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Date: November 5, 2022
I feel like you need to have a deep and meaningful chat with your partner and say something like
“Whilst I cherish all the gifts you give me I’m worried this is setting a precedent with my family and friends as now people are talking about your wealth and thinking I should be giving them handouts”
As for your family tell them they are expected to look after themselves financially and you will NOT be gifting LV bags nor agreeing to their self entitlement and demands
I get why you are reluctant to burn bridges with family but the longer you stay silent the worse this will become
the woman is in the USA and a Border agent at the crossing we both used many times. That’s how I imagine they met.
It takes some serious cojones to hit on someone you normally speak to only briefly, while in transit, who knows you have a long-term partner. What a prick
Can you stop doing his washing/cooking/etc and just take care of yourself and the baby. It’ll force him to begin to take care of himself and once he gets used to that he can take over and do stuff for you too. And if he doesn’t at least you’re saving some energy for yourself
He's controlling. Down to when you can sleep. That's not healthy. That's not loving. That's a power trip.
If he is a reasonable loving guy, what happens when you tell him to stop micromanaging your life? Is he going to freak out, or be understanding?
I wouldn't let anyone force me to live that way
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Right? If she is somehow doing 8 hours of chores a day in an apartment they can start divvying up the extra…
we already talked about it and she told me she doesnt feel respected, i told her it has nothing to do with her if i watch this stuff but this doesnt change her view
for example she collects weird necklaces and i told her it´s like taking away her necklaces
She said in writing that you’re a back up plan. Break up.
And maybe when you break up with her, don’t even tell her what you found. Just so you don’t find her attractive anymore or aren’t into her. Bring her arrogance down a notch.
Communication.
Have you consulted a doctor about these issues?
I can say I feel bothered for reasons that are arguably sexist, but I don't care. and I've never been seriously involved or in a committed relationship w someone who beat me out in that category, as far as I'm aware.
I guess I believe that women shouldn't be that way, and it's a concern if a girl allows that many men to have that part of her over the course of time.
She didn't hold back and told me about what she did, i appreciated the honesty but I just felt irked by it Like the thought of it all, just irked me. She had all these experiences and they seemed to just fall into her lap, meanwhile I never got that, I let women pass me by in the past because I was insecure and unconfident at the time, I let a previous ex treat me like absolute trash, and leave me for a “friend” after breaking up w me in the worst way possible (ironically she was extremely conservative and only was with one man before me)
I have since gained a lot of confidence and self respect and I no longer feel that way, nor would I allow myself to be treated poorly or disrespected again.
This relationship has been going on 1.5 yrs, and me being an overthinker, its just something that's in the back of my mind, given at some point we may take things further.
Oh wow I'm sorry you had to go through that 🙁
Your story made me go back and read like a years worth of conversation, I'm just so unsure of my next step.
I think when I asked if this could recover, I meant if I could continue this friendship and not be disrespecting myself basically, I can't tell if I'm letting myself be walked over or not. I asked that question terribly I'm sorry lol.
Thank you for understanding! It's hard for me to talk about it with him because I don't want him to think I'm shallow. But I've struggled with depression for years until it ended me in the ER. Since then I've been getting my life together and focusing hard on my self worth, I feel like this might be another helpful step forward in that and I hope he can see that too
Idk if it matters but im also a woman lol
Not just ppd, she’s a physical abuser who needs to be in jail
Get up, that is never acceptable.
You have two problems:
Why was he unhappy with you (and life) prior? Can that be fixed? Has there been enough good in this relationship for you to make an effort?
Many factors figure in the answer, including your age. Do you have a clear idea what you want and how that compares to your current relationship? Your personality may also allow or prevent forgiving and rebuilding trust. Are easygoing or hard-ass, ready to take risks or jealous and reserved?
Ew get help. She deserves better jfc
Valid. Yes. Worth wasting even a moment of life on? No.
You like the idea that someone wants you. Most people like that feeling but not the point of considering breaking up with their partner. Do your girlfriend a favor and break up with her before you get married and realize you can't say no to other suitors.
Ok… trying to sum it up here. You like her, she's made it clear that she don't wanna get with you, but shows interest in your friend, and your friend blows her off and that pisses you off.
You're offended on her behalf, and trying to be the knight in shining armor.
Well, the tough luck is that she's not responsible for your feelings. But you're making it your responsibility for the feelings she may have in being shut down, in the same way she's shutting you down.
You need to get a realization of where you are in this world
Girl, you need therapy, a lot of it. I think there is more to your story. What you written here sounds like bad fanfic.
Sounds like boundary issues combined with a half assed attempt to see if she’s open to being anywhere near his seed.
His ex was a closeted lesbian who later came out of the closet.
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Even better: “do I know you?”
Not really. You're the one stereotyping all of India
Did you know women are allowed to speak to other human beings? Such as coworkers, friends, family….crazy concept, I know.
