My boyfriend is an engineering student. This obviously takes a lot of his time. His exams are hours, his homework assignments are hours, his labs are hours, and this doesn’t include the amount of time he spends studying. His course-load is heavy and school is his full-time job.
He spends his off-days with me, and we’ll do fun stuff like driving a few hours out to visit his childhood friend and spend the weekend with him. We’ll go out to eat, or maybe we’ll stay in and watch a movie. Other times he’s too tired and we’ll play video games all day instead. He still makes time for me because I’m priority, and I make time for him because it’s the same. Even while I was working full time and he was still doing school full time, we made time to do things often.
OP is getting burnt out and shutting down, they want to do nothing but what they have to and chill out when they’re not. That’s fine, and it’s normal, but if you can’t do that and juggle a relationship, it’s time to rethink the relationship. It’s not really fair for OP’s girlfriend.
You may be paranoid at times but don't use that as a reason to not covertly investigate this situation with your wife and her ex. There's too much to overlook. She's likely never going to admit it. You have to get proof. If you find nothing, I'd be surprised.
Personally, I'd love to have an orgasm from a regular massage. A guy usually has to go to a certain type of massage parlor for that though.
My boyfriend is an engineering student. This obviously takes a lot of his time. His exams are hours, his homework assignments are hours, his labs are hours, and this doesn’t include the amount of time he spends studying. His course-load is heavy and school is his full-time job.
He spends his off-days with me, and we’ll do fun stuff like driving a few hours out to visit his childhood friend and spend the weekend with him. We’ll go out to eat, or maybe we’ll stay in and watch a movie. Other times he’s too tired and we’ll play video games all day instead. He still makes time for me because I’m priority, and I make time for him because it’s the same. Even while I was working full time and he was still doing school full time, we made time to do things often.
OP is getting burnt out and shutting down, they want to do nothing but what they have to and chill out when they’re not. That’s fine, and it’s normal, but if you can’t do that and juggle a relationship, it’s time to rethink the relationship. It’s not really fair for OP’s girlfriend.
You may be paranoid at times but don't use that as a reason to not covertly investigate this situation with your wife and her ex. There's too much to overlook. She's likely never going to admit it. You have to get proof. If you find nothing, I'd be surprised.
LOL
Was he not showering???
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We have a child together and it makes things so much harder to leave