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I'm here to say something different. Your post is expecting an answer. You want us to tell you to leave. Hey, maybe you should. But I haven't read anywhere in your post that you talked about this calmly with him. I'd suggest for you to sit him down some day that this “alpha” mansplaining is NOT going on. And talk about this. If he's not responsive, tell him that you think this is a dealbreaker for you, if he says he will try, and you love him, then try, see how it goes. Opportunities are important, for both of you, but specially for him. If you love yourself, you haven't been 5 years here for nothing, so at least tell him as clearly and as maturely as possible what's the issue, he may grow out of it WITH you, may grow out of it by the time you're gone, or maybe, just maybe, not grow out of it ever.
Best of luck
Just be there for him and be willing to listen. There's really nothing you can do if she's not willing to seek help. Help him not to enable her in her disfunction. It's not good for him or for her either. Likely she won't seek help until things are intolerable for her, and as long as he's there to keep it from being intolerable, she's not going to do anything to change it.
Definitely is.
that was my old relationship
LOL. What a dolt.
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I want to try and give the short version of events because it's early in the morning and I've hardly slept it's been one of those nights.
My husband and I are staying with my sister for two weeks. We've come to California for a family emergency and my sister was kind enough to let us stay with her and her husband. My husband and I got into a huge fight a few hours ago because of the way he has been acting here. He's been acting immature for the past 4 days, but this is the big reason we've had a fight
My sister (Juliet) is a surgeon. Her husband has a heart condition he just had surgery for it. He came back home right before we arrived. She's obviously very worried about it and isn't letting him do a lot. She's taken time off for it. Her one request was we make things as easy for Tyler as we can. My husband commented to me that she isn't even letting Tyler him get up to get himself a drink.
My husband had this idea in his head that he'd ask how their sex life even works if Tyler is like this. Juliet snapped at him that it's none of his business and obviously he isn't like this all the time. She was very upset and said maybe she should ask him the same. He said he was just joking and she wasn't having it.
My husband and I got into a big fight. I'm just so fustrsted because he sees everything as a joke and takes nothing seriously. If he upsets someone, he says he was just playing around. I'm struggling to make him see he's really starting to embarrass me during this time in front of my family and he's making the family resent him
What a crazy mofo, pull out the Uno reverse card and leave his ass. That'll knock him out of his fairytale world.
You have one life. If you want to discuss and try to work it out, then do so. If you don't, then don't. You don't owe anything to anyone except yourself and your children. I'm sure your children would rather you be happy and potentially find another partner who is affectionate and loving than your manipulative husband.
I'm sure there will be some discussion logistically. But it doesn't seem like there is anything to work out. I'm sure transition is tough but ENJOY your freedom!
She said she was “bored” because we haven’t seen each-other in a while.
You are still so young, life gets better I promise! I wouldn’t redo my 20’s if you paid me lol. You got this. Some sobriety and some hearty food will definitely help in the morning.
I had an ex cheat on me and I set their stuff on fire. My last ex cheated and we went to therapy and lived apart for a year….. been HAPPILY married ten years now. Cheating isn’t black and white. Sometimes good people do bad things. It doesn’t make them bad people. You seem like a pretty good dude, she’s lucky to have you.
Well lucky you… you get the watch, and you get to buy yourself another expensive gift to celebrate your newfound financial security!
Just think about it that way instead of getting upset. So you didn’t get to buy the watch because your girlfriend bought it for you? Great! Now you can buy something else!
I find it shocking that there are so many people in this thread insisting that OP needs to leave. And what's even worse is the number of people who think the dude's lying about his trauma.
If kids and teens who've been abused often smear their own shit on the walls, why is it such a stretch for a sexually abused teen to piss on an SO? Kids and teens make themselves 'disgusting' when they smear their shit, psychologically discouraging their abuser from abusing them further. I cannot be the only one who thinks that that is likely the exact emotional process that the bf went through. If he was transported back to the time/s he was abused due to having sex with OP, it's understandable that he'd lose sight of reality and revert to a defense mechanism to 'disgust' OP in order to psychologically avoid further abuse. Clearly he's not ready for sex and needs to thoroughly work through his trauma.
There are some fucking psychopaths in here, and good on you OP for reacting, as the primary victim in this situation, more maturely than basically everyone in here giving you 'advice.' I wish you both all the best
Run! This is not healthy at all!
Can you put your baby in a nursery? You don't have to be a stay at home mother. Lots of parents use nurseries and their babies are just fine. Or you can ask your SIL to be a babysitter. Four children is a lot and their is no shame in getting outside help. If your husband doesn't like it tough.
He’s unable or unwilling to meet your well-communicated needs. You can’t change him, and he hasn’t shown interest in changing. Perhaps because he’s still basically a child. Maybe date someone a little older.
It's more in the sense of “Would this warrant a break up or is it just a mild problem that really doesn't mean much in the long term?” Like if everyone pointed out that he was reasonable, maybe she'd think it was acceptable after all. Not that you need any reason to break up.
Even younger than 10 you have school, friends, sleep overs with other children, sports. You build tree forts, catch frogs, romp in the woods, ride bikes. I don’t know of any child (unless they are an infant) who is tethered to their parents hip, and forced to be around them 24/7. That, to me would actually be pretty bizarre and abusive rather than an ideal family. But I suppose that’s a needed element for that person to make his bogus assertion that poly parents are all narcissists and selfish and incapable of being as good of parents as mono parents.
Does she know you're going to sex parties?
Time to cut ties with people that have no honor and respect.
Well then he is either very careful or, and more likely, not cheating.
Yeah, her behavior about him is highly suspicious. Next time, DO skip work and insist on going on the family day with her, while insisting on seeing her phone to read her texts. If she refuses to show you her phone, she's definitely hiding something big.
This would be a giant red flag for me. This has exactly zero to do with trusting her and everything to do with trying to be responsible for whether or not you bring a kid into the world.
Have you had an explicit conversation with her about what you both think you would want to do if she were to become pregnant unintentionally? If not, it is time to have that conversation. Are you interested in having a vasectomy now or later, potentially after kids or never at all? That would also be a good conversation to have.
Separate point: I dunno about you, but my pictures are archived on a computer and backupped regularly.
It's still cheating even though she was with another girl! Let me ask you a question, how do you feel about this? Do you feel like you can continue this relationship after this breach of trust?
This woman is waving red flags in your face like a parade for Lenin!
You need to move on dude.
He gave me a key…
I talk like this with a male childhood friend, and he’s not even gay. He’s straight and married. But we grew up together so like siblings I guess. But if the guy is gay, I agree, this language is normal, kind of tame actually. I also speak this way with female friends of mine. It all depends on context, is what I’m saying.
Maybe find out more? If whatever you find is cheating, break up. If he’s gay and it’s all cool, just roll with it I think.
Move forward buy buying your own home and securing your self at this relasaion he is saying he is not in the space he thought y'all would be in to be taking this step. So bow out gracefully either work on the relationship or leave it
No no no no no. She is a walking red flag. Get rid of this woman.
This emotional affair started before the DV/assault and the aftermath. So you need some god-damn perspective yourself. They are both totally inappropiate but because your damsell in distress reflex is activated OP needs some perspective? WTF