great they’re how big haha sometimes it’s nice to just hear her moan and make her own noises. That’s what I like. Some guys like dirty talk. But it sounds like he is needing something more to climax. I could be wrong but after 3 years this is just starting it’s either he needs something to help his climax or someone told him to try it
I’d also get mad if I had a best friend that sent me nudes I didn’t ask for. This should be treated the same as a dick pic.
As others have stated, get the blister pack. If she claims it’s more expensive, offer to buy them for her.
Can you move the cat food?
If none of the above are feasible, then ask yourself why you are with a person who would not make a small accommodation over something they felt that strongly about, whether they themselves did or not. There is a small coat on her part to satisfy your request, whether she feels it’s reasonable or not. If she’s not willing to compromise on this, what does that portend for your future when, inevitably, you will have times where much greater needs or demands arise? That’s what this is about. She can’t do this for you even though you feel so strongly about it? And doesn’t realize that going back to her previous behavior is a major “fuck you”? Not good, my friend.
Nope its consent first always. You always assume its just for you unless the person says its ok
Thanks for taking the time to help me out. I agree, and when I looked around trying to find situations like this on Reddit to try and make sense of it, the term “emotional cheating” unfortunately seems to describe it best.
And you’re right, the focus should be on myself, and this situation has been playing on my mind more than I care to admit. To the point where I even find myself going over it at work and all that stupid stuff.
It’s tough because I genuinely care about her, with or without the feelings I may have. But I think having this conversation, while it may mean losing contact, is better for the long run.
It’s not a situation I’ve found myself in before, so I really appreciate the perspective.
You had have to grow a bit of a thicker skin. Iranian people are very direct, especially if their English isn't great. That's every chance she doesn't mean it. Talk to you bf
Poly isn’t an orientation you’re born with it’s a choice. You can’t “be poly” if your partner doesn’t agree to it. She’s just cheating on him.
Is there something wrong with it? Is the bed in there decent? If y'all aren't having intimacy together before bed, falling asleep together, or waking up together, literally being asleep next to another person is the least important part of a relationship. I actually just woke up in the last half hour, and I don't remember any of being asleep next to my partner while I was sleeping last night for some reason.
If there's stuff in the bedroom you want to use or access (I'm guessing your clothes, for one), I don't think switching off rooms is unreasonable. If there's stuff you actually want to use that would also make sense in a living room, maybe it's time for that to go to a common area.
I don't know, maybe it's because I faced a similar issue in a studio apartment for years and made it work, but this seems like such a non-problem. I feel like you're actually asking how to change his sleep schedule. I don't know why he's sleeping that much and I don't actually know if yours is even reasonable. But seriously, you don't risk waking him up, so just go about your life. I also am not sure when you work, but consider sleeping later. Hth
Which is completely and utterly pointless . The social problems the kid is facing won't change because he now believes that the bullying is built on lies instead of truths …
Are you serious? I have a baseball team of kids. My spouse travel for work. Now who does the laundry? I do. WITH the kids home. You will be alone and can't wash your own clothes or clean up after yourself?