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I think you’re underestimating the depression part of this, this is also why I likened it to addiction. I wager that OP wouldn’t mind the physical caretaking part or the chronic pain as much if the wife was in a more stable mood about it. Fair to her, she obviously can’t be, but she’s also perpetually depressed, angry, friendless, uses OP as a punching bag when he gets home. OP describes her as cynical, bitter and depressed several times. I have been around people like this for years, have you? Physical ailments are nothing, this here will eat you alive and leave you as the husk of the person you used to be. 2 years of this is 10 years of caretaking of someone who has simply physical ailments. His cup is full. Shaming people for reaching their limit is bullshit righteousness, nothing else.
Couples counseling, or therapy for her, really might be helpful. I know that I struggle with feeling sexy and having sex after gaining weight in my relationship. I'm very self-conscious about it, I don't want my partner to touch my fat, I feel undesirable, so I have an urge to pull away when he initiates affection that I have to fight against. It doesn't have anything to do with him: I love him, I find him attractive, I still want to have sex. It's just hard sometimes to want to have sex when you don't feel sexy. While he tells me over and over that he finds me attractive and sexy and etc., deep down I don't really believe it, because I don't find MYSELF attractive or sexy right now. It's possible something similar is going on with her, given what you've said about the situation, and talking about it with a professional might help, if she can dig down and acknowledge the issue.
Staying with him is also making a choice. What if you regret that?