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You’re right on calling out saying “overreacting” as though it is fact. To me it feels like overreacting based on how I would feel in the situation, but I can’t actually say it’s overreacting as GF has her own thoughts, feelings, experiences, and point of view on it.
State in a cool voice “That is a very rude comment.” then stare at him without saying anything else. Keep staring at him. Make him uncomfortable and squirmy. Then keeping eye contact and saying nothing, take a bite of food.
I mean it’s an extreme reaction and not a very kind or compassionate one, but I don’t read it as her actually wanting you dead. If you’re gonna be pissed, be pissed at the harshness of her words but don’t blow this into a “she wants me dead” scenario.
1 in 10 women are diagnosed with endometriosis (a disorder that can give bad abdominal pain & the big O can actually cause pain), and there are more women with it who aren't diagnosed. I bring it up to say that there are a lot of outside factors, including health ones, that can interfere with what a woman may want to do in bed. It's not uncommon for women with endo to go weeks or months not being able to do what they want to & its terrifying when you meet someone you like & how do you bring it up to them. Whether it's this or something she's dealing with emotionally or psychologically, I think it's absolutely worth the effort to talk to her. Sit her down in a non confrontational way, say you've noticed her pull back with the intimacy & ask if everything is OK or if there is something she needs from you to help her be ready or if theres something she wants to talk about or share.
Did she tell you she had a different type now, or was this something you assumed?
Don't go, your sobriety is more important.
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You’re right on calling out saying “overreacting” as though it is fact. To me it feels like overreacting based on how I would feel in the situation, but I can’t actually say it’s overreacting as GF has her own thoughts, feelings, experiences, and point of view on it.
It’s a huge invasion of privacy. Major red flag. No trust, no point. Move on.
State in a cool voice “That is a very rude comment.” then stare at him without saying anything else. Keep staring at him. Make him uncomfortable and squirmy. Then keeping eye contact and saying nothing, take a bite of food.
Please tell me this is supposed to be a shitpost. 9/10 if it is, laughed quite a lot. Divorce your ass if it isn't.
I mean it’s an extreme reaction and not a very kind or compassionate one, but I don’t read it as her actually wanting you dead. If you’re gonna be pissed, be pissed at the harshness of her words but don’t blow this into a “she wants me dead” scenario.
Bingo
Lmao right
Or not a dude.
1 in 10 women are diagnosed with endometriosis (a disorder that can give bad abdominal pain & the big O can actually cause pain), and there are more women with it who aren't diagnosed. I bring it up to say that there are a lot of outside factors, including health ones, that can interfere with what a woman may want to do in bed. It's not uncommon for women with endo to go weeks or months not being able to do what they want to & its terrifying when you meet someone you like & how do you bring it up to them. Whether it's this or something she's dealing with emotionally or psychologically, I think it's absolutely worth the effort to talk to her. Sit her down in a non confrontational way, say you've noticed her pull back with the intimacy & ask if everything is OK or if there is something she needs from you to help her be ready or if theres something she wants to talk about or share.