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A racist insecure asshat with a drinking problem really isnt all that special, tbh. You're naivety is just being taken advantage of again.
I feel both could be either situation, I'm hope I wrong and he's a man that's scared of a wife's wrath after being something expensive
I only suggested the DV perspective as rarely people want to buy something and run away or be fearful for a reason
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You are having issues in a 2 month relationship! Dear lord just break up!
Jeez girl you need to break up and work on yourself. Never in a healthy partnership should one set ‘rules’ for the other. Being single is not the arse-end-of-nothing silly movies would have you believe, can actually be pretty good!
Jeez girl you need to break up and work on yourself. Never in a healthy partnership should one set ‘rules’ for the other. Being single is not the arse-end-of-nothing silly movies would have you believe, can actually be pretty good!
I dont want to kick her out as she has no money and nowhere to go, can barely do physical activity and is suicidal.
I know you don't, but this woman has been manipulating you from day one, and is using you.
You're not doing yourself a favour by enabling her.
I recognise she has been abusive in the past but she has been loving as well.
No abuser is abusive 24/7. You clearly have no idea how deeply you're caught in the cycle of abuse.
If she was a terrible person I would have no problems just kicking her out, thats the issue
She is a shitty person, the issue is you're caught in the cycle of abuse.
Get yourself some therapy, learn about abuse, look into u/ebbie45's compilation of resources. And again: TALK TO YOUR FAMILY, get away from her.
Why should she contribute to his spending? He’s spending money he doesn’t have. Why should she get another job because he is irresponsible?
This is not my beautiful house! This is not my beautiful furniture!
“invaded and violated” as opposed to his feelings that she's awfully suspicious about having a once worn lingerie under her bed with stains on it in an otherwise clean room?
she claimed she tried it on and that's all… yet stains are present.
Sorry but her answers doesn't seem on the level so you can claim “violated” in response to justified problems with the given situation and provided answers but those problems still exist.
Has he even mentioned leaving his partner for you or does he just want to cheat?
Could you ever feel settled both bring poly then ending it and staying together?
You will always wonder if you are both truly okay with monogamy. Typically monogamous people choose monogamy from the start. It provides a history and behaviour to base your trust.
So your husband is violent too? The more you describe him the less this marriage sounds like a good idea.
If she said she isn't ready for a relationship, why are you going to bring it up again? It doesn't sound like that's what she wants. You're going to have to accept that and remain her friend. If you can't, this friendship isn't for you.
Don't do it. That's not fair to her
She was extremely into me. Like texted me all the day, wanted to hang out lots. It’s why the sudden change doesn’t make me believe she doesn’t care.
I agree. Couples therapy is probably the best route to go. At least to see where we can go from here. I appreciate you talking to me about this. It helps a lot
You said he was relatively sober so I think that means he drank some. Alcohol can have that effect. Also, I'm guessing it was late at night. Maybe he was just tired. That can certainly do it. You said he fell asleep so that actually would be my first guess as to the reason. Also, testosterone levels are higher in the morning than at night. Maybe when you wake up tomorrow he'll be ready. It could be other things to but it's probably not you.
Unless it starts happening most of the time I wouldn't worry about it.
You should definitely go on your family vacation- you love them, you love to ski. Don't miss out!
Your boyfriend can make his own health decisions, but those choices can have consequences. There is so much peer-reviewed data showing the vaccines are safe and effective: if he still refuses to get the shot, and also listens to conspiracy theories? – that's on him.
It's unfair of him to expect you to give up your precious family tradition, all because he can't come along.
Whether this is a relationship deal breaker is up to you.
No, you're right and its not a small thing, its a very big thing.
This is also another thing I’ve done too. So yeah… we’ve talked plenty of times about moving it forward. Now it’s starting to head that way. Started really last year when we got more touchy, holding hands… etc . Like all of this seemed to naturally progress without that side of miscommunication. Like it was clear what we were doing and how we are now still expressing how we care for each other. It’s those feelings I’m more concerned about because it’s becomes scary when things continue to slide into place but cause you to doubt when bigger decisions like moving arise.
He’s only stopped for 3 weeks? Don’t waste your time on addicts.
Do I continue my relationship w/ my dad?
What relationship?
