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Wait. Your boyfriend is right. Get married first, really get established, get an actual house and stuff, and THEN have a baby. He'll feel better about it, and then your relationship won't suffer. And your baby will thank you for the stability.
I’m someone who’s in an LDR and with a 10 year age gap (I’m 31 and my partner is 21). You have to ask yourself if you can see a future with your partner as things are now. You mentioned that you would be missing out on things, but what are you missing out that you can’t do now? If it’s to date other people then ask yourself if you would be happier seeing other people because you don’t see your relationship going anywhere. Before you make a decision I recommend talking to your partner about what he thinks about his future and if it matches up with yours.
he didn't think about it, as far as i am aware. he is straight and also has never tasted his own. so i think he just never knew anything at all and i happened to be the first person to mention it, and it made him self conscious.
i would do anything in his comfort zone. i absolutely enjoy and miss doing it, i enjoy his taste and have no issue at all. i had no idea my dumb comment would affect this part of our sex life and his confidence. i'm not even sure what advice i'm asking, i just thought maybe somebody out there on either side of the coin might have some inspo tbh
“…it’s not something we need in an otherwise good marriage.”
No. This is not “otherwise good”. This is maybe a great roommate situation. Maybe you’re great at coparenting (though I’d disagree, more on that later). But having one partner heartbroken, with emotional and physical needs unmet, while the other is just trying to figure out how to have it entirely her way, is not a “good marriage”.
Next up… the kids are already paying the price. You don’t think they notice your distance? You don’t think your emotional detachment already impacts them? You don’t think that what they are seeing now may impede their ability to build an actually good marriage later? I guarantee you, children would rather come from a broken home than live in one – and if you’re great coparents, you will both show up for your kids in a more positive way if you’re both happy. Obviously you’ve chosen your religion over all else when it comes to functionality, but you don’t have to force that to be your children’s future.
Lastly… go to therapy. This is far beyond “sex isn’t my thing”. Maybe it isn’t, but that’s not even the biggest problem here. Your emotional detachment is. You’re living a half life and instead of living fully you’re asking your husband to be happy with half too. He deserves better… but so do you.
As a nonbinary person, I can 100% assure you it’s okay. You’re using the pronouns he is okay with and that is all that matters.
If your friend doesn’t usually do this, you can talk about what made her react the way she did. She may be feeling disregarded by society and projecting that onto you. If she still insists that you are a bigot though, you need to set the appropriate boundaries.
Like he actually responded? Who believes that? After all those posts you made we are now to believe that not only did you contact him but he responded??
Thank you for this comment! ? Honestly, the way we have normalized the shaming of those who still live with their parents/families for whatever reasons is incredibly disheartening. You have no idea what is going on in a person's life to cause them to still live at home/return home. It's honestly becoming more common these days to see people return home or stay at home with how a lot of economies are tanking and the cost of housing are still rising.
Wait. Your boyfriend is right. Get married first, really get established, get an actual house and stuff, and THEN have a baby. He'll feel better about it, and then your relationship won't suffer. And your baby will thank you for the stability.
I’m someone who’s in an LDR and with a 10 year age gap (I’m 31 and my partner is 21). You have to ask yourself if you can see a future with your partner as things are now. You mentioned that you would be missing out on things, but what are you missing out that you can’t do now? If it’s to date other people then ask yourself if you would be happier seeing other people because you don’t see your relationship going anywhere. Before you make a decision I recommend talking to your partner about what he thinks about his future and if it matches up with yours.
he didn't think about it, as far as i am aware. he is straight and also has never tasted his own. so i think he just never knew anything at all and i happened to be the first person to mention it, and it made him self conscious.
i would do anything in his comfort zone. i absolutely enjoy and miss doing it, i enjoy his taste and have no issue at all. i had no idea my dumb comment would affect this part of our sex life and his confidence. i'm not even sure what advice i'm asking, i just thought maybe somebody out there on either side of the coin might have some inspo tbh
Why isn’t he making his own food ?
“…it’s not something we need in an otherwise good marriage.”
No. This is not “otherwise good”. This is maybe a great roommate situation. Maybe you’re great at coparenting (though I’d disagree, more on that later). But having one partner heartbroken, with emotional and physical needs unmet, while the other is just trying to figure out how to have it entirely her way, is not a “good marriage”.
Next up… the kids are already paying the price. You don’t think they notice your distance? You don’t think your emotional detachment already impacts them? You don’t think that what they are seeing now may impede their ability to build an actually good marriage later? I guarantee you, children would rather come from a broken home than live in one – and if you’re great coparents, you will both show up for your kids in a more positive way if you’re both happy. Obviously you’ve chosen your religion over all else when it comes to functionality, but you don’t have to force that to be your children’s future.
Lastly… go to therapy. This is far beyond “sex isn’t my thing”. Maybe it isn’t, but that’s not even the biggest problem here. Your emotional detachment is. You’re living a half life and instead of living fully you’re asking your husband to be happy with half too. He deserves better… but so do you.
r/whoosh
As a nonbinary person, I can 100% assure you it’s okay. You’re using the pronouns he is okay with and that is all that matters.
If your friend doesn’t usually do this, you can talk about what made her react the way she did. She may be feeling disregarded by society and projecting that onto you. If she still insists that you are a bigot though, you need to set the appropriate boundaries.
Like he actually responded? Who believes that? After all those posts you made we are now to believe that not only did you contact him but he responded??
Thank you for this comment! ? Honestly, the way we have normalized the shaming of those who still live with their parents/families for whatever reasons is incredibly disheartening. You have no idea what is going on in a person's life to cause them to still live at home/return home. It's honestly becoming more common these days to see people return home or stay at home with how a lot of economies are tanking and the cost of housing are still rising.