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Date: February 23, 2023
There are so many grayed areas with porn.
Watching a video to get yourself off? Cool, you do you.
Watching it with your partner and you both get excited? Even better.
Watching it every single day, no matter what? Allowing it to ruin relationships, watching it at work, and your choice of videos getting progressively worse? There’s a problem.
There is a difference between watching it for fun, and someone who makes it their full time job.
I know porn is a boundary for a lot of women, and that’s completely understandable. For me personally, I don’t have a problem with it. But from my downvotes, I I pissed off a few with that view point.
However, I think there is a huge difference between going to pornhub, and watching a few videos to have fun to paying for an OF accounts, especially if they know the person on the OF’s.
If you have to pay to watch, and then, you HIDE that paper trail from your partner—knowing it would upset them—I would consider that cheating.
Anyways, that’s my worthless two cents.
She wants you to not abstain while she abstains…this lady is ass backwards. This is bullshit.
He doesn’t like them
Oh yeah, I feel you on that part then.
So she's basically told you again what she has been telling you from the beginning and for some reason you are still on the fence? I mean, you know she is not the one who can give you all that you want from a relationship. You just won't break up for reasons you make up in your head. You will be miserable if you stay with her.
While everyone else is racing to medicalise this issue they're missing the story. OP, how nice to be in a relationship with a woman where, when you leave the room, she blurts out to your mates some of the most intimate and perhaps repulsive sex acts she has indulged in as nothing more than an amusing anecdote. She doesn't want you to know, for obvious reasons. But she doesn't have a problem with your friends knowing and keeping it from you. She doesn't care about all those times you would have inadvertently made a fool of yourself by not knowing what your friends know. She doesn't care that some of those friends would probably have passed on this anecdote to others, so then there would be even more people who know your girlfriend better than you do, maybe including people who haven't actually even met her. Imagine the conversations she happily opened the door to: “Have you met my friend OP?” “No, nice to meet you OP.” Whispers “His he the one who's girlfriend shat in some guy's mouth” Whispers “Shhh… he doesn't know.” Or So there OP is on his wedding day saying 'I do', while their are members of the congregation whispering 'remember that time the bride told us about…' Lovely. She doesn't care about you. Her doing this wasn't just oversharing with your friends, it is her demonstrating her utter contempt for you the moment you left the room. To put it another way, when you walked into the room and your girlfriend and your friends suddenly stopped laughing, that's because they were laughing behind your back. And your lovely, caring girlfriend chose to do it. That's why you feel the way you do about this. This isn't just about her shitting into a guys mouth, it's about the contempt she demonstrated for you. She doesn't give a fuck. I'm not buying into the depression crap. And who cares if she is depressed. Tell her to fuck off to a councillor. She does whatever amuses or benefits her with no regard for anyone else.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. DO NOT meet with his parents. They don't care if you're ok, they care that they can potentially convince you to have the baby. I hope you find a way to get those pills replaced, please don't delay if you're sure you want to terminate. Good luck!!
“Extremely odd” is overdramatic. Many clients ask for a small amount of fur after death or euthanasia (vet here). It’s a keepsake. They (usually) don’t do anything weird with it.
How is saving a little fur any different from parents saving a lock of hair from their babies in a scrapbook?? To her, these were her fur babies. Its not morbid, its sentimental.
You were assaulted. Report the business. Charge back the card.
Talk to police. Tell your gf what happened after you have a police report so you can show you're serious.
Well, I would wait until he gets home, maybe be home, maybe not, yourself- go out with your friends until late, lmao… I'm not talking about playing mind games, either. I'm talking about you having your own hobbies and interests, to where not getting a text back once in a while, isn't as big of a deal, and when you talk about it, he will understand just how insensitive HE is being, rather than being able to say that you are being clingy or something.
I think you have every right to feel hurt, fwiw, I mean, assuming he's not out surfing or scuba diving, etc. In that case, the phones aren't being looked at too much. But if hes gaming or something with his buddies, then he can answer the phone.
I would be exceptionally worried if he was out drinking, diving, etc, and not checking in from time to time.
Sometimes a cell tower is out, also, so keep that in mind. He might actually not be receiving the texts. I would call him and check on him once or twice and then start calling hospitals. I mean, if it's uncharacteristic of him, then maybe it's time to start really worrying.
