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Date: October 8, 2022
I'm sorry you are going through this.
I read your original post. OP, I hope I can be like you in the face of adversity. You had a really amazing approach and communicated really well.
I wish you both the best of luck.
Well, a lot of women, particularly older women, grew up in a world that told us that pretty much everything was our fault. A lot of women believe it. And if you're a woman that nothing really bad ever happened to, you want to believe that you'd “just been smart” and avoided it by actively doing what you were supposed to.
They tell themselves that they're smarter or better than victims, because they really think that they made a choice to not be a victim, therefore victims make choices that allow them to become victims.
Yes, it's disgusting, but it's also incredibly delusional.
Have you tried discussing any of this with him at all?
I’ll edit the post to clarify, I can still contact her via IG
I don’t know if trauma ever goes away, but there is a way to cope with trauma and to lessen it’s grasp on you (cognitive behavioral therapy). It’s what I’m working on with my therapist currently. I wish you luck.
why the fuck are you living together if you have only been together for 3 months? Sounds like you are a trainwreck and make a lot of bad choices. No wonder you were fired and still haven't found a job 3 weeks later. Get your shit together because who wants to be together with a loser.
You are being a hypocrite. You said you would never support a cheater yet you are taking Sarah's side. My guess is their marriage was over when Sarah cheated on John with his friend and they probably stayed for the kids. I know 10 years is a long time but some people don't get over it. I bet their marriage was already in shambles and it finally got over when John met the other lady. Both of these people seem broken. Don't let their shitty relationship affect yours.
Alrighty, well first I'd recommend working out if you actually want to be in a relationship with this woman?
After that you work out what impact a baby has. Whether yours or not.
Alrighty, well first I'd recommend working out if you actually want to be in a relationship with this woman?
After that you work out what impact a baby has. Whether yours or not.
You need to dump this guy. He’s manipulating you into feeling guilty about something you should NOT feel guilty about. He’s cheating with his co-worker and that was just a way of trying to get you to think nothings happening.
He will now use this repeatedly to guilt you, so he can freely cheat on her while you look after him.
You deserve better! This is bullshit! My ex husband pulled something similar with his co-worker and at their company dinner they walked out of the venue in front of me hand in hand.
Oh, but he never slept with her, cause she’s “fat”, so he definitely wasn’t atttacted to her.
He straight up sucked. I’m so much happier without him.
Leave girl!!!
I don’t think it’s quite doomed, but it is on the way there if you don’t step up. I don’t think you have commitment issues, it’s just the relationship becoming stale.
First thing to do is communicate this with her. Apologize and tell her that you aren’t used to taking the initiative to plan things when it comes to dates, but that’ll you’ll change. Next step is just that, take initiative. Women love a man that will take charge and plan something, as it shows that they care enough. And if you don’t do it, she’ll lose attraction and find other guys that will!
Money and a car would definitely help here, but you’ll have to go with alternatives. Plan long distance activities like watching movies or playing games until you can next see each other. Plan a date for then, whether you need to a hitch a ride or whatever. In the meantime, work passively on getting a job and eventual a license so you can take her out on nicer dates!
Just an fyi, lying about your past because you’re afraid you’ll lose your partner isn’t a justification for lying.
People have the right to informed consent, and being worried that you’ll be rejected for shitty behavior doesn’t excuse lying, it’s just how the world works.
Is there a reason you haven’t used your words to ask her what’s going on….?
No it shouldn't be, we can all have opinions on it at a personal level or an abstract one but it is entirely inappropriate to try to coerce someone into changing their mind.
Anything else is inappropriate.
This is exactly it
that’s one situation taken as the whole context of us
Sounds like a man who is eager to do what it takes to make you happy!
Ok so hypothetically rent was 1300 and raised to 1800. We split the rent in half which was 650. With the rent being higher she was saying she wouldn't have as much money and would be broke after paying. When we wrote down all our bills. (Car notes ect that we pay on our own) I noticed that she was paying 200 on a credit card and 600 for a car note. I know that she made the bills higher than what they are because I was there for her getting her car so I know what's the minimum ect. My thing is if you can pay extra on your own bills you can pay the full amount of rent that you owe.
She says its odd how I have several interests and they bounce back and forth, from this to web design, to making t-shirts, etc. and im like, “so you're saying its bad to have more than one hobby?”
So she basically said “do your radio thing, I don't want to know about it or hear about it. I don't care about it”
Yes she said she would pay it straight back. He used his credit card. He doesn't want to borrow money from her, what are you on about?
This is really tough. It’s highly likely she’s a sociopath. You won’t win with her. But someone else might.
You need to go to the mattresses on this one and think how she thinks.
Put her photos on tinder. Use her real phone number.
Don’t do anything from your own devices.
You can’t be around your family until she’s gone.