I'm not saying that to be cruel, I just think the bluntness will help you. There is no relationship with your father, for you or any of your siblings. Your attempts to try to create one are entirely one-sided and consequently doomed to failure. He has abandoned his old family for his new one, and frankly it doesn't sound like he was much of a father even before Tammi.
I know what you WANT out of this, you want for him to be a dad. But we both know that's not happening, so what do you EXPECT out of any further attempts to maintain this connection?
I found out I was a bastard through DNA testing at 20. It really rocks the foundations of who you are. It feels like not only is your existence an attack on the person you love most in this world, it’s something completely fundamental to your being. You can’t change it. I wish that my dad was my biological dad, and I hate myself for being this thing. My father still loves me and has never given me reason to doubt that, but it hurts still.
Basically, I know what she’s going through. It’s incredibly painful. It’s incredibly niche so there’s not a lot of support for it. It just sucks man. Keep telling her you love her, that your husband loves her, that she is not her genetics, that she is the product of people who love and respect her. Also, understand this is likely something that will always be there in the back of her mind, so you should give her plenty of time to adjust. Good luck man.
If my SO told me they actively took part in an affair with a married person, they'd be dumped faster than a blink of an eye.
The fact that your SO admitted this and got turned on by retelling this goes to show she doesn't care and still finds it hot. (even though it's disgusting).
If you stay with her, prepare to get cheated on.
Because you are being quite rude
You aged out of his preferred demographic
This is kinda my point right here. Everything you pointed out like the words and victim mentality and being so concerned about me reading more. At one point after her saying a couple times I. Could go through her phone. I reached to pick it up or had it in my hands and that’s when she raised her voice and said “what is wrong with you” and got more defensive sayin I don’t trust her and that she hasn’t done anything wrong and isn’t hiding anything. She leaves her phone out around me all the time facing up etc but things like this just make me think. Best part about this all is tomorrow there’s a birthday for her at her families which she just left today to go back so I can’t even talk to her here more about this.
Don't do it. This could kill your reputation and career.
18 year old guy that doesn't do dishes is a red flag? Lol
Hey now, it could be drugs.
Dude. Don't take this issue into a marriage. Play your sport. Have fun. Go wild. Go crazy. Tell your fiancée that this has nothing to do with a woman playing a sport years ago who has nothing to do with the here and now. She's hanging onto something from long ago that didn't even happen. I'm sure she thinks it did happen (which doesn't matter because she broke up with you beforehand), but then why is she with someone she doesn't trust? This is very controlling on her part. Nip this now. You did nothing wrong. There wasn't a betrayal here. What you've got is a fiancée that is being daft and should speak to someone about coping skills for her insecurities.
I hope I become a millionaire
Agreed and also the abuse will escalate if you become pregnant because then you are trapped. Just look at some of the posts on this sub- so many women experience the beginning of abuse or an escalation of abuse when they become pregnant
Oh honey, if 19 years of being a tax paying, voting adult hasn’t taught him yet that throwing things at other people when he’s having a temper tantrum isn’t ok, there’s nothing you can do for him.
Also, this is classic domestic violence and abuse. He gets to hurt, scare and intimidate you, and you make excuses and want to help him.
that’s a great idea, my mom is concerned about this too so i’ll suggest a therapist to her to see if she can try and convince him to go
RUN. Someone can be both insecure AND controlling. Seriously, this will only get worse.
Then at that point you revisit your situation regards work, the marriage, etc.
Hey, I really appreciate your gentle wording (really, I do), and the Say Anything reference lol!
So as it turns out, sometime this week she updated her social media and she has a new boyfriend. I imagine she'd stopped talking to me because she liked him at the time or something. Things happen.
I took it really hard for a sec until I realized I'm finally free from that emotional turmoil. Hopefully I can find someone better in the future.
Thanks for your reply, I know things will get better someday. This is a chance for me to reset, look at relationships critically, and understand what it is that I want, now that I don't have her as a point of reference.
While he sleeps
Can confirm: have/had heart condition that made me pass out. Anything that got the heart rate up was a factor. Mine was under very specific circumstances so nobody needs to worry but it also got worse/noticeable in my 20s.
Yeah. I like market trips, picnics, folding laundry together. She likes you! That’s a good thing. Maybe spend on an experience next year. Tickets to something you do together.
Ethical nonmonogamy is a thing and you should look into it.