She probably lovebombed you too. It's easy to get sucked in quickly and ignore the red flags. Before too long she'd probably accuse you of cheating as well because you're not spending every minute with her. Sounds like she's the one with the issues and not you. When things move quickly and are too good to be true they usually are. Be thankful you're out.
I have a friend who got lovebombed big time but she was so desperate for love that she fell for it. And she was in deep within a week. Then found out he's an ex con who did prison time after 2 weeks. Still stayed. Moved in with her within 4 weeks, he was jealous ans controlling. Then he moved his kid in with them after like 7 months even though kid had been raised by grandma from a baby. Good tactic to make her stay because she wanted her little family. Them shortly thereafter he pushes her and his own kid down the stairs in a drunken stupor. Then ran form the cops when he got pulled over. He's been in prison since this summer and just got denied parole for another year (thank God because she wants to have another kid….). She's still staying with him. He call her from prison every 10 minutes, they argue all the time. Doesn't like her hanging out with me or her other friends (he wanted his kid to stay up until I left one evening..). She's broke because of him and working her ass off to make ends meet. And raising his kid on her own dime (she also has her own). This is extreme but more common than you think. Lovebombing is a ginormous red flag. You dodges a bullet. Not that yiuvhae a huge age gap but so many guys like older women because they're more mature and know what they want. She clealry doesn't fit that bill. Well she knows what she wants but in a controlling manipulative unhealthy way
never come empty handed, don't talk over or “one-up” people, listen before you engage
The knife in her bag isn't so much the issue as much as her showing it off followed by her “joke”. The whole thing feels like a threat. If a man had done this to a women there would have been uproar.
Your kiddo is in that house with you OP. Don't bring her back (or see her again)
It warrants hatred because by still being alive, OP is denying this excuse for a husband full ownership of her aforementioned “joint material lifestyle (homes, cars etc.)” He is impatiently waiting for her to die. He wants her stuff.
I cannot tell you how fast i would be looking up divorce lawyers. Im actually wondering how physically safe OP is.
by empty handed, do you mean bring gifts?
so in a couple of months youre going to be working to support a kid that you didn’t want and didn’t know was happening?
you’re the side piece now to their relationship, sorry
There are some people, that when they want out of a relationship, they do stupid stuff to get you to break up with them. This way, they can have the fantasy that they aren’t the bad person they are the victim.
This sounds like your husband.
Hi, just a kind reminder that, although this involves intimate acts, these maladaptive behaviors that he's developed don't have anything to do with who YOU are as a person. I know I can be sensitive around intimacy myself so I can imagine how him always using porn and saying that he's visualizing other people would be incredibly hurtful. Please don't feel like you're not enough, you are. He is filling a hole or hiding from fear/unpleasant emotions and developed these maladaptive coping behaviors over a long period of time, long before you were dating him. Don't let his addiction degrate who you are. Please be kind to yourself and I hope you find yourself in a healthier place soon.
But hes at an age to want a child and she is not. It does matter.
She feels bad cause it's a kitten on a leash all day because hes gotta be away from the other three cats and she insists on smoking with the window open rather then shutting it so he can roam the room and use the smoke room like everyone else. I'm pretty sure she just wants to use the basement to let him run around on his own and she's trying to strongarm me into telling my cat to beat it but I don't have a clue what to do to defuse her.. idk
You know the deal. Walk away.
Or maybe having a husband who actually respects her as a partner would help here. But, sure, let's blame it on the woman that a man wants to cheat. Yes, it's all the woman's fault…/s
Based on context i would assume they mean 'individual counceling'
You’re telling her that she should have been taking her partner into consideration before she even met him. Because he’s upset about things she did in the past. He doesn’t get to judge her for things she did before they were together, especially because everyone was consenting and no one was harmed.
Look up what being a “little” is. She may be trying to coax you into it slowly without coming out and saying it.
It's a link where one is acts child(sub) like and the other is the dom. Can flip roles too.
He has told you how he feels. Why beg him to change his mind? It’s demeaning to you. Accept his words, break up with him, have him move out (he’s not paying rent), and cut him off completely.
