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Room for online sex video chat Missy101_
Model from: za
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1996-10-01
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityEbony
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: December 20, 2022
Oof mate; I’m life we have coping mechanisms to break up the hundrum of life.
In the mist of depression, you were her safe port.
Now, it’s the medicine.
Perhaps, you should go to therapy. You also might need to re-seduce your wife ??
I guess I'll say something as the first one here
Basically, you're entitled to whatever you decide is a turn on/off, and if any of those things end up being a deal breaker, then you're entitled to respectfully end the relationship. What you shouldn't do, however, is blatantly tell your girlfriend that she's fatter that she used to be, that you aren't attracted to her as much as you were back then anymore, and that she should change her diet and routine to better fit your ideal image. You need to decide for yourself whether or not keeping a girlfriend who constantly fits your preferred type criteria is a deal breaker to you.
Now the other thing I noticed is that you didn't mention her health or lifestyle in any part of this post. You did of course mention how you feel about the change and your health and lifestyle, but from the sound of it you're not the least bit concerned with how she's doing but rather how attractive you find her, and when she doesn't fit your criteria your eyes wander and you lose interest in being attracted to her. Again you are entitled to having a preferred type, but if you care about her I feel like the discussion would be more about her health and not how you see her
To sum up, and as something everyone should know by now, if her weight isn't a health issue, don't bring up a woman's weight. Instead just decide if you're going to stay with her because you love her or leave because you aren't satisfied, to me that sounds like your only two options
I feel like it’s to specific not too be thought out lol and maybe that’s not her only gift for you?
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Go see your doctor and explain what happened and that you don’t know if you were exposed to hiv or not. You can get anti-virals as a protection measure to prevent getting it. Then get tested in 19 days and again in 3 months, and 6 months.
How did the break up go?
What do you mean, she 'won't let you go'? Is she going to lock you in the basement? Are you wearing a shock collar?
You're an adult. Just go.
Don't ask, tell. If you are really concerned she would physically block you (WTF??) then your plan is a good one: Leave and send texts. “Mom, decided to go skiing. Will keep you posted.” If she blows up your phone, don't answer, don't reply. Don't let her ruin your weekend.
Yes there will be fallout when you get home, but at 20 it's time to not be so controlled by your mom. Also if you live with her, take steps to move out as soon as possible.
Not paying attention to her is very much the answer. The best time to unfollow / unfriend her would have been when the breakup happened; the next best time is now.
What she’s doing is none of your business whatsoever. Ignore it and move on.
Do you want another five years to go by and find out the same exact thing is happening again? Do you want your child to be in a similar relationship in the future?
I also require him to not abuse me mentally. Physically, emotionally, verbally, etc.
That’s not a sacrifice though. That’s requiring mutual respect. And yes boundaries are healthy but that’s what you do to keep yourself safe, that’s not you requiring sacrifice to prove love. And expectations are only ok if agreed on, you can go on expecting people to do shit if they don’t agree.
And choosing to sacrifice without being asked because it makes the other person happy is way different than forcing the other person to sacrifice to prove they love you. The first is sweet, the second one what you’re doing, is toxic.
you’re not weird or a bad person for feeling this way, but it sounds like physical touch could be an important love language for her. this is important to have a serious conversation with her about.
lol, guess not!
I actually disagree that because he’ll go to the police that the video was a complete fake because; A) this scammer is still committing crimes/the police don’t care how the video was obtained they care about the crime being committed ie extortion etc and B) sunk cost fallacy. In for a penny/in for a pound. If you’re in a hole, just keep digging until you come out the other side!
Her husband is ashamed, confused right now, probably a bit depressed or very, marriage is having issues, wife is sick.
It was an exciting stress reliever for him that back fired.
What do our thoughts matter? You are broken up.
