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Its a huge red flag that you told him this is important to you and he continues to do it.
Same chlamydia.
I feel like give a little extra validation would be fine, but they need to be working on themselves too, and be willing to accept ir. If I tell someone I like their face or whatever, I don't want to listen to them saying that they think they have a big forehead or something.
You can’t live her life for her. She wants to get pregnant and you can’t stop her. You think you are helping but you aren’t. Stop listening to her crying and complaining. She isn’t taking your advice so tell her she has to deal with him and you are done. By dumping her emotions on you she is transferring them and that gives her room to add more. You love your friend and hate to see her ruining her life, but she’s going to continue to do it until she’s had enough. If that means she’s a single mother because he will break up with her once she’s pregnant, you can’t stop it. So protect your own mental health.
I’m not annoyed, I’m just responding lol. To me, if someone cares about you, they’ll show it one way or another. Not doing anything at all (to me) says they don’t care.
You don't know how to do it, and that's normal, because dealing with mental health is something people go through multiple years of college for. There's a reason you need all that education. It's HARD, and it can be dangerous to you and your patient if you aren't careful.
You can't help her with this. With any of it. I understand the feeling that you need to be there for her because no one else will, but Hon, she is hurting you. Badly. Over and over again. And she has no remorse. She's willing to do more than what she's already doing to you.
It's time to go. Let anyone who cares about her know you're going, and why. They can hopefully get her to an actual psychologist. But don't even think about going back, because this is not an easy fix. This is going to take years, and that's IF she goes. You deserve better.
Nope, they definitely still have something going on. There is no reason for her to CURRENTLY still call herself his little.
Lol stop snooping in your boyfriends private chats
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You don't like that kind of clickbait content and feel uncomfortable participating in it, so nah you didn't do anything wrong in my opinion.
Dude, you're 30 and acting like this? For your sake and hers, take some time for yourself to get your head on straight. Judging by your responses to some of these comments, you've got a lot of work to do.
You move forward by realizing he has been emotionally/mentally, and financially abusing you. He is a predatory leech. Please don't let him continue to drain you of your self worth, you deserve much better than him! Kick him to the curb.
How is this getting upvotes? Why tf does that matter?
Do you eat her out a lot?
Do it like this” Hi, I'm (your name). Is nice to meet you.”
So I should just park wanting a relationship until I’m financially stable then? Then have a woman only interested in what I can provide fiscally? And there I was thinking society had changed.
My son was a big boy and my pediatrician had me start him on cereal at three months. Are you saying that your 1+ year old did not eat solid food?
No, liking feet is the worst because you can't really change the 'structure' of a foot.
If I liked curly/straight hair it's something she can change, if I liked big boobs it can be changed (but expensive). It's like a girl liking a big pecker and her bf having a small one, can't really be changed so is it worth telling them about it?
Totally fair, and she has in many instances eventually shared when was ready.
Any advice on how to be more being more understanding in the mean time?
You fucked up bro. Intentions aren’t the issue here. Boundaries are.
It’s not like he has to just shove her off all aggressive. But he should have woken her up and let her know she was laying on him.
Or because he sexually assaulted her and didn’t want to leave evidence after he got what he wanted.
She was 19 then and 25 now. Fairly different stages of life, I would think.
The problem is how does she earn your trust back.
In my view, you can stay or go. No right or wrong decision here.
No, she should listen to what her gut is telling her, that her boyfriend’s a lying pos. Dude is creeping behind her back with a girl that talks shit about her while trying to fuck him. What part of his behavior sounds trustworthy to you?
Sure. If he knows he got a reaction by emailing her at work, that could embolden him to do something else like phone her work, turn up, etc.
The Gift Of Fear, it says its better not to engage with these types.
I do get that feeling too sometimes. Or women with unhappy relationships tear down other women’s relationships often.
When I met my current boyfriend I also noticed that some girls around me just tried really hard to find something negative about him. That’s why often us women hesitate talk about relationship issues because often other women then scream „LEAVE HIM SIS HE AINT WORTHT IT“ at any minor inconvenience. Also we’re so quick to call relationships toxic nowadays.
Except it was. Because that's what you did.
She sounds extremely high maintenance ??she should just be happy you’ve proposed. Why on earth would you need a new ring. Seriously, she’s going to run all over you right throughout your life.
