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What would you do in this situation?
Also worth noting her phone is glued to her so getting the number in itself would present quite the challenge.
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So?
No self respecting 40 year old goes after someone half his age regardless of who initiates.
You're 8 years older than her, maybe find someone more mature next time.
It won't be. But then you have an out and you can leave because two incomes are better than one right.
Girl you are not a baby, but your bf is too old to be this kind of jerk
Make bad decisions take the consequences.
What I hear from you is that you're an incredibly capable, super high functioning human when faced with challenges because you've always had to do everything yourself. You felt you could rely on your husband because he seemed capable, and he seemed like he would support you, but in fact he's another person in a long line of people who have let you down. I'm sorry OP. You sound exhausted and rightfully so. Please do this one thing and get away from this man. Hire a bulldog of an attorney and protect yourself. Plan to keep working and build yourself back up. Take put your frustrations when you need to. I recommend taking up roller derby or kickboxing, or primal screaming, maybe just smash some stuff. Do something you've always wanted to do or buy yourself something you've always wanted but treat yourself (when it's economically feasible). But take care of yourself. You didn't deserve this and I'm pissed at him for you, we all are. Go do you, and find your tribe. Your ride or die people are out there, and we've got your back.
He doesn't want anyone to know the real him, wants everyone to think he the loving husband, you have every right to discuss it with who ever you want, he doesn't get a say after he actively went out to fuck another women. Now he trying to turn it on you and make you the bad guy, I'm sorry honey but personally I'd ask for a divorce or a separation, he cheats on you then has the cheek to get made because you sort out comfort with your friend??♀️
People are upset at you because they “fail to understand not every relationship is the same” and yet you are the SAME person who made the broad claim that every single person in a relationship checks out other people. Almost like you are the one projecting your own tendencies in relationships onto everyone else. You are a hypocrite.
What word you use to describe what he did is less important than how you feel about it. Clearly he broke trust, intended to have a physical relationship with another woman, actively lied to you about doing so, and did have intimate interactions with her which were clearly inappropriate.
If he doesn't take full responsibility for what he did AND the initiative to fix it by changing HIS own behavior (neither of which he's doing, as he's diverting attention from his actions by arguing technicalities of the definition of a word “cheating”), then… is that really someone you want to build a life with and can trust? What if next time he doesn't FEEL quite so guilty, and either goes through with things or doesn't tell you?
Either he finds a therapist for him +- both of you, or you give him the gift of singlehood