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I agree at telling her will make her suffer more and thats a thing i dont want to happen and i wont let that happen. But im sure i love her as my friend (in a platonic way AND in a romantic one) i dont define love as you do and thats okay everything is always depending on the perspective. I know her for 20 years and i know myself even longer and i can say with all certainty im in love with her and im not confused at that point i had more than enough time to sort my feelings out.
But recognizing it doesnt change anything, i will support her and give her the best time in her life through her marriage with her best friend and maid of honor by her side and after that i deal with myself …therapy seems extrem but maybe its necessary time will tell
Kick her out before she has resident status. Just change the locks while she’s gone and hand her her shit.
Great advice. Well stated.
Sweetheart. I get that you have blinders on because he's your brother.
He already knows its wrong.
You can't do anything to stop it. Watch out at family gatherings if he's around children.
confront him?? leave & block his number.
We both truly love each other
You've only been dating for three months. You're not deeply in love, you're still in the honeymoon infatuation phase.
As for the rest of it, there actually is a program in the National Guard called Split Training, where you take Basic during the summer between junior and senior year of high school, go to weekend trainings your senior year, and go back for more training after graduation. That secondary training is called Advanced Individual Training, and I can understand why her family wouldn't understand the difference. Basic training is the physical fitness part, AIT is job specific training. So, no, it's not guaranteed that she's lying just based on this.
However, in order to become an Officer, you need a college degree. That's why ROTC is a college program. That could just be something she wasn't aware of, or something that was miscommunicated to her by her recruiter.
After reviewing everything she told me, timelines, fort locations, parameters, etc, I can confirm this was a lie.
How can you confirm it? You're not immediate family and she's not a minor. They wouldn't be giving you any information about her. Tell me how you've decided that she's lying.
Specifically, her being surrounded by a bunch of young men in the Army who are incredibly horny and will constantly attempt to seduce her
You don't know much about Army guys if you think this is what they're going to prioritize.
She is a cheater. Twice in two years isn’t a slip-up or a mistake or a lapse in judgement. It’s a pattern. My guess is she cheats on you constantly and these are just the ones you know about. But no matter what, there is no way you can trust a thing she says. I think you know what to do, but if you need someone to say it … it’s time to move on and let this girl go.
Ask him about the things he likes and tell him about the things you like. See what you have in common.
If you want to think you are overreacting, far be it for me to tell you what to think. However, you are hearing wisdom from people older and wiser than your friends, who know from our own experiences that you are not. Your boyfriend is allowing and encouraging a female co worker cross boundaries. Did you know a majority of the cheating that takes place is with co workers? But by all means, go ahead and keep excusing him and listening to people who don’t have half the experience some of us do here, and feel miserable and shitty about him all the time.
You made it obvious that you wanted to get to know her, yes, but you didn't specify whether you planned to do this before or after asking her out on a date.
And, to be clear, I'm actually with this girl: when I read your messages, I interpreted it as meaning that you weren't that interested.
I'd re-establish contact with her and clarify that you do want to ask her out.
Do it, its always better to do it and regret than to always wonder “what if I”
I wouldn't go up to her and say hi. When she's looking at you, just say hi or give her a smile. This could leave the door open in case you surprised her, and she fumbled her answer and is actually interested.
Your WH has no remorse, no regrets, he's just not sorry, and he has always put work first and never been there for you emotionally.
If you had a good friend, and she came to you with that story, what advice would you give about how to live the rest of her life ?
You have worth, you are strong, and you deserve someone who cares for you, cares how you feel, and will put you first.
Divorce, with no remorse and no regrets.
I understand where you are coming from but at the same time I completely understand your girlfriend’s perspective- she is probably feeling neglected and bored, which at her age is difficult to cope with.
Have you considered ending it so you have more time for your school and projects?
The other solution would be to encourage her to do more things by herself and with her friends but it’s perfectly reasonable for her to want to spend quality time with her partner.
He flew way past complete idiot. I have no idea where this guy is going to land.
Is this serious? You came to reddit for relationship advice over ketchup? If two people cant figure out that they should be eating on separate plates for what THEY like, then idk what else to tell you. I like dipping into ketchup and my bf like to slop it all over it. I hate that. Hate the taste. But he asks me if I want any fries or want to separafe them before he does that. Simple asf. We're 26.
You need a counselor or to be separated if you fought over ketchup.