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Wrong.
My wife comes every time because I use a silver bullet on her while we fuck, so we both win
I've tried many times, now the 8th time to break up with my girlfriend and kick her out. The issue is every time she has a panic attack, which leads to her migraines, which results in projectile vomit and diarrhea.
So, she whips herself up into a mad frenzy to stop you from breaking up with her.
It's not a condition, it's an abuse tactic. Stick to your guns and kick her out. $5 says that when she figures out it's actually for real, the “panic attack” drops and the claws come out.
I pay for our rent and all the bills.
Stop doing that. You never should have agreed to do that, and you should stop now.
He grew up with a stay at home mom who pretty much coddled him his entire life and it feels like he expects me to do the same for him but without actually asking for it
So don't do it. And call him out for not doing his share.
There are opportunities for me to relocate for work and I’m tempted to break up with him bf if I do relocate
This sounds like a good idea. Do this. You can get yourself a new dog.
I’m too scared that no one is going to care for me the way my bf does.
You're scared that nobody else is going to sponge off you and expect you to clean up after them? Really?
What
Keeping guy in a committed and getting serious relationship as a backup. To be discarded if things work out with plan A. Well done.
Buy him a free colonoscopy cause he’s a giant ass. If you spend more than $20 on him this year you just love being hurt.
Rude how? Trying to join your conversations? Do you expect her to just sit there mutely while you two talk?
If you want time with your buddy just the two of you, express that to him and make plans for that. If he chooses to have his girlfriend along when you hang out, then your beef is with him, not her.
The fact there is no trace of the kid being there (and there is always child related detritus in a house with kids) means she does not see her kid.
I'm not sure that this is a very good example of the problem you are feeling, because it does come off like you were upset at him over something unfair, and instantly reacted a bit harshly, rather than just talking to him. The way I read this, he accidentally committed to two events, yours second. That would mean yours should be the one he bows out of, (simple etiquette), but he wasn't sure he wanted to, and wanted to discuss it with you, or finding a way to get to both by splitting the evening. And your POV was that you didn't care about his situation, or prior commitment and felt yours was more important, and so told him so…which is frankly rude, and uncaring of his desire to discuss it.
If you're “always” (I'm gonna say he's probably exaggerating with that) responding to his comments this way, then I kinda can't blame him for being frustrated, and I also don't think it's fair for you to act like you were communicating anything other than frustration and annoyance.
Yeah, you need to be allowed to communicate frustration and annoyance. But if you “always” (again, he's probably exaggerating) do so in the way indicated here, of course he's gonna say he feels like you're trying to start fights.
Yeah, this seems like high-school level shittiness. Like if you guys are 16-19 I can sorta understand her just being socially oblivious to how shitty that comment was, but if you guys aren't teens that's a big yikes.
Your size is completely normal, and she really didn't need to make that comment.
Are you for real? The commenter just told you that your bf pretty much threatened you and made a conscious decision to do so, and allowed himself to hurt you in the future, which makes him abusive and scary, and you heard: “you upset him so much!” instead?
??your comment made me tearful, I didn't feel anything until you said that (felt cared about) if that makes sense x
Take everything. Get a good lawyer.
Dude.
I'm sure all of us who have gone through some or all of the parenting process with kids in whatever stage they are now wish we could go back in time, sit our new parent selves down and slap the shit out of us.
Forgot one other thing: OP: if you're reading this, screw “fair”. You parent each kid individually. What works for one doesn't work for the next. You figure out what in general doesn't work.
The type of psychologist matters. I would recommend seeing a clinical psychologist or clincal social worker with several years of experience.
If the current psychologist is not working after a couple of additional sessions, say so and ask her for a reference. Therapists get that they do not work well with everyone and will help you find someone that can fit you.
Also, it is important to differentiate between a therapist that is not working for you and a therapist who is making slow, major changes in your life. Major therapy takes time and the list of conditions you gave contains several issues which take time to heal. When I was 25 (this was several years ago!), I had major depression and nearly committed suicide. I saw a clinical social worker 2X a week and became stable after a year or so.
Dj’s are a hard pass for me I’ve learned the hard way lol. But if they are good and in a good market they can make a lot of money. If they have great marketing they can travel the world and a small percentage end up famous.
If she’s cheating on you then it begs a conversation and a question of “why did you ask me to stay when you were so unhappy? WTF is wrong with you as a human being that you would do that?”