I am absolutely baffled by the number of posts like this. I really wish they were fake but I think there really are people like this. How do this many people get to adulthood without understanding basic hygiene?
Op, I think you gently approach him and talk about how this affects you and how this might affect your future together. Lost teeth etc.
If he does anything other than immediately make a huge effort to change I think you break up and find someone who doesn't need you to mommy him.
Well I’ll be damned, I said it, AND SHE ASKED WHY, which I assumed she would! And she smelled them right in front of me and DIDNT NOTICE ANYTHING. But THEN, she told me that she had just been rinsingggg ??? NO SOAP. So obviously I made sure she knew you had to use soap. Hopefully that will help things, but I’m still worried that if she doesn’t, she still won’t smell it ?
If this post is any indication, it’s the kind of relationship where you don’t hide anything from her, at least.
Is this guy really worth all this effort ?
Because clearly you don't understand how bat shit insane you're being.
If someone doesn't reply to your texts, you move on. You don't yell at them, then get pissy when they don't want to hear from you.
He probably answered the phone just to get you to shut the fuck up and leave him alone.
I believe being polite to visitors and not sulking right in front of them has been in existence much longer than 25 years
Ask the GYN that referred you to the surgeon to treat you for the PCOS, and discuss HRT. (They will probably draw blood to see if your ovaries are still online or not, once they've addressed the PCOS.)
I had a hysterectomy at 41, including one ovary – and my mother went into menopause at 42, so I knew I was on borrowed time. My remaining ovary churned out hormones like a champ for several more years (I asked my doc to check my levels at least once a year to keep an eye on it) but at 48 or so things started to nosedive. I tried to wait it out for a year or so, but I was cranky all the time, hot flashes gave me terrible insomnia – estrogen patches have been my best friend. I feel pretty good again!
There are good subs on here for both PCOS and menopause. I don't think you have a classic dead bedroom, because your relationship otherwise seems happy. I think yours is fundamentally medical. Good luck!
I used to own a bridal shop. One MOG wore an off-white, flowy lace dress to her son's wedding and a TIARA. After asking and being told about ten times by our staff, that it was inappropriate. She was also very pushy about various details of the wedding. I've often wondered how the bride coped with her over the years.
No need to think about the your wife's ex here.
Your wife is financially abusing you and making you feel bad for stuff that is out of your control. You're doing the best you can. She's not doing the best she can.
You guys don't even have a kid and you're supporting her completely. Does she do housework for you? She apparently doesn't cook for you when you get laid off.
If the person you're married to can be described as “mean to me,” then you're married to the wrong person.
I don’t know that there are long term goals. I thought I was going to be single for the rest of my life and I was fine with that. I could see us together for the long term. Not interested in marriage. He’s got his and I’ve got mine. He has told me that he wants to be with me now, but probably not the rest of our lives. I think he thinks I’m too old for him. He looks older I look younger, and I am in better overall health.
Ok – say goodbye and good riddance! You can not accept this!
Honestly, I don’t think you should be in a relationship with this person. At the very least she sounds immature and beyond that her behavior makes you uncomfortable.
Why, though?
He's a FWB now. If he wants veto power over who you talk to and flirt with, he needs to be in a committed relationship with you.
Stop seeing him. Just cut the cord.
You would be showing them that you are unhinged and need psychiatric help. You are not owed friendship nor are you entitled to friendship. Marriage has priory over any friendship. People don’t have to stay friends with you. They can leave a friendship no matter how long they’ve known them. It’s called evolving. And yes you are racist and think you are better than the Asian wife. Find new friends and get your own husband. Her husband is not available for you.
she says it’s for safety reasons.
You are an adult who doesn't need to be at anyone's beck and call. Bad news travels fast and if something happens (not likely) she will be informed. You can put her in your phone contacts under ICE (in Case of Emergency). The authorities will know who to contact
This is a phenomenal response I probably shouldn't even try to add to. But I'll say this:
If her bf is truly in love with her, she clearly doesn't understand what makes him tick and Vice versa.
He should definitely have tried harder if he did. But op has to understand that a guy who doesn't care at all about these dates, no matter how much he loves her, she will ALWAYS be let down or need to temper her expectations.
Likewise, she should probably figure out what makes him happy instead of planning things for herself when the anniversary is about both of them.