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Honestly man, just suck it up and do the 6mo. Your wife and life will be happier for it. She’ll appreciate that you played ball, and you can use that time to work on your relationship with your in-laws. 6mo is a decent chunk a time but it won’t last forever.
Its not like she can just pop over to visit them whenever she wants to and this will mean a lot to her. Sometimes you gotta do stuff you don’t like to make your person happy. And there will probably be a time when those roles are reversed. Thats love mate.
If normally he is a reasonable person, it sounds like he is having a burn out. Probably he is exhausted by his current job and just want to escape. But an ultimatum is not the right way to do it, he should consider your opinion. At the same time, you should consider his unhappiness. You two need to communicate your issues and find a compromise. Maybe you can ask him to try to change job and see if things are better. Maybe you can agree to move for a year and then decide. But for both you should communicate as adult, not at ultimatum. Probably some therapy can be useful for him, even hidden in couple therapy if he don't want to go alone. Last thing: some commenters said that one hour away it's not a big deal, but I did the same thing (moving one hour away from my big hometown in a more isolated area) and it's a HUGE change, especially if you work from home. You feel very alone, so don't do it without an exit plan.
Do you make plans with her? Like, do you make an actual plan with an actual date and ask her to book that time with you to do something? Do you tend to be more of an introvert and prefer to stay home on your days off?
It’s hard to offer much advice without more details.
Based solely on your OP, it doesn’t seem like she wants to spend time with you and maybe it’s time to move on. But then I think about my situation and I wonder what she’d say.
My partner prefers to spend his free time watching TV or playing video games. I like to spend my free time doing my hobbies and volunteer work. We eat dinner together during the weeknights and have a date night every Friday but after dinner and on the weekend? I’m gone a lot doing my own thing.
When my partner does plan something, I’m on it! But I book things a few weeks in advance usually so if he just has a surprise day off? Chances are that I already have things planned having thought he wasn’t going to be around.
I dunno. If you don’t feel like your needs are being met, you need to tell her that you’d like to spend more time together. But if she’s more extroverted and you’re more introverted, it may be that you need to put some effort into actually planning things with her vs just expecting her to stay home.
You said you’ve got a dog…plan a hike and a picnic and take the dog, go for a walk after dinner. Go to a dog park. That’s inexpensive and can be some nice quality time for all!
Honestly man, just suck it up and do the 6mo. Your wife and life will be happier for it. She’ll appreciate that you played ball, and you can use that time to work on your relationship with your in-laws. 6mo is a decent chunk a time but it won’t last forever.
Its not like she can just pop over to visit them whenever she wants to and this will mean a lot to her. Sometimes you gotta do stuff you don’t like to make your person happy. And there will probably be a time when those roles are reversed. Thats love mate.
DTMFA
Why should you apologize when you've done nothing wrong? ADHD is not an excuse for being an asshole.
If normally he is a reasonable person, it sounds like he is having a burn out. Probably he is exhausted by his current job and just want to escape. But an ultimatum is not the right way to do it, he should consider your opinion. At the same time, you should consider his unhappiness. You two need to communicate your issues and find a compromise. Maybe you can ask him to try to change job and see if things are better. Maybe you can agree to move for a year and then decide. But for both you should communicate as adult, not at ultimatum. Probably some therapy can be useful for him, even hidden in couple therapy if he don't want to go alone. Last thing: some commenters said that one hour away it's not a big deal, but I did the same thing (moving one hour away from my big hometown in a more isolated area) and it's a HUGE change, especially if you work from home. You feel very alone, so don't do it without an exit plan.
Starting to sound more and more like Stockholm Syndrome with these excuses.
Don't be with someone who tries to hinder your health and well-being.
Do you make plans with her? Like, do you make an actual plan with an actual date and ask her to book that time with you to do something? Do you tend to be more of an introvert and prefer to stay home on your days off?
It’s hard to offer much advice without more details.
Based solely on your OP, it doesn’t seem like she wants to spend time with you and maybe it’s time to move on. But then I think about my situation and I wonder what she’d say.
My partner prefers to spend his free time watching TV or playing video games. I like to spend my free time doing my hobbies and volunteer work. We eat dinner together during the weeknights and have a date night every Friday but after dinner and on the weekend? I’m gone a lot doing my own thing.
When my partner does plan something, I’m on it! But I book things a few weeks in advance usually so if he just has a surprise day off? Chances are that I already have things planned having thought he wasn’t going to be around.
I dunno. If you don’t feel like your needs are being met, you need to tell her that you’d like to spend more time together. But if she’s more extroverted and you’re more introverted, it may be that you need to put some effort into actually planning things with her vs just expecting her to stay home.
You said you’ve got a dog…plan a hike and a picnic and take the dog, go for a walk after dinner. Go to a dog park. That’s inexpensive and can be some nice quality time for all!
what does “make a move” mean in your mind? just talk to her and make her feel important. best thing you can do is laugh together
And it wasnt a threat it was an ultimatum. Please get fhe notions righr
Your BF is an idiot.