Seriously ask her while you’re preparing to move out.
It wasn't.
Sweetie. Internet mom here. He’s not a good boyfriend. He texts another woman more than he texts you. He’s saying that he’s single. The real question is why are you settling for this? He denies having a girlfriend.
She deserves to know, tell her so that she can decide for herself what she wants to do
Maybe 8 months is enough time for him to accept the break up, fall in love with himself again and move on to better things (including you maybe)
Thank you! That’s a good idea. We usually don’t designate any cuddle time day to day in the same bed, for the sake of just cuddling. I’ll do that. As far as his snoring, it’s VERY loud and permeates my deepest of sleeps. No one can sleep through it. He’s had comments about it from friends and exes.
Read the title as babysitter is pregnant and was very confused for a min
OP – if no one else says it (and I hope that they do), can I just say that you are one awesome individual. And for that matter so is your bf.
Look after him (and yourself) for us all.
This seems like a bully tactic. Okay the dude doesn't trust his wife. Now what?
> apologize to your partner for ignoring his needs for so long.
Mate, its a week out of every 18 months, lets relax now.
Your son is getting your last name, right? Since he can only “guarantee” that he is yours? No matter what you do with your relationship, when you sign that birth certificate your last name goes down.
He has irreparably broken your trust, I think. He accused you of cheating and that is pretty fucked up when he seems so willing to carry on having a kid with you. Even if he grovels, that kid gets your name, because clearly your husband isn't particularly attached, or at least is suspicious.
Think about how this relationship makes you feel, the highs and the lows. The intensity of those feelings, the duration. All of it as a package.
(Not how it used to make you feel. Not how you want it to feel. Not how you think it could feel if he changed. The actual state of the current relationship.)
Do you want to spend the rest of your life feeling that way? If not, you should move on.
i've never had a bf who seemed to care about me like he did before. he put pain patches on my back, walked with my in the dark to take the dog pee cos i couldn't see, encouraged me to pursue creating art, showed interest in the things i loved… i never had that before. and i don't feel like i will ever have that again.
“he helped through a dark phase”
More like he fucked her through a dark phase
It's okay to have boundaries and stick to them man
I keep hearing people saying “My partner is so wonderful except” and the except is something horrible and offensive. “But I love them” You might love them, but the thing is if your partner is treating you like an object (which yours is) then they don't love you. THEY DONT LOVE YOU! People who love you try to make your life better. People who love you compliment you. People who love you are grateful for what you do for them. Your partner tells you that part of your body is not good enough for them. Your partner reduces you to a body part. Your partner thinks its ok to take what they need regardless of how you feel. Your partner doesn't care about your feelings. Your partner does not love you! I hope you understand this and walk away. Never ever let anyone tell you that you aren't good enough again.
With more context, I understand your situation more, so thank you and sorry for assuming!
I definitely think an open convo would be the best decision to make. Just a reminder: your boundaries are worth standing up for, you’re not asking for much and it’s not a toxic expectation. Please don’t ever feel as if you’re over reacting with things like this, I understand why you’d feel upset.
Good luck with this all and I hope it turns out well 🙂
You fix it by leaving him. No one has any right to use any part of your body without your consent.
The problem is that he’s not able to come or stay hard during real sex
As a man who's dealt with this issue because of past traumas, there are lots of options for this problem… None of which involve shaming your partner or their genitals. It probably has nothing to do with the tightness of your vagina, and vaginas naturally lengthen and loosen as you become aroused.
If you experience that issue with future, better partners who don't violate your consent, you can use toys, warming lube, pills, dirty talk, different positions, start involving hands and mouths. Lots of options that don't involve you doing things you don't want to do.
Sex is complicated and doesn't always work just like in videos, and it's good you want to please your partner, but please don't stay with someone who doesn't respect you.
Bro isn't gender exclusive
You go to the doctor for a check up every couple months? What?
You can’t. The problem is that you refuse to accept that answer. She has to want to change, you can’t do that for her.
You can’t. The problem is that you refuse to accept that answer. She has to want to change, you can’t do that for her.
You sound kind of possessive. And totally ignorant of women’s issues. I bet you love to say “but not all men” but in the same breath “but you should have been more cautious and not trusted those men”.
Women do not use the “boyfriend” line because either it doesn’t work and the guy doesn’t care or he becomes aggressive and insulting and accuses her of lying or that she’s up herself if she thinks she good looking enough, etc.
