OK you left out some details here. If this was a guy I was dating for three months. I’d tell him to go blow it. If this is my live-in boyfriend that I have a one on one long-term monogamous relationship, I would restrict my time with my friend. Lunches every once in a while invite him over in a group there are so many stories on here and ones that I know of accidental boundary breaking when you’re out drinking with somebody that’s in a relationship. Also, all kinds of emotional boundaries get broken. The intimacy that belongs within your relationship is going to the best friend that’s a guy that understands you. I’m not real big on keeping close friends when you’re in a committed monogamous relationship.
It doesn't matter why I wanna break up. I was looking for advice on how to make the break up go smoother. If I didn't care about her, I'd just tell her to leave. I wouldn't be making this post.
The reason I want to break up is that I think our interests and ambitions don't line up.
As far as the leaving the apartment for a few weeks thing, that's not a bad idea. I don't think she'll want that but I can offer that. Thanks. That's the only bit of advice I've gotten so far.
I bet they make something for that. They make something for everything else. Don't take offense the guy is just incredibly turned on and his body won't let him wait. Figure out what you can do about it. Doesn't seem like a problem that can't be fixed. He's probably embarrassed. Solve the simple problem and you have a great guy.
You have receipts
Only the insecure ones.
OK you left out some details here. If this was a guy I was dating for three months. I’d tell him to go blow it. If this is my live-in boyfriend that I have a one on one long-term monogamous relationship, I would restrict my time with my friend. Lunches every once in a while invite him over in a group there are so many stories on here and ones that I know of accidental boundary breaking when you’re out drinking with somebody that’s in a relationship. Also, all kinds of emotional boundaries get broken. The intimacy that belongs within your relationship is going to the best friend that’s a guy that understands you. I’m not real big on keeping close friends when you’re in a committed monogamous relationship.
It doesn't matter why I wanna break up. I was looking for advice on how to make the break up go smoother. If I didn't care about her, I'd just tell her to leave. I wouldn't be making this post.
The reason I want to break up is that I think our interests and ambitions don't line up.
As far as the leaving the apartment for a few weeks thing, that's not a bad idea. I don't think she'll want that but I can offer that. Thanks. That's the only bit of advice I've gotten so far.
A psychiatrist may be able to help.
I bet they make something for that. They make something for everything else. Don't take offense the guy is just incredibly turned on and his body won't let him wait. Figure out what you can do about it. Doesn't seem like a problem that can't be fixed. He's probably embarrassed. Solve the simple problem and you have a great guy.
You're dating a man that doesn't respect you.