Have you considered getting sterilized yourself? You are the one who would get pregnant. You are the one who would have to get an abortion or have a baby. You. Not him. If you break up with him in the future, his vasectomy doesn’t protect you anymore. Getting your tubes removed (not tied, removed) is the best way to stay childfree.
I fully believe your boyfriend is being immature and ridiculous. He should get the fuck over it and wear a condom. No debate here from me on that point. I’m just saying, it might be worth exploring your options.
Well I did that and the opposite happened. She got mad and just started chugging wine which led to a shitty night. So I'm just over it and don't see it improving.
She punished you by drinking harder as a means of holding power over you. She intentionally did it because she knows it bothers you.
I literally have the ashes of four separate people (in mini urns next to their pictures, except my dad who’s ashes are in a full size urn) in my house along with my cat’s ashes with her collar. It’s really not that weird.
I would dump her for having K-pop idols alone. Never mind all the other shit.
Have you considered getting sterilized yourself? You are the one who would get pregnant. You are the one who would have to get an abortion or have a baby. You. Not him. If you break up with him in the future, his vasectomy doesn’t protect you anymore. Getting your tubes removed (not tied, removed) is the best way to stay childfree.
I fully believe your boyfriend is being immature and ridiculous. He should get the fuck over it and wear a condom. No debate here from me on that point. I’m just saying, it might be worth exploring your options.
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Well I did that and the opposite happened. She got mad and just started chugging wine which led to a shitty night. So I'm just over it and don't see it improving.
She punished you by drinking harder as a means of holding power over you. She intentionally did it because she knows it bothers you.
I literally have the ashes of four separate people (in mini urns next to their pictures, except my dad who’s ashes are in a full size urn) in my house along with my cat’s ashes with her collar. It’s really not that weird.
This is exactly where my mind was good. Jack jealousy is so intense ???️
It is not something that should be done by people in a committed relationship without discussion.
And it’s very unlikely that the intention was to not be a part of the orgy, whether or not she did participate, she obviously wanted to.
So end it.
As even if she didn’t cheat, she definitely disrespected you and your relationship.
Thank you!!! This was helpful