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Date: November 5, 2022
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Also, I’d like to add that there are good times, great times even. They just are few and far between lately, with a lot of bullshit in the middle.
Also, she did end up responding last night, but it seems like she always has an excuse.
She sounds terrible. You can’t “fix” a terrible person or make things work. It’s good you’re free and it’s your chance to move onto a normal, nice person and a healthy, happy dating situation.
Sounds to me like he was just nervous and this was the first thing that popped in his mind and it resulted in word vomit. I’d wager he’s pretty embarrassed about saying it.
She’s totally been fucking dudes and probably girls the whole time they’ve been together
I have told 3 times already, couple counceling and work to repair your relationship to come out stronger from this experience.
This sort of reads to me like a gender reversal of the “he asked me for a paternity test when he is the only person I've been with” kind of question. I also kinda feel the same way about both, I can see where she is coming from but it's still going to hurt to be on the other side of that. In my personal opinion, I'd rather err on the side of trust for a partner who has not shown any untrustworthy behavior — that said, if we could make giant changes overnight, I'd rather both be depersonalized and standard.
You’re not being paranoid, you are being naive. She was there. And now that you confronted her, it only means she will be more careful next time. Like park her car at her work and leave her phone in her car and jump in his and go home with him. Talk to a lawyer and get out now.
Can you not do it at the same time? Or you finish her then she’ll finish you? She’s not saying no, she’s just saying she wants her pleasure first because most men lose the drive and passion to bring the woman to finish after they’re done. Or are you saying that sometimes you want it to be one sided and only you finish?
Honestly, if her partner of 3 months freaked out that much about it, she should run for the hills. That's a sign of major insecurity and inevitable problems down the road.
No, this is never going to work out
This dude just isn't that into you. He couldn't possibly make it any more clear that you are just his backup plan whenever his Plan A and Plan B fall through. You are the tootsie rolls in his Halloween haul. He might notice you eventually, but only after he's finished all the Snickers and Reese's and hasn't spotted any new options
Scrape your dignity off the ground, and go find somebody who actively wants to be with you.
I'm sorry to be so harsh, but honestly, it seems like you will refuse to acknowledge anything more subtle, given the way you've been ignoring the obvious signs. You might even refuse to acknowledge this… in which case I sincerely hope you will at least find yourself a therapist to help you explore your refusal to stop being a tootsie roll.
The way I gasped reading this! The comment on her Instagram post would've had me packing my bags before he even came back home. There is absolutely no way that I would be with a man who's willing to disrespect me like that.
To be honest I think this is more of a violation of respect. No man who actually respected you would be with another girl by himself for that long like this, I don't care what anyone says. That is disrespectful to your relationship. You've expressed that you are uncomfortable with this multiple times and he has ignored your concerns.
I can see why he wouldn't break up with you, he gets to have his cake and eat it too! He can go get a romantic lunch/dinner at the beach with his side chick and still come home to you whenever he wants! And if it doesn't work out with this girl he still has you to fall back on!
You are so young OP, you have a lot more options out there. Please do not let this man disrespect you for any longer. You can spend your time worrying about whether or not he's cheating, or you can stand up for yourself and spend your efforts on a guy who's ten times better than this. At 22 there is absolutely no reason why you should be stressing over a 30 year old man.
Um, what if your child refuses to be controlled? This bf is in for a rude-awakening
I did not say divorce papers.
I said a proposed amicable settlement.
These are not at all the same things. (But as someone who hasn't divorced anyone, I could see how you could confuse these very different things.)
Divorce papers are prepared by attorneys and written in legalese. They are prepared to file with the court, and they establish the legal form of the divorce decree.
The proposed amicable settlement is a document that is primarily intended for the consumption of the couple that is seeking a divorce. It clearly lays out in an easy to read form how the property settlement and custody arrangement will take form. Once a couple agrees on a settlement, only then will divorce papers be drawn up.
This isn't springing anything on anyone. It's an honest answer to her implied question: “What would it cost me to live a life separated from my husband?”
To make it clear… this isn't a final take it or leave it ultimatum that she has to accept or else fight in court. Instead, it would be his honest response to her ill-considered joke.
He might even come up with a creative solution that make the divorce affordable for them. It sounds like OP and his wife own a substantial home on a sizable lot. Perhaps he could propose the sale of the property with the proceeds purchasing adjacent town homes. It could possibly be a lateral move financially.
The upshot would be that OP might find a solution to her problem that makes divorce affordable for them both.
Kinda takes the steam out of her joke.
If you want to stay married to me… say that!
If you want out of the marriage… say that!
If all you want to do is tell jokes at my expense… then kindly go to hell.
Where did I say I didn’t like my current GF? And move forward is a term used as “what’s the next step” as in “what should I do”
Because I love my gf. She’s amazing that’s why I’m extremely hesitant to leave.
So if someone has advice or a possible solution to this problem, I want to try it before anything else.