Better to reject in the safety of your own home.
Educate yourself. Because I’m thinking she thinks you’re a good man just because the ones that came before you were really awful and made you look good, when really you’re just bare minimum.
For real OP, you’re only 4 months in. There should be no “I guess we just won’t have sex. How do I tell him we should stop?” No it should be “I guess we need to break up”.
If you truly care this much about him, tell him he needs to stop watching porn. But I don’t think that ride of getting him to actually stop and trust him to stop is worth it. Just break it off.
Porn addiction isn't normal, and the consequences of if aren't yours to deal with.
You clearly see sex as being important in a relationship, and unless this dude takes care of his issues, you'll end up miserable.
Talk to him, and tell him how you feel. If nothing changes then it's probably over.
He's says if i ever marry I'll marry only you and he's asking me to wait if i can while he's enjoying his life.
OMFG!!!! That is a super selfish & screwed up statement. so he can f**k around BUT YOU HAVE TO WAUT FOR HIM!?
at 30 & yet still doing crap then he is immature. This man is selfish, disrespectful, ungrateful, immature, unworthy, liar, cheater & now a manwh@re. why are even grieving for him & the relationship!
you are no longer engaged so you should go out, have fun, make new friends & get a better man. you deserve better than a man that wasted 8 years of your life.
Right. There are red lines everyone can agree to. (cheating, stealing, drug use, abuse)
There are lines that most people don't talk about – like if someone got into a horrific car accident and could no longer perform. Cancer. Stuff like that. You say you can until… something happens.
Is that moral? I don't know. It's a personal choice for every individual.
I would have said, okay, where do you want your stuff? And when she asks, what stuff, motion around the room and say your stuff. Where do you want me to take it because you’re not coming back here.
He just says he doesn't know why he did that
He does and so does his ex
Are girls really that evil/crazy to where they want their ex to suffer instead of just wanting them to be doing well
Don't call me bub… Bro.
Maybe… She just wanted to celebrate with her friends and husband.
You don't mention, but even is your relationship like with her? You say you're a protective older sister, but she's an adult, she doesn't need that very much anymore, so that's not relevant – has she ever given any indication that she doesn't like you playing big sister to her now that you're grown up?
Are you friends or are you sisters, or both? Some people can only pick one box (I, myself, am a younger sister and I'm not friends with my older sister; we get along really well, hang out and stuff, but we're not friends).
If you have a good relationship, it won't be an attack to ask, Hey, so, how was your birthday? Just… Gently open the door, maybe mention you saw the picture, oh that looked nice, I hope you had a good time. Don't pressure her, make her feel comfortable so that she may feel safe enough to initiate a conversation. But if not, you're gonna have to stop being a doormat (a synonym to people pleaser) and just come out and ask, unless you want to keep holding on to this disappointment.
But I will say – you may need to prepare yourself to hear that your sister doesn't, in fact, want to include you in things. Maybe for some cruel reason, maybe because she wants her own circle of friends and (however hurtful) you're just not a part of it. Or maybe she wants some distance to make her own identity beside being your little sister.
I don't know, I'm not her and I don't know you, but these are possibilities you should consider.
You could suggest, if she doesn't want to have you in her parties (her right, and it doesn't make her an asshole necessarily, no matter how much is stings, if true), a private celebration, just the two of you, a little coffee and dessert, a meal, whatever, a new tradition, nothing fancy, just to try and maintain your bond.
-pat pat- I understand this is one of the presumably many things you’re terrible at
It’s okay my dude, you tried.
My wife has been cheated on in her past relationships, we have an open phone policy. Neither of us have ever gone through each other’s phones. Knowing we could is enough.
If she’s got trust issues, she can work on them instead of skirting it and handing off the work to you. You and everyone who messages you deserves privacy.
Tell him you saw the girl and to explain who she is.
And then is he comes back with some bull that she was with his mate,
Say well that's wierd because she was sitting next to you??
Don't let him minimise this,
Tell him
' who was the girl in the video you sent me??'
Then after he answers say.
' I find it very odd she was sitting next to you on the bed, I find it highly inappropriate and it's making me second guess this relationship and you'
Then don't reply to him and give yourself a few days to figure out what you want… do you want to continue not knowing if he hooked up with her or do you want to cut and run