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Date: December 28, 2022
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Cut her off, why are you even “friends” with this girl?
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First of all, sorry for mistake I’m writing in a state between exhaustion and being completely drunk.
So yeah pretty common story, met her 5 years ago at uni, fell deeply in love and thought she was the love of my life. 5 years of relationship she decided to fuking crush lmao i wanna break my skull right now. We were not a perfect couple but damn we were close, her family liked me and while I don’t really have one I felt so welcomed in theirs. We had projects, the first one was me buying this big now garbage of a house near the sea, building a family on our own, on my own. I proposed to her earlier this year and I couldn’t think of a better night than this one. Why the fuck she had to throw everything away like that.
Yesterday morning, I woke up with big headache from my little party with the boys and what a surprise when I saw that my fiancé’s best friend sent me not one but 5 fucking videos. How naive I was thinking “Oh cool they had fun, must be some fun or embarrassing moments lol”. To summarize the 5 videos : Her kissing at least 3 others guys, making out really passionately with one (i mean reaally passionately), licking champagne on his body and finally her being lift up into a room and a lot of noises from behind the door.
My friends are still with mee, as dumbfounded as i am. I guess she slept most of yesterday because i had the first text last night and a shit ton of them + calls since this morning. I only asked her yesterday to tell me the truth and she played like nothing happened. I’m just, i just can’t i swear to god it’s crushing my mind. She just begging on text for me to pick up, saying it’s not what I think (how cliche right). Even her bestfriend is trying and told me we need to talk. I picked up just once, told her I know for the guy and bam blank silence, then sobbing and crying telling me to meet to talk and explain because it’s not what it look like before I hung up and tirned off my phone. Even asking me who was the bitch that send me the vids. Guys I really thought I could have my own family, it was hard growing in foster. I guess I only have my bros and my job left.
I guess I need some outside advices, maybe it really wasn’t what it looked like but how to believe that bs.
Edit: Friends typing ?, OP is kind of a mess right now but all your comment really is cheering him up a little. We’ll keep answering until he feels like sleeping. Thanks everyone again. (Didn’t expect this to blow that fast)
Uninviting is ALWAYS an option.
Just tell him that you're uninviting him for threatening to wear the clown suit. It's your wedding, you want to to be serious, and you have invited people that want to take it seriously.
If he balks, just go no contact. Sounds like the guy's a jerk anyway. No big loss.
She isn't into you. She has told you numerous times she isn't into you and you forced it to the point it's at. She will never be into you. She doesn't want to fuck you. You're her friend and roommate that she lets pleasure her whenever she is drunk enough.
Wait—he cheated on you?
I am proud of you. There are not a lot of parents who would try to understand the situation.
It’s not a situation you as a mother can easily understand. However, asking him to explain it only makes it worse because he doesn’t even completely know what he’s thinking.
Rather than asking him questions (which he clearly doesn’t want), try to just be there for him. Reassure him. Tell him you’re there for him. Explain to him that you are proud of him for making this difficult decision, and most importantly assure him that you still love him with your whole heart and that you will always be there for him.
The bolded/italicized parts are definitely the most important. If he retaliates and cuts you off, at least he’ll remember that you DO love him, and that he will ALWAYS have a spot in your heart. This makes it much easier for him to reach back out if he does cut you off.
Unfortunately, it is a difficult situation with no easy answer. I’m glad you’re trying your best. No matter how many “downvotes” or rude comments you get on this post, you’re a great mother. Don’t think of him cutting you off as a failure. Everyone needs a mother. He’ll find his way back to you eventually, he just needs time alone to sort things out. And that’s ok.
Awww, I’m glad you have such a great guy and that you were able to get to the (bizarre) root of things!! He sounds really awesome and I would totally be friends with someone like that!! I wish you both the best. ??