So, I guess the question for that is do I just tell her “call back when you're 21” or do I try to make it work now, and possibly break up and get back together?
I think that if clue a guy you’re dating into the fact that you’re in a FWB with someone else that’ll turn them off real quickly. I’m not saying you should hide that fact, I’m saying that if you want to find that “better person” it might be beat to give up the FWB arrangement while you do. Or you can keep the FWB alive but simply give up the search for a committed relationship. Having one or the other is fine but it gets messy, dancing around with one while trying for another.
Well, first of all you handled this all perfectly, IMO. You were firm, you weren't emotional. You didn't react. Honestly, this was like masterclass dealing with dipshit behavior.
In regards to your bf….
He's way too old to be swayed by his 'bros'. He should be able to say 'this works for us, so we're good', but clearly this isn't working for him and the way he went about trying to communicate that with you was gross and aggressive.
After two years, I think you know him pretty well. He's no longer on his best behavior. Is this what you want to continue investing your time and heart into? You would know better than us if he was worth it, but I would close this relationship out and move on.
I’m not saying he wasn’t in great shape, just that his passion for sport and exercise were covering up poor eating which was a greater passion than sport, because sport ended and the eating didn’t.
So, I guess the question for that is do I just tell her “call back when you're 21” or do I try to make it work now, and possibly break up and get back together?
It’s your decision to marry whoever you want it’s their decision to not like it
Yeah. I would ask him this scenario for sure.
I think that if clue a guy you’re dating into the fact that you’re in a FWB with someone else that’ll turn them off real quickly. I’m not saying you should hide that fact, I’m saying that if you want to find that “better person” it might be beat to give up the FWB arrangement while you do. Or you can keep the FWB alive but simply give up the search for a committed relationship. Having one or the other is fine but it gets messy, dancing around with one while trying for another.
To be fair, she updated and said she broke up with him.
Well, first of all you handled this all perfectly, IMO. You were firm, you weren't emotional. You didn't react. Honestly, this was like masterclass dealing with dipshit behavior.
In regards to your bf….
He's way too old to be swayed by his 'bros'. He should be able to say 'this works for us, so we're good', but clearly this isn't working for him and the way he went about trying to communicate that with you was gross and aggressive.
After two years, I think you know him pretty well. He's no longer on his best behavior. Is this what you want to continue investing your time and heart into? You would know better than us if he was worth it, but I would close this relationship out and move on.
Move on. Let it go. Learn to be happy alone. Accept what you cannot control. Get over it.
You don’t need to ask him out, you need therapy.
You don’t need to ask him out, you need therapy.
As someone who would want to see my dog after breakup, your current girl can go fuck herself
As someone who would want to see my dog after breakup, your current girl can go fuck herself
I’m not saying he wasn’t in great shape, just that his passion for sport and exercise were covering up poor eating which was a greater passion than sport, because sport ended and the eating didn’t.