But what about a spouse who refuses to treat their condition, which also comes at the expense of their family? You have a lot of empathy for them, and that’s important but at the end of the day, they are also a parent. Kids don’t have always understand. Don’t they have the responsibility to get diagnosed and treated (whether with therapy or medicine) instead of expecting everyone else to accommodate them? Kids can’t accommodate. Yes the spouse can. But it sounds like they do everything for the household. At what point does the spouse have to take responsibility?
Holy Batman. This is atrocious. She was cheated in and is now have an emotional affair with you. Are you trying to get divorced? Cause you are well on your way and the smugness that comes through you r post. Good luck friend. You are eventually going to be single.
I think giving an ultimatum of “if you continue to drink we will break up” isn’t fair if it’s something she needs help to understand and learn to tolerate better
Nah it's completely fair. He doesn't owe her an education about her own shittiness
Because it doesn't matter when it ends for your wife. If it ended yesterday the answer would still be: your smoking is bad for your health and the health of everybody in your family. It's not just killing you, it's killing them too, and the right answer is to quit, period.
Get out of this relationship. You ALWAYS have options. Find a roommate, get a plan together and make it happen. This is abusive and gross and not ok. He has violated you.
Do you want to feel like this forever? If not, get out.
Yes, he's raping you. No, he's not a great man. This is going to be crude, but what partner treats you like a cum dumpster, an inanimate object in which to ejaculate into, is a 'great' anything?
He brings me home flowers a few times a month
Yep, abusive guys do. Usually it's a black eye or broken arm, then flowers. You are treated to a bit of rape for it. I think I would prefer the broken arm.
So it's sexual assault and breaking the law. Gone are the days where 'marital rape' isn't seen as a crime under the law. You can rape your wife, under social contract and maybe more important, LEGALLY. ALL states recognize rape within a marriage as a crime.
I promise you he’s not as nice as he’s acting right now. What does a grown ass man want with a teenager?
The prisoner transfer that happens for no other reason than to help the prisoner escape
But what about a spouse who refuses to treat their condition, which also comes at the expense of their family? You have a lot of empathy for them, and that’s important but at the end of the day, they are also a parent. Kids don’t have always understand. Don’t they have the responsibility to get diagnosed and treated (whether with therapy or medicine) instead of expecting everyone else to accommodate them? Kids can’t accommodate. Yes the spouse can. But it sounds like they do everything for the household. At what point does the spouse have to take responsibility?
Holy Batman. This is atrocious. She was cheated in and is now have an emotional affair with you. Are you trying to get divorced? Cause you are well on your way and the smugness that comes through you r post. Good luck friend. You are eventually going to be single.
I think giving an ultimatum of “if you continue to drink we will break up” isn’t fair if it’s something she needs help to understand and learn to tolerate better
Nah it's completely fair. He doesn't owe her an education about her own shittiness
Because it doesn't matter when it ends for your wife. If it ended yesterday the answer would still be: your smoking is bad for your health and the health of everybody in your family. It's not just killing you, it's killing them too, and the right answer is to quit, period.
Get out of this relationship. You ALWAYS have options. Find a roommate, get a plan together and make it happen. This is abusive and gross and not ok. He has violated you.
Do you want to feel like this forever? If not, get out.
Yes, he's raping you. No, he's not a great man. This is going to be crude, but what partner treats you like a cum dumpster, an inanimate object in which to ejaculate into, is a 'great' anything?
He brings me home flowers a few times a month
Yep, abusive guys do. Usually it's a black eye or broken arm, then flowers. You are treated to a bit of rape for it. I think I would prefer the broken arm.
So it's sexual assault and breaking the law. Gone are the days where 'marital rape' isn't seen as a crime under the law. You can rape your wife, under social contract and maybe more important, LEGALLY. ALL states recognize rape within a marriage as a crime.
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