It’s true that no one is perfect, but a lot of people do like small boobs and your partner has pretty clearly indicated that that’s not his preference. I really do think you deserve someone who thinks you’re perfect the way you are. I knew I wasn’t my college boyfriends ideal and it hung over the relationship the whole time and affected the way I felt about myself in general. It wasn’t until I left that relationship that I realized there were plenty of people who thought I was perfect the way I am. You want that. I think the fact that he said something especially shows he’s fixated on it on some level, so doubly worrying.
Good luck whatever you do, but I really think there’s a better partner for you out there who wouldn’t want you to change a hair on your body.
There's more to it than that, she also suffers from a few mental illnesses and there's other personal info that im not willing to give over the internet involved with it
But really. Try fucked up and there's no going back. You think he can be happy with you, laying in bed, know that you just dumped him to fuck a guy twice your age? He's honestly just too nice of a guy to tell you what you need to hear….
Leave him alone. Don't mess with his head. You've already hurt his self esteem and broken his heart. Now you want to try again after you ruined everything with him AND your new relationship didn't work out?
Please look in the mirror and realize you're not a positive force in his life like he is in yours.
Ugh. A guy shows up – just literally shows up – for a commitment he made and that makes him marriage material?? For fuck sakes.
This kind of shit is why women stay in garbage relationships. It's because they're constantly brainwashed into thinking that absolute basic, bottim-of-the-barrel behavior is marriage worthy. Stop perpetuating that crap!!
We had talked extensively about my move before. When I brought up the idea at the time, she strongly encouraged it and wanted me to be there. While she never demanded that I do it, I made sure that it was something that she'd want. I wouldn't have done it otherwise. She's talked about how glad she was that I made the move and how it would save us from having to do so much long distance.
He said he’s willing to try and not give up. I just worry that this is going to be a periodic problem. He has insisted that it’s nothing i’ve done, just that I deserve more than someone who isn’t 100% sure. I’m convinced no one is ever 100% sure and I’m scared he is willing to throw everything away because of a normal level of “grass is greener” uncertainty. I want to know if there is a fix that involves us staying together. I love him and he’s my best friend and he’s expressed the same to me. I’m just scared, I guess
It’s true that no one is perfect, but a lot of people do like small boobs and your partner has pretty clearly indicated that that’s not his preference. I really do think you deserve someone who thinks you’re perfect the way you are. I knew I wasn’t my college boyfriends ideal and it hung over the relationship the whole time and affected the way I felt about myself in general. It wasn’t until I left that relationship that I realized there were plenty of people who thought I was perfect the way I am. You want that. I think the fact that he said something especially shows he’s fixated on it on some level, so doubly worrying.
Good luck whatever you do, but I really think there’s a better partner for you out there who wouldn’t want you to change a hair on your body.
There's more to it than that, she also suffers from a few mental illnesses and there's other personal info that im not willing to give over the internet involved with it
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But really. Try fucked up and there's no going back. You think he can be happy with you, laying in bed, know that you just dumped him to fuck a guy twice your age? He's honestly just too nice of a guy to tell you what you need to hear….
Leave him alone. Don't mess with his head. You've already hurt his self esteem and broken his heart. Now you want to try again after you ruined everything with him AND your new relationship didn't work out?
Please look in the mirror and realize you're not a positive force in his life like he is in yours.
You're right not to agree. Sounds your BF is overly controlling.
Your closure is your happy life after this guy cheated on you.
Bring your husband along to lunch if you’re that desperate to meet up
Yea he should 100% leave her. I also have been raped. This is a very serious accusation.
Ugh. A guy shows up – just literally shows up – for a commitment he made and that makes him marriage material?? For fuck sakes.
This kind of shit is why women stay in garbage relationships. It's because they're constantly brainwashed into thinking that absolute basic, bottim-of-the-barrel behavior is marriage worthy. Stop perpetuating that crap!!
Let her know your concerns and walk your own path my friend. The deletion of messages is more than enough to justify a split
We had talked extensively about my move before. When I brought up the idea at the time, she strongly encouraged it and wanted me to be there. While she never demanded that I do it, I made sure that it was something that she'd want. I wouldn't have done it otherwise. She's talked about how glad she was that I made the move and how it would save us from having to do so much long distance.
He said he’s willing to try and not give up. I just worry that this is going to be a periodic problem. He has insisted that it’s nothing i’ve done, just that I deserve more than someone who isn’t 100% sure. I’m convinced no one is ever 100% sure and I’m scared he is willing to throw everything away because of a normal level of “grass is greener” uncertainty. I want to know if there is a fix that involves us staying together. I love him and he’s my best friend and he’s expressed the same to me. I’m just scared, I guess