Remember the only information about him being gay comes from her. He has kissed her and seen her naked, now want to sleep in his room. Wonder how this escalates from here?
“You can make memories with me or no one” – your bf
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Thank you. This is really helpful
Thanks for the clarifications!
Their mutual friend (the one that introduced them together) does not know about the baby. All that knows is Jane, me, and the other friend.
So does your friend really want to be dating someone who keeps their child such a secret? He clearly doesn't want people to judge him for being an absent parent, but c'mon…. him not being upfront makes things a lot worse.
Im glad you can see that POV. Thank you for this reasonable discussion. Rare on reddit these days lol.
Yep this. It's absolutely abusive for a parent to make a child responsible for their emotional well being. Op needs to tell mom that there's no reason to meet bc there's nothing to talk about. And if she can't respect her decisions, ultimately she will have to cut get out of her life. Giving mom any foothold to continue controlling or manipulative op's life will only end in disaster. Op establish these boundaries now, before marriagecbc this won't be the last time the attempts to exert control over something that's none of her business.
A lot of assumptions here.
If she really wanted, she could give you oral, and anal for penetrative sex. Lots of women with vaginismus offer those alternatives, there is a whole reddit dedicated to anal only relationships. There is absolutely no reason to reduce your sexuality to handjobs, she should step up.
Sex is a foundational pillar of every relationship, IDK how you lasted this long with her.
Keep things ended. You were lucky enough to catch on early
I need a timeline here. When did he stop trying to get her number? Did he still have a crush on her when he got with you? Did he get with you because he knew he couldn't get her? Why didn't he tell you before y'all made things official? My anxiety could never…
But it’s not the first time a mother preferred her boyfriend’s company to her children’s safety 🙂
Seems like he is trying to push you to file for divorce. Then he can blame you for it instead of taking responsibility for his part
So you really think your ex is going to want to have an affair with you? You think she's gonna be attracted to a dude who wants to leave his wife and break his fully established family over an obsession that has grown in his head? Because this is all in your head. There isn't actually anything between you and your ex.
You really aren't a very good person. You seem very selfish, seem unbothered by hurting the women in your life.
It is both interesting and uninteresting reading this post though. Interesting to see the perspective of people like you – but also not interesting…because I don't feel like I gained anything from it. You're a few years older than me, and more established in terms of marriage, kids etc. But I'm reading this thinking where is the growth? Aren't people supposed to be become better versions of themselves as they get older? You seem to be regressing in maturity and severely lacking in integrity. But we're 10 years on from the last time you did this…the stakes are much higher now. I'm sorry for your wife, sorry for your ex, and disappointed by you dude.
Clearly you need better examples around you, better mentors. You also need to look up limerance – because it just about sums up this post. You are controlled by your fantasies. You do not live in reality. And now it controls your thoughts all day, every day? It isn't your wife or your exes job to fix you dude.
She is projecting.
Just want to throw in there that I was a single mom of 3 kids just a handful of years ago and I worked full time. If she can’t manage to work full time with 1 kid? good luck. Also, my partner was an ATM for his ex-wife.. I gladly put a stop to that. Should he and I divorce, I would never expect him to pay child support for my children and probably not even spousal support. Don’t be a sucker OP, you’re digging yourself a hole.
This is a findom kink story.
My partner and I have purchased several properties together. Everything in both our names even if my financial contribution was less, because I was doing less paid work and the vast majority of the unpaid work. If either of us dies, our share goes to our children. It's clearcut, no mess. No need to get married. Either of us can up and leave whenever we want, no lawyers will get rich off of us.
I don't understand why anybody would entertain the thought of getting legally tied to a person who might end up cheating on you.
You’re being a mooch and super entitled. She gave up her space to let you move in, it only makes sense you would pay rent.
You aren’t her husband lol
I want my innocence back.
“Is he lacking something significant that those women see and I don’t?” Not necessarily but it’s also not uncommon for that to be the case with men who pursue much younger women.
“ I have a lot of trouble noticing red flags in men.”
Then dating a man with 17 more years of life experience, which can include developing some bad habits, is a horrible idea.
This doesn’t sound like she’s accusing you of rape at all. It sounds like she knows you’re expecting sex when you’re alone and she’s feeling emotionally pressured into having sex with you to please you.
Both of your sides are valid. You can require a healthy sex life in a marriage partner, and she can not want to have sex very often. This might just make you incompatible.
Ok thanks
You're setting yourself up for divorce. You need to know if you can handle the stress of daily life, bill paying, and just cohabitation. You cannot know that with just weekend sleepovers.
What you should be doing is dumping him, you already know he isn't faithful and he sure as hell doesn't love you, otherwise he wouldn't be flirting with your coworkers…
I know this may sound harsh but you need to wake up to reality, the guy that use to treat you like a queen is showing you his true colors and you don't need to waste anymore of your precious time, if he is the father of your unborn child then hook him up with child support.
