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You're getting a lawyer anyways, OP. Get the child support.
Sounds like this red flag is taking advantage of your grief.
No clue. Maybe just ignore her for a bit, if she asks why say you're being a bit weird, think you needed space. You have to remember to stay logical and not get involved in these petty arguments. Some girls love doing them
Either way this dude is a fucking moron
have talked about it but it doesnt help
Full stop. He needs to listen and respect what you say. Overstepping that isn't okay – that's non-consensual – that's a no go. Non-consensual contact is never oaky. You need be clear on that, and he need stop. If he's overstepping or continues overstepping that's abuse – plain and simple, and that's never okay.
I don't know how you came to this conclusion but I can respect it and I take it to heart especially knowing she does have avoidant tendencies. I wish you the best. You'll be fine, in the name of Jesus, with all due respect. I love you very much Man
Yeah you don’t owe those people and apology (except your husband,it doesn’t sound like he was in on it) they owe you a massive one.
It sounds like you have to treat your wife like she's a kid. Do you find she's immature generally?
This is one of those cases where, while you're right that ending your life over it is incredibly wrong and unhealthy, you're still an asshole with this comment.
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If my partner would find my vibrator he would go full Austin Powers on me and ask me to shag constantly…..his reaction doesn’t make sense. Are there any trust and communication in your relationship?
As I said in another comment, OP are you having issues in your relationship? Often people who want out can’t properly verbalise their feelings and will often cheat (or in this case confess to cheating) in a way to shift the responsibility of the break up to the other person.
I hardly think this is salvageable. Yes you weren’t honest and I do think that’s wrong. But he tried to take a serious thing into his own hands which is a crime if your in America and the problem is he saw nothing wrong with it, meaning he doesn’t care about your feelings, he was under the impression you didn’t want kids and didn’t give a damn.
Stop feeling guilty your not leading him on thats cultural oppression that you have been raised with.
Women don't lead men on. That's just nonsense.
He is an adult and a father. He can make his own choices his own decisions.
What does (intimate partner) love mean to you? For me, it means I see a future with someone and want to work towards that. So, your last two sentences seem weird to me. “I want to be with her” and “I'm not sure if I want to marry her” feel paradoxical. Do you only want to be with her in this moment? Are you afraid of the label of marriage? What is the picture of your future self in your mind and why does she not fit in that picture?
You do give some reasons in your post: she seems different from you. But why do you need someone to be similar to you? Do you feel misunderstood in your relationship? Are your convictions of what is important in life so strong that you can't respect someone who doesn't hold the same values/convictions?
If you want to hold that conversation with your partner, you need to have a deep understanding of your own feelings and speak from those. But be prepared for it to end your relationship.
Stop. You are leading her on and wasting her time. You keep talking about yourself and while you say you love her, you show no respect for her as a person. You don't see a future with her and yet don't want to end it because it would inconvenience you. That's major BS. You're a grownup, she is not your roommate, if you don't see yourself with her in the future then end it.
And don't enter relationships in the near future because you sound way too egocentric for them.
Trust but verify.
I think you should write the clothes off, and move on.
I have severe jealousy issues, an insecurities, stemming from trauma and paranoia. My boyfriend knows this, and when I’m feeling a type of way we talk about it. Sometimes I have no valid reason to be jealous, because he genuinely is just be friendly or professionally nice. Sometimes it’s the girl getting too close, genuinely flirting or breaking boundaries, and I get to explain in a better way then “I just don’t trust it” because he listens, asks follow up questions, and never fully dismisses me or my emotions, no matter how just in my head the situation is.
If he’s not already cheating, don’t be surprised when they get together the second you break up. Ask him how he’d feel if you did this, or continued to stomp all over his boundaries
You asked him to move the pictures to a computer? Instead of deleting them? Do you don’t care that he has them, you just want them off his phone. You sound as crazy as she is. He’s been completely honest with you. He isn’t hiding the WhatsApp messages to hide anything, he’s doing it to avoid drama that you’re causing
I had a boyfriend that said similar things to me. It crushed me and hurt me to no end. I became so insecure. When he eventually apologized my trust never recovered and I never believed him when he called me pretty, etc. It’s good you realized your mistake and apologizing. But it might be over for the both of you.
First paragraph: Yes. 100% this is how I feel. I want to see it be thrown out and left behind. A metaphor for the infidelity.
Second paragraph: I'm willing to give her the BOD because of how early it was and it being a sensitive topic right after we just had sex. But I did express in that moment that it wasn't about him not touching it, it was about how the whole thing makes me feel.
As I have learned in recent years: love is a choice you make every day. Relationships are not a straight road. There’s hills and mountains, side roads, gravel roads, roadblocks, roads less traveled. But whatever road you find yourselves on that particular moment in time, you make the choice to travel it, or not. talking to people with long lasting relationships they never say that they never developed feelings for other people, they never were attracted to other people, but… they choose to stay and love their partners. To fight for their love and to keep communicating. He has not cheated and he is communicating about his feelings. It is up to you and him to decide if the relationship is worth fighting for, if he and the relationship is worth choosing love. I hope he and the relationship are! Good luck!
OP – sometimes I come on this subreddit and I’m bemused at the amount of people who immediately say “you should end the relationship” to every single problem, no matter how small. It really annoys me actually.
That being said. This is not one of those posts. You should leave the relationship. It is very easy for us, with no connection to this man, to say he is wicked, gross and narcissistic. But it is true. There is an endless list of reasons as to why you get out.
Take it from the “You can always try to work through any problem guy” (me)… you cannot work through this problem.
She doesn't even want to fuck her husband, there's zero chance she's interested in fucking someone else. She's a mother of two kids. She's tired.
Yeah, I only watched it when I didn't see her it was weeks. I wasn't addicted at all
Her friend is the problem. Filling her head with doubts like that. Have her chastise that friend and recoup your relationship.