Get therapy. Stop pretending you don’t NEED it when you’re still totally triggered and need a week off from nail polish colors. That’s deep.
You’re doing yourself a huge disservice by not getting the help you actually need.
Move on, he's not worth it.
Thank you this is really helpful
No, that wouldn't match, that's the opposite of submission. But if she likes dominant men then that's probably the way to go. BUT, you need to know if she's sexually attracted to you before acting on this or it just becomes creepy and annoying.
Do not get back with this woman!
I don't see this “sweet” person you keep referring to. You've been walking on egg shells for years due to her repeated assaults (she's woken you up multiple times before in the middle of the night to start a fight, it's not just been two incidents), her homophobia, her jealousy, her drinking, her anger.
She deliberately tried to get you killed by the police, pretending you were hurting her while she was attacking you. You aren't safe around her. You can't pretend that she didn't know what she was doing when she was screaming that you were hurting her as she chased you around the apartment.
She is going to murder you if you stay. You need to keep that restraining order and you need to get as far away from her as possible. Love shouldn't be that hard, you are supposed to be able to relax and be yourself not think up strategies to de-escalate middle of the night assaults.
Please run.
I know you want to hear that the next time will be different. You did see his lack of seriousness and moral accountability after he begged you to stay in December right? You need to ask yourself when will you love yourself enough to let someone abuse you and live an entire on the hope that one day he might change? He's given you no indication that he'll be changing for the better. You're focusing on his words. Focus on his actions. Not to mention, a man whose this abusive and angry and lacks complete concern for you when having angry outbursts will not keep the abuse verbal forever. He can very well get physical. I've seen physically abusive men tell their wives the same stuff you partner is telling you. Also you need to stop giving this man the power to reach you. Break up and get out if you share a home. Live with your parents for a while and block him as soon as you break up. You're not a therapist. You're not his guardian and you're not his doctor. It's not your responsibility to save this man from what he says he'll do to himself specially when he's taking you down with him.
Everyone was a fucking a child
Might want to delete that second “ a “.
I would still be wary. I don't know any teachers that would feel comfortable dating someone they taught when they were underage.
I should have broken up with my boyfriend the first time he said “shut up” to me. Instead, I got married too quickly to him and endured years of verbal and emotional abuse. Only you can determine whether or not that's where your relationship is headed, but if you're thinking you should break up, take a long look at your relationship.
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Might be dick cancer. You should have that checked out
You need to get out of that house and get your own place as soon as possible, and don’t tell her where you live. She sounds violent and unstable. You are basically a domestic abuse victim (even the cops think so) and domestic abuse victims are most likely to be killed when they try to leave. So not to scare you, but I would take her rages seriously and get yourself to a safe place
Do you post pictures on instagram?
Fack ? but im broke, they wont get any money
He sounds like an ass hole and you sound like you need some therapy to work on how you handle your anger. This relationship sounds horrible.
If you can’t stand her being in a bad mood because she’s in pain, maybe you should wait with the proposal until you‘ve grown up a bit.
…wat
My sister in christ, you are almost 30.
Another person with adhd here, and I agree.
I recognize getting distracted during sex, but if it always happen when he's doing things for her, it means he's not interested in it. If I get distracted my go to is literally to focus on the other person because it means I has something to to and my mind doesn't wander the same way. The adhd wouldn't be a problem if he cared and liked getting her off.
Don’t think they want to swing that’s the issue.
We can't tell you what his deal is since we don't know him. Try talking to a therapist.
Lots of good advice here, just wanted to ask if you know any of his family? Like are his parents in the picture and someone you could talk to about the situation. I say this because it’s possible they could help make sure he moves out, even if you haven’t talked to them much. If I had been in this situation at 25 and my gf explained what was going on to my mom, my mom would have made sure I left. My mom is kind of a bad ass and doesn’t put up with people’s shit, especially mine at that age. Just an idea. Couldn’t hurt to talk to them if they’re in the picture and halfway decent parents. Never know, they might help. Hang in there, you’ll get through this.
Stop doing things for hin to start. Stop feeding him, cleaning him clothes, etc.
Give him a fixed date he needs to get out by.
She’s still married. She’s not getting divorced. He’s using you for attention and dates.
No password, she was just doing the friend a favor charging it for her I guess ?