That could be manipulative on her part and a strategy to avoid the discussion. She could also legitimately be feeling attacked. Ask her how you should approach this if she feels this way every time or perhaps seeing a couples counselor would help.
I don’t mean to sound rude saying this so I’m sorry if it does. But blocking can be undone. In seconds. SHE needs to tell HIM to stop. She needs to give him the final “stop, go away” and THEN block. She really needs to mean that shit too. I’d want to know exactly what she’d say to him, but women tend get pretty defensive about that and that can mean a lot. But anyway, if she’s blocked him and for good? I wouldn’t mention him but I’d have a good conversation with her about what that all meant and what it meant to you and what you guys can do to avoid situations like that in the future. Not specifically mentioning him. It’s a pretty huge part of a relationship to be able to solve problems, have plans for the future, and to be considerate of the other person.
i think you already but i will repeat anyway. get your shit together. you do not want to get involved with a married woman. she could just be saying that shit just to seem cool. i have seen plenty of that. divorce is not a big deal especially if you are poor.
if you want to get over her then write a letter. write down exactly what you want to tell her. everything and i mean pure all of your heart into it. once it is done, take a deep breath and burn it. the last part is important. you will feel a lot better after you burn it.
It's actually not “fine” to be talking about marriage with a straight guy if you're pretty convinced you could never form a happy union with that person. You're leading this man down a path that's certain to end in tears (and financial ruin if you actually marry him then end up divorced). You're too young to get married any time soon and it's pretty normal to start having doubts when you've been with the same person since you were a literal child. But your oppressive past doesn't give you the right to mess up his life. There's also no way you're one of only five gay people in your state (unless -50 people live in your state). So work up the courage to have the conversation. You may date women for a while then decide your impulses weren't true to who you are. But until you've done that you'll always wonder and it wouldn't be fair to marry someone while holding onto this secret.
That could be manipulative on her part and a strategy to avoid the discussion. She could also legitimately be feeling attacked. Ask her how you should approach this if she feels this way every time or perhaps seeing a couples counselor would help.
No! What the heck is wrong with you? ?
I don’t mean to sound rude saying this so I’m sorry if it does. But blocking can be undone. In seconds. SHE needs to tell HIM to stop. She needs to give him the final “stop, go away” and THEN block. She really needs to mean that shit too. I’d want to know exactly what she’d say to him, but women tend get pretty defensive about that and that can mean a lot. But anyway, if she’s blocked him and for good? I wouldn’t mention him but I’d have a good conversation with her about what that all meant and what it meant to you and what you guys can do to avoid situations like that in the future. Not specifically mentioning him. It’s a pretty huge part of a relationship to be able to solve problems, have plans for the future, and to be considerate of the other person.
She lives with your bf. You just stay there a lot.
And yes, you absolutely do mind helping her.
Stop being so resentful of your bf’s generosity. He doesn’t care how long she stays. Why do you?
This is just not any of your business.
It’s been awful here, cold windy and rainy.
So not only does he want to decide what you should like sexually, he feels it’s ok for his friends to weigh in on what you should like sexually?
Jesus the bar is just in hell isn’t it?
i think you already but i will repeat anyway. get your shit together. you do not want to get involved with a married woman. she could just be saying that shit just to seem cool. i have seen plenty of that. divorce is not a big deal especially if you are poor.
if you want to get over her then write a letter. write down exactly what you want to tell her. everything and i mean pure all of your heart into it. once it is done, take a deep breath and burn it. the last part is important. you will feel a lot better after you burn it.
It's actually not “fine” to be talking about marriage with a straight guy if you're pretty convinced you could never form a happy union with that person. You're leading this man down a path that's certain to end in tears (and financial ruin if you actually marry him then end up divorced). You're too young to get married any time soon and it's pretty normal to start having doubts when you've been with the same person since you were a literal child. But your oppressive past doesn't give you the right to mess up his life. There's also no way you're one of only five gay people in your state (unless -50 people live in your state). So work up the courage to have the conversation. You may date women for a while then decide your impulses weren't true to who you are. But until you've done that you'll always wonder and it wouldn't be fair to marry someone while holding onto this secret.
It will get easier every day