Get over yourself and just break up, there’s no need to be an awful person
OP, just want to say – make sure you realize how great you are as well. You seem like a very caring and empathetic girl but please realize you are in no way inferior to your friend Ashley. If your fiancé is with you, he is not settling – and I hope his words to you are truly genuine because you should not settle for a man who openly flirts with your friend. Hopefully your bf will respect your feelings and set boundaries with Ashley moving forward.
I mean that would strain her emotionally. Worrying and second-guessing if the person that you love is doing something behind your back takes a toll. Let things setlle down, give her space, then have a calm conversation to explain why you did what you did, and if she’s not open to it, at least you tried. That’s how I always approached dating- at least I let them know how I feel, at least I tried this or that, then I knew I wouldn’t live with some awful regret of what could have been if only I did xyz BUT if she’s not open to it, don’t beg or grovel that’s just going to make her hurt even worse.
Ma’am, I do not have enough strength in my thumbs to type out on my phone all the reasons your boyfriend sucks a field of dicks, and all the ways this is completely fucked up. I hope it suffices to say that if my own son ever spoke to his girlfriend like this, I wouldn’t speak to him again until he’d apologised to her and begged her forgiveness.
Your boyfriend is a very, very bad person. And not in a fun, exciting, dangerous way. Just in a shitty, pathetic, insecure sexist way. You shouldn’t give him another second of your time.
Or bf is overreacting, if his first reaction is to throw out the cat and not find a solution that's not unlikely
Si This 31 year old man without a job or a place to live has called you a cunt.
No.
I don’t think you should co to use the relationship but ultimately that’s up to you. The biggest problem now is that you need to get this slacker out of your home.
All this… to train a grown man to take care of his home? No fucking way.
I think when he is at work, you should pack up you and your son’s stuff, go to a hotel, and leave a note for him saying “We are in a hotel until you talk to us. Let me know when you are ready to talk and I will come home. But if you do the silent treatment anymore, at all ever, we will go back to a hotel. I will not tolerate the silent treatment anymore.” And just stay there and don’t try to contact him. If a few weeks go by and he doesn’t contact you then contact a lawyer.
Woah. Ditch this loser for someone who will actually respect you. That should be your bday present to yourself!
No it’s different
Either no pets in the bedroom or all pets in the bedroom, it's compromise
Lots of foreplay and toys. Improve your game, it's no shame.
She finally showed you who she really is: a cheating racist who won’t take responsibility for her own actions. It’s kind of shocking that you’re even considering taking her back.
Well we can’t exactly let people at work know we are together because it could threaten our jobs
She's lying. They fucked.
What else is she lying about and who else has she fucked?
How could you possibly trust her at this point?
He has been jealous and angry sometimes about men stepping over boundaries but not like this
Why are you friends with someone interested in different things?
You either are friends for a reason or it’s come to an end. (Nothing to do with your different values).
If you can’t be accepting then you answered your question and it’s time to stop being friends. Just be acquaintances. Friendly but no more.
You are surrounded by people that don’t agree with your views. You still have to get along.
So looking at opie's history it seems that she got the dog with her ex after they broke up I don't think it's the same as what you're saying
Ask her if she’d be fine with you spending a week in a secluded cabin with one of your female friends who has also said she wants to have sec with you
Translation: it’s over, dump her and move on
He keeps changing the story.
She's clearly not interested.
If i were u, I'd let it go .
By 'traditional' do you mean you consider her your property that she should have your name?
You could have gone double barreled if you actually wanted everyone to have the same surnames but you didn't because you want everyone to have YOUR name.
Thank you. People really don’t need to know.
You are probably having a crush on him because your fiance is not available. Is there any chance your fiance could make time for the 2 of you?
He’s not going to propose and even if he did, how long will he be gone for?
He made you wait for six years and it will be longer because he’s leaving.
I have nothing against military people but the utmost respect. But it seems like this man is just going to ghost you. He had what he wanted from you and he’ll leave you for another when he gets the chance.
“Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.”