You realise this is a territorial dispute, and you are the territory right? Unfortunately for you, you are going to have to make a choice and that is going to be difficult because until you shut this shit down, it will never end.
If it were me I'd be inclined to tell your mother that your wife is your family and you two are a team. That although you love her, you feel put in a position where you have to choose. In that case you choose your wife. And that if she can't act reasonable around her, you simply won't be around her. If she can't respect that, go low or no contact. And you need to sort this before you have kids or it will go pear shaped very quickly. Your wife can probably hold it together when your mum is pressing her buttons but I guarantee you it will be a lot more aggressive if she thinks her baby is being attacked. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
Everyone deserves to be happy. It’s not always easy to find happiness but you can sometimes realize some things will never make you happy again. Every relationship takes work to help make each other happy but that’s sort of what love is. In the end how happy do you feel just sitting and talking to someone ?
This. It's ok not to be ok, so you can be ok. It's scary, and a lot to handle, but if it's the right decision, it's what you gotta do. It may linger in your heart, but it will hurt so much more if the bad, and very real possibilities come to fruition and someone, or everyone gets hurt.
You realise this is a territorial dispute, and you are the territory right? Unfortunately for you, you are going to have to make a choice and that is going to be difficult because until you shut this shit down, it will never end.
If it were me I'd be inclined to tell your mother that your wife is your family and you two are a team. That although you love her, you feel put in a position where you have to choose. In that case you choose your wife. And that if she can't act reasonable around her, you simply won't be around her. If she can't respect that, go low or no contact. And you need to sort this before you have kids or it will go pear shaped very quickly. Your wife can probably hold it together when your mum is pressing her buttons but I guarantee you it will be a lot more aggressive if she thinks her baby is being attacked. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
You're definitely right. We've been NC for a few days now, and I plan for it to stay that way for at least 3 months
This reads like some troll's stalker fantasy or a hentai plot.
Dude, kick her toxic ass out.
Tell your friend what you found out.
Everyone deserves to be happy. It’s not always easy to find happiness but you can sometimes realize some things will never make you happy again. Every relationship takes work to help make each other happy but that’s sort of what love is. In the end how happy do you feel just sitting and talking to someone ?
You mean she has a roommate that she can use to keep an eye on you and report back to her about how you care for the baby.
Leave her the f alone while she showers, first of all.
Yeah that’s it. Go away. She’s showering.
This. It's ok not to be ok, so you can be ok. It's scary, and a lot to handle, but if it's the right decision, it's what you gotta do. It may linger in your heart, but it will hurt so much more if the bad, and very real possibilities come to fruition and someone, or everyone gets hurt.
Would you be ok with him living with another woman?