My reason to unblock is to just have them off in general . He has had many blocked before and still texted some of them. I asked him why she appeared in his chat list and he said he doesn’t know . Since they last talked December. So you’re saying having them on chat list means it’s recent?
I'd love the excuse to stay home to take care of my husband if he was sick but if I really wanted to go, I'd make sure he was set up with everything he needed and text him every hour while I was gone and come back quickly. Being sick can be scary and lonely and especially on a holiday, I'd be super careful to check that he was okay. But everybody is different.
Play your own practical joke since it’s soooo funny! Don’t say anything anymore and you have two options: 1) do all invitations for a different/fake location, even her parents. Send car for parents/anyone who would tell him the day of and take them to the right place. He walks into a conference room with strangers in a clown suit an hour away from the location. Funny huh? 2) hire friends/guards at entrance. If they see someone in clown suit, they cuff him, and arrest him. Take him for a drive, drop him off at a McDonald’s!! Hilarious, just like his pranks!
Probably not … he straight up lied to you … about another woman. He's not trustworthy, and without trust … yeay, bye-bye relationship. Probably better to just move on. There are good, decent trustworthy folks … he ain't one of 'em.
I think he's lying through his teeth and is actually dirt poor and doesn't have wealthy parents (their wealth might simply be the value of their home with little in their bank account). All you know about his parents you heard from him, right? Budget airline tickets are cheaaaaap and he has a credit card, right? Why would he need a money transfer from his parents? Frankly, offer to buy him a one way ticket and watch him try to squirm out of that.
If he threatens suicide, get him committed. You aren't a therapist so you can't evaluate if he's bluffing and you don't have the training to help him if he truly is in a bad way. Personally I don't think he's suicidal. It was a desperate last throw of the dice to see if you would take him back. Yeah, people can actually be that disgustingly manipulative.
I suspect you had the misfortune to run into a deeply dysfunctional guy who doesn't want to work or even fill in official forms. Anything he feels is unpleasant he'll avoid as long as he can. He could be a hobosexual who gets a GF for the express purpose of having a roof over his head. Maybe he was delusional enough to think moving to a new country would be the clean break he needs, a reboot of his life. Pffft, still dysfunctional.
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My reason to unblock is to just have them off in general . He has had many blocked before and still texted some of them. I asked him why she appeared in his chat list and he said he doesn’t know . Since they last talked December. So you’re saying having them on chat list means it’s recent?
I'd love the excuse to stay home to take care of my husband if he was sick but if I really wanted to go, I'd make sure he was set up with everything he needed and text him every hour while I was gone and come back quickly. Being sick can be scary and lonely and especially on a holiday, I'd be super careful to check that he was okay. But everybody is different.
Agreed
Do you have an art studio in your house?
Play your own practical joke since it’s soooo funny! Don’t say anything anymore and you have two options: 1) do all invitations for a different/fake location, even her parents. Send car for parents/anyone who would tell him the day of and take them to the right place. He walks into a conference room with strangers in a clown suit an hour away from the location. Funny huh? 2) hire friends/guards at entrance. If they see someone in clown suit, they cuff him, and arrest him. Take him for a drive, drop him off at a McDonald’s!! Hilarious, just like his pranks!
Should I cave in and give him another chance?
Probably not … he straight up lied to you … about another woman. He's not trustworthy, and without trust … yeay, bye-bye relationship. Probably better to just move on. There are good, decent trustworthy folks … he ain't one of 'em.
Time to cut all contact and electronic connections.
She’s allowed to process whatever she wants, however she wants. You get the same.
You broke up for a reason. These links are not healthy and you need to move forward to new relationships.
Yeah yeah true.. I know. I don’t know, it’s hard as hell. Maybe it’s the change that scares the shit out of me (autistic)
I think he's lying through his teeth and is actually dirt poor and doesn't have wealthy parents (their wealth might simply be the value of their home with little in their bank account). All you know about his parents you heard from him, right? Budget airline tickets are cheaaaaap and he has a credit card, right? Why would he need a money transfer from his parents? Frankly, offer to buy him a one way ticket and watch him try to squirm out of that.
If he threatens suicide, get him committed. You aren't a therapist so you can't evaluate if he's bluffing and you don't have the training to help him if he truly is in a bad way. Personally I don't think he's suicidal. It was a desperate last throw of the dice to see if you would take him back. Yeah, people can actually be that disgustingly manipulative.
I suspect you had the misfortune to run into a deeply dysfunctional guy who doesn't want to work or even fill in official forms. Anything he feels is unpleasant he'll avoid as long as he can. He could be a hobosexual who gets a GF for the express purpose of having a roof over his head. Maybe he was delusional enough to think moving to a new country would be the clean break he needs, a reboot of his life. Pffft, still dysfunctional.