You say “bye asshole enjoy getting cheatin on again” and block him everywhere so he cant come crawling back like the slug he is
I agree. OP is making this a way bigger issue. We have friends like this. One recently bought a vacation house and we haven’t been invited, but In our group of friends it’s more Customary to invite yourself.
That sounds amazing honestly!
Here’s what you need to understand when you break up with him and we all hope you do, he is going to get toxic quickly. First it will be name calling and saying awful things, then it will be apologies and wine and dine. Then harassment at work, he was the cool guy who scored a younger woman he’s gonna be embarrassed to get dumped and take it out on you. Just be prepared
That's why he picked you. Age was easier to defend in terms of going to court and prison.
I love this question. Thank you! I can see that I did this a few years ago. I like playmates and I’m super hesitant to make up my mind in the early days. But most of all, I think my Little Kid inside thinks getting them to actually choose me instead of their free spirit life or whatever it is and show me they’ve “got me”no matter what (like I do) would unfuck some story about unworthiness, abandonment, and betrayal from my dad leaving.
But the bitch is the last two of these relationships pursued ME. It was so refreshing that it seemed like they knew exactly what they wanted. But once it got real, they were super disorganized in their attachment. All kinds of letting me down and not showing up for me when I needed them but apologizing profusely and begging me to stay. Why do I keep calling this in??
Wow, nasty and so dishonest.
Have you mentioned how it makes you feel to her? What was her response?
Ok for the moment you need to just focus on your wife and new baby (congratulations btw). Your wife has just had a C-Section so she won’t be too mobile so you need to be the best dad in the world. Change as many nappies as you can, bring your wife her favourite food in bed. Bring her flowers, read to her when baby is asleep. Sooth baby when she’s crying. You have some making up to do in that department. As for Amanda and her mother, I honestly don’t think there’s much you can do except take Amanda out for a coffee, sit down and talk it out. Talk everything out. Her mother isn’t worth your time. She was a 20 year old adult who got pregnant with a 16 year old child which is wrong on so many levels and then took advantage of you and poisoned your relationship with your daughter when you obviously couldn’t be around because you were a minor.
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Buddy, you know what to do.It might be a little scary, especially after you've been with this person for so long, making such a huge change in your life, the conversation will be rough but at the end of the day, it all boils down to this.
You don't deserve that, nobody should go into an argument, no matter the magnitude, thinking “I better hold back so I don't get spat on” so kick that disgrace to the curb pronto!
My favorite is “And your brain is obviously underweight, but commenting on that would impolite”
Yeah but this is my boyfriend, it’s not some random guy that overheard a joke. I guess how would you handle the situation if your partner was using your jokes as their own ? That’s more of what I’m asking or if it’s any sort of a red flag
You know why he kicked you out. It’s right there in your post.
He probably talks to his Mom. She probably isn’t pulling ideas and opinions out of thin air.
She was skipping school to see you. She got pregnant in her teens. She cheated on you, both emotionally and physically. You spammed and begged her to take you back, and she continued to cheat on you. You manipulated her with these fake suicide attempts and threats. You blackmailed her and threatened to use revenge porn on her. And threatened to expose her sexual assault history.
You’re both fucked up. This relationship is extremely toxic, to both of your faults. You need to break up, there’s no fixing this relationship. And you both need some SERIOUS therapy. There’s nothing we can do for you over a Reddit post, you need help from a professional.
Yeah this sounds like she is cheating. Gather your evidence.
Yeah this sounds like she is cheating. Gather your evidence.
Info: what is he doing on the weekends? I get that weeknights can be hectic but he must have time on the weekends.
What a blanking asshole. Who in their right mind thinks about anything sexual when you just lost a pregnancy and had surgery in a very sensitive area? Shit, I had emergency ball surgery not that long ago and I sure wasn’t in the mood for anything sexual and not a happy camper at all in a similar time frame (that first day after surgery when the good pain meds wore off I wasn’t someone you wanted to be around).
If this happened to me (my partner wanted some attention like him) I wouldn’t have been very nice and a lot of words you shouldn’t say to those you love would’ve come out and mine wasn’t nearly as invasive as yours was. I’m surprised you haven’t “whooped his ass” from this (not literally but the general sentiment).
From the sound of it, this is new and differently warrants a heart-to-heart when he’s done “relieving himself” and pouting like a baby. I would look to see if anything happened recently and make sure he understands how inappropriate and asinine he was being with this.
When you’re recovered I would check his internet history and make sure he didn’t escalate and did something really and permanently awful like some babies do when they don’t get their way. I’m wishing you luck and take the pain meds carefully. Good luck!
Ever talked about how you're feeling with your wife?
If that were true then there wouldn’t be dozens of different interpretations and sects of Islam. Simple fact is that no religion is infallible, and no religion has one single interpretation.