This advice needs to be higher. So many young people make this mistake
Typically when there’s a huge age gap, the younger person feels so mature and flattered that they were chosen. When really, the older person is most likely a huge loser who mature people won’t touch with a 10 foot pole. And the younger person is too naive to know better
I would start off everything by talking. Everything you’ve said here you should express to him before making any rash decisions. Long term relationships are dependent on effective communication, and when you’re feeling frustrated, often times the other party doesn’t even know. I’m not saying to definitely stay together or definitely break up, all I’m saying is that you shouldn’t make any decisions without talking to him about how you feel first.
That was my first thought too. Everything else is superfluous as well as a complete mess. A partner purposely spitting on me? Absolutely not, that would be the end right there.
Nah these comments are crazy. If my boyfriend was moving to a new city and had a good friend living there already and looking for a roommate, I would 100% encourage him to get an apartment with his friend, regardless of that friends gender. Although I’m secure in my relationship and trust my partner. A good friend you trust is a safer option than a stranger.
Contact the police and tell your parents right now. He is a rapist, he raped you, it WILL happen again if you don't break up with him. You are succumbing to the sunk cost fallacy, or perhaps you are very confused. The important thing right now is to keep yourself safe. No matter what you do, do not let yourself be alone with him ever again. I'm so sorry.
Wake the hell up. He threatened to kill your cat and attempting to coerce you to bed even though you agreed to that boundary. All the flags were there from the start, you just refuse to do anything about them. Now do something about it. Leave.
If this is not a life you wanted then you really should breakup. It will make you more and more unhappy with time, if you are already unhappy now.
This advice needs to be higher. So many young people make this mistake
Typically when there’s a huge age gap, the younger person feels so mature and flattered that they were chosen. When really, the older person is most likely a huge loser who mature people won’t touch with a 10 foot pole. And the younger person is too naive to know better
I would start off everything by talking. Everything you’ve said here you should express to him before making any rash decisions. Long term relationships are dependent on effective communication, and when you’re feeling frustrated, often times the other party doesn’t even know. I’m not saying to definitely stay together or definitely break up, all I’m saying is that you shouldn’t make any decisions without talking to him about how you feel first.
That was my first thought too. Everything else is superfluous as well as a complete mess. A partner purposely spitting on me? Absolutely not, that would be the end right there.
Nah these comments are crazy. If my boyfriend was moving to a new city and had a good friend living there already and looking for a roommate, I would 100% encourage him to get an apartment with his friend, regardless of that friends gender. Although I’m secure in my relationship and trust my partner. A good friend you trust is a safer option than a stranger.
We never talked outside of the one conversation on tinder, but maybe I should grab the Bull by the horns like this
I think the best way for you to make this story work is to do an update later saying that it was in fact a dream and you’ve been in a coma for a year.
Love this sub for the many ludicrous creative writing projects there are. This isn’t one of the better ones.
Contact the police and tell your parents right now. He is a rapist, he raped you, it WILL happen again if you don't break up with him. You are succumbing to the sunk cost fallacy, or perhaps you are very confused. The important thing right now is to keep yourself safe. No matter what you do, do not let yourself be alone with him ever again. I'm so sorry.
I think it’s the first time someone had said sorry to me on Reddit. Damn. Respect.
Regardless of what I think, you have to be firm with your boundaries with him and he HAS to respect that.
Wake the hell up. He threatened to kill your cat and attempting to coerce you to bed even though you agreed to that boundary. All the flags were there from the start, you just refuse to do anything about them. Now do something about it. Leave.
Weird, keto really shouldn't change a person very much.