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Off the bat, context is everything. Full disclosure, I’m the first person to come here to call out age gaps when they’re concerning.
In saying that, on the surface, yes, this would certainly raise eyebrows. Why? Because what would a 35 year old have in common with a 20 year old? In most cases, very little.
Before I speak positively, I need to let you know that the general concern in these situations is the mismatch in the power dynamic. More often than not, a 35 year old is going to look down on a 20 year old as inexperienced and knowing nothing, and be in full control of the relationship. As a completely made up example, the 20 year old might say “I wish you wouldn’t curse when you speak to me,” and the 35 year old could respond “well you’re a fucking idiot and don’t know what you’re talking about.” Is he wrong? Yep. Would you know that? Maybe not. We only know what we know at the age we’re at and experience we have.
Despite all that, the only advice I can give you is to be smart and be aware of reality. If he truly treats you like you deserve to be treated, great! But if there’s anything questionable, don’t allow it to be shot down without a logical discussion.
Forget about “society.” I already told you that I’d certainly question it, but realistically no one’s going to notice this shit in public. People are focused on themselves. We only know this because you told us.
Live your life. Just don’t ignore red flags. Good luck.
Yeah, you have every right to meet her before deciding anything. Look at her social media of she has those. Ask about her work, her home life, what she’s been doing the last six years. Ask if this would be a one time thing.
If you’re comfortable with it at some point and she agrees, maybe you introduce them and simply say she’s an old friend who happens to be in town or a distant cousin. She may just need to see that your daughter is happy and loved, and that will be enough for her. Or maybe she becomes the distant cousin who visits every couple of years and sends birthday and Christmas presents.
Assuming bio mom is in a good place in her life, it seems to me that at some age, once your daughter is old enough to really understand adoption, it would be reassuring to her to know that her bio mom cared enough to check up on her and make sure that the daughter was ok, and that you’re ok with your daughter having some kind of relationship with her
YTA
Wait wrong sub
You seem to be unhappy that you haven’t gotten “advice” here. What you’re missing is that all the comments you perceive as “hate” are actually advice
You both decided to not use any birth control. The pull out method is not effective. It’s possible she got pregnant from the time she didn’t get off. It’s also totally possible that she got pregnant from another occasion.
YOU chose not to use any form of birth control. You are 50% at fault in this situation and you need to own that.
Your wife shouldn’t have done what she did. She was wrong for that.
It doesn’t change the fact that you were playing with fire not using birth control and there were consequences to your actions.
The advice is that you played an equal role in being reckless with the risk of having a child. Accept this. Stop holding it against your wife. Move on.
Call me simplistic, but it seems fair for you to care as much about their problem, and make the same amount of effort for them, as they are doing for you.
By their own standards the problem is solved. ?♀️ Enjoy the graduation.
What difference does it make if snapchat does alert the sender that someone has taken a screenshot? The evidence has been captured. In this case it makes no difference if the perpetrator knows that the victim has evidence. Of course if there’s a threat of violence it would be a different story but I don’t get that sense from the OP.