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I wasn't aware it was a LDR…. I'm sorry to say this as it looks like there is something going on, ask her outright if there is something she needs to tell you. If she acts innocently suggest, don't accuse, that her friendship with her co worker is getting a little too 'cosy' for your liking and ask her to distance herself from him. Gauge her reaction to this as it will give you a better idea what's transpiring here. Also if possible, surprise her with an unexpected visit if possible, no forewarning just 'appear' outta the blue. If she's doing anything this will blindside her and you'll see it in her actions. Then you will know.
You just tell people your roommate went through all of your personal stuff when you weren't there.
Tell her not to go into you room over text message and set up a camera.
Try to only communicate with your roommate over text message.
Then it’s she can’t have her phone out around me, or any of my friends period. I do not trust her to not lie about filming around me. Hard boundary.
Went on holidays with some friends some time ago. Bunch of them played a few games on the poolside with beer and drinks every day.
They evaluated their games every single time. And they were amateur players, nothing crazy.
Thanks, I feel like a fellow Londoner will understand.
This is what is so frustrating, trying not to vent here, she is so out of touch with London life especially given the current climate. When I try be realistic, I am seen as the bad guy ruining the fun.
I get that 24k is not a lot and so do feel guilty for pressuring her, like I said in another comment, I just think she can afford more than 300 but won’t accept it.
I’ve been looking everywhere in any zone within a 90 minute commute to Shoreditch and less than £10 daily travel. I work hybrid, 3 days at the office so I can deal with distance. She will likely find a more local job to avoid travel costs. There is stuff that I’d be happy with, same quality as my current flat but we both need to agree. Only a month left too so beggars really can’t be choosers.
If it weren’t for me she’d be living with her Mum, which I keep trying to explain will not last for ever. I get the sense her Mum is already pushing for her the move out anyway.
Well I don't know about your girlfriend but I would want to know.
You shouldn't try to control their behavior and your reaction was over the top, you handle itby doing what you did at the end, breaking up. I don' there is anything wrong with not wanting to date a partner that's into going clubbing if you don't yourself. A few years in your 20's means a lot in terms of where you are in life, I was clubbing when I was 23, but by the time I was 25 I wasn't as much and only really going to bars with mates. I couldn't ever date someone who is really into the clubbing scene, but that's more to do with the stages in life I am and what I value personally.
Thank you
I'm sorry dude, but in my books as soon as someone starts deleting messages to cover their tracks you can no longer trust anything they do. Best of luck pal
Having kids should not be “spontaneous”. It should be a decision made carefully, over time, where your wife is sure that’s what you both want. She’s not there yet, in the meantime she is choosing a very reliable contraceptive method that can be removed and reversed at any time. Just because an IUD has a lifespan of 5-10 years doesn’t mean it HAS to stay in for that long.
My biggest concern with your attitude is that you seem to want her to suddenly, in the throes of passion, ask for a baby, and that it will happen immediately. It takes most couples 6-12 months from deciding to stop all contraceptives until they conceive. You can, and should, be able to cope with having that romantic conversation and then her scheduling an appointment for removal as part of the process. Additionally, this is the same thing that she’d have to go through for something like the implant you’ve suggested, so your “it must be spontaneous” attitude is inconsistent.
You need to have a rational conversation with your wife about what your lives could look like child free or with children, and really listen to where she’s at. Parenthood should never be the default – too many kids are raised by parents who only sort of wanted them. If it’s not a 100% hell yes from both of you, it’s a no.
Step-Mother is sh*t head. While you're behavior at your father and her's wedding was unacceptable, you were 15 years old and 2 years earlier your father and her cocked up your whole life and family at the time.
So she responds with an “eye for an eye” response, which, IMO, is NEVER a good way to handle anything… She was and still is an adult while you were a child, one that she should understand how and why you would be pissed at her and your father. Sarah, sounds like a self-righteous AH who deserves no remorse or forgiveness.
My dad basically said “it's both of us, or neither of us” and my mum also thinks I should reconsider for the sake of keeping the peace. Am I overstepping the mark by going no contact?
No you are not “overstepping” or over reacting. Also, your father must've known about Sarah's little stunt, so he either SUPPORTED it or decided it wasn't an issue considering he's pulling the “it's both of us, or neither of us” rather then DEFENDING HIS OWN DAUGHTER like any half decent father would've done. Idk what kind of communication/forgiveness that you and your father/Sarah went through, but IMO all that goes out the door after this interaction and you go back to the NC like you had before the “health scare” until both of them return with a genuine apology.
I get the whole “keep the peace” you're mum is trying to push, if you stand your ground on this then I'd hope she'd come around pretty quick. Otherwise, without more context on what your familial relationship(s) are like with your mum, father, and step-mother are, I personally see no reason for keeping the peace. What “peace” existed before? And regardless, like you've clearly already decided, this action from Sarah (and father's support/inaction of it) are enough to break whatever “peace” previously existing, especially given the context of the cheating/breaking up your family.