Oh dear. Yes this definitely tracks. And shows you where her priorities lie. What’s to stop her from freaking out on your fiancée or her family if she feels like it? Her personality seems to be based on being a victim and making everyone else miserable. But you know that, it seems.
I’d tell her dad and gf are invited. She is welcome to do with that information what she will. If she decides not to attend it’s absolutely her loss. If she attends and starts shit and gets kicked out that’s also her loss (and obviously distressing and not what you want!). But she’s an adult making choices. Bad choices but her choices.
I’d love to tell you it will be fine and you’ll feel better but it’s going to be a process. ❤️
People are being pretty harsh with you here, but from reading your comments this is what I think your situation is: You grew up without proper sex Ed and we’re extremely sheltered and controlled by your parents. You did what hormonal teenagers everywhere do, and had a bunch of ill-advised sex. You got pregnant, then figured out how to financially support yourself and your child (and briefly your boyfriend also, it sounds like). Can I just say? You’ve dealt really well with a really difficult thing. It doesn’t sound like you’ve had any parental support, and it sounds like you’re saving for your child’s future. I can also understand why, if you know you ultimately want more children, it might make sense to do that now so that all the toddler/small child stuff happens within the same decade. If I was your older sister I would probably urge you pretty strongly to reconsider, but I can’t argue that you don’t know what this decision would mean. However. Your boyfriend does not sound like he’s very clear headed about this. That tips me over into thinking this is a really, really bad idea. It shouldn’t be entirely your responsibility, but he’s clearly thinking with his dick here. Be the sensible one in the equation.
Ya. Just a refresh. Your not arguing, you want an honest reply on how things are, as it will give you better perspective on how to be “more open”.
Traditional to who?
It’s 2023, my guy. Women can vote and everything.
It’s almost like not every person is alike. Nah, all women are tough and handle things the same way. You’re right.
On the 3rd date ya, so I'm guessing he got what he wanted right?
On the spit? Or do you go full slow smoker style
Very first time I went down on girl, it was actualcottage cheese, it was traumatic like the kind of thing I remember vividly 20 years later. We weren't in a relationship much longer but we were both pretty young, was so greatful that every other girl I was with was nothing like that.
If you know that taking good care of yourself and diet can have an effect that perhaps he might just be too sensitive.
I lost all,but 1 friend from highschool. I made no friends in uni.
in total I have 3 friends mainly because im very picky to whome I let into my life, but im also not social.
dating is not bad I just hate that first few dates its not my strong point opening up.
This woman is not your girlfriend, and she is not that interested. Stop letting her string you along.
The only advice we can give you is to communicate with them, and your response every time is that you don’t feel comfortable. It is not ok to not feel comfortable talking to your partner about this.
Unless you can find a way to be happy to have sex whenever they want to, you’re going to have to talk to them about it.
reddit is a terrible place to get advice on anything remotely religious. it's your wedding, you get to decide who comes.
Sadly just think about his wife? You're probably not the first person he's cheated with her. Be thankful you dodged a bullet and I'm sorry there are such creeps out there.
The title of the sub is relationship advice. My advice: forget he existed. Don't second guess yourself. Move on.
Just make sure she is showing through actions not words. Her words are worthless.
Your advice is sound. And can definitely relate to what you are saying. Still my argument stands on where is the communication for it? I can accept all those things. But I deserve to be told the truth and two people playing hide and seek and impacting my mental health further is far from professional.
I cannot know what to change or to do better if I do not get the time of day to be told about the issues.
I can accept that it is me, I cannot accept their way of going about this.
Fair enough. But does OP really believe his father is then obligated to pay for his schooling? Nah. Is it a dick move for his dad to put this stipulation on his education? Absolutely. Especially a decision that sets his entire future… career, marriage, children, etc. But some people don't have the good fortune of someone else to pay their way at all.
Are you by any chance from a non-Western country or have a non-Western background? If yes, I would suggest that you mention this in your post so that everybody knows your family dynamics and the corresponding expectations might be different from what Westerners are familiar with.
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Your mother is obviously extremely overprotective of you, and it sounds like you are largely enabling her behaviour by continuously letting her dictate what you do or don't do, which in turn also affects your boyfriend.
Overall, I think your mother is being wholly unreasonable, and I think it's very understandable that your boyfriend doesn't want to deal with her behaviour or give in to her demands. He's an adult, as are you, and you both deserve to be treated as such.
Since you still live at home and receive financial support from your mother, you probably don't have a lot of leeway when it comes to demanding to be treated with more respect, but I think it's only right that you at the very least protect your boyfriend from your mother's behaviour until your situation changes.
That’s not abuse. She set a boundary and he chose to accept it. You’re delusional but let me know if you go to his parents house, I’d love to imagine them laughing at you or playing nice to get your psychotic ass out of their home. If they respond to you like an hiring manager letting you know you tanked the interview in a kind goodbye implication, you’re gonna be considered “that crazy lady”
I sure hate the thought, but I can't argue with that.
Thanks for the help, buddy