She definitely has baby fever, but it’s very clear with the situation you described that she is rushing it. Have you guys talked about children in the past? Maybe reassure her that you want a child someday (if you do), but that you’d prefer to wait until you’re married, have a car, or are both financially secure. Also be sure she’s aware that you have other personal goals that you’d like to achieve before settling down and starting a family.
I’d also advise you to be careful in bed with her. If her birth control is the only protection you guys rely on, definitely start wearing a condom. Once she’s pregnant with your baby you’re stuck with her for the next 18+ years, maybe not physically, but for SURE financially. Don’t get baby trapped, you guys haven’t even been together that long.
What are some of these comments telling you to leave him. He just said preferred it, he hasn't demanded that you do it, he just said that's his preferences and what's wrong with that? We all have preferences and as long as he isn't demanding you do it, I don't see the problem.
If you want to make him happy you can try some alternative methods as I certainly get the itchy part and discomfort, I got some new blades and razors to use and other products that help with that, so it isn't an issue for me anymore.
Seriously, if he keeps doing it and you keep sticking around like some sad street dig without direction in life, what do you expect? Every time he cheats and you accept it, you basically validate his shitty behavior and approve. There are no consequences – so why would he feel the need to change..?
Im surprised you’re even posting this, cause if you haven’t left by now, I don’t ever see you leaving.
If you want to go a step further, call the police and get them to do a welfare check, tell them she has been telling you that she wants to kill herself.
It sounds like she lost her identity she just feels like a mom and a wife. That’s sad man she doesn’t have a sister or a close cousin something she can talk with. Maybe talk with her to get a small pet if she likes animals
She definitely has baby fever, but it’s very clear with the situation you described that she is rushing it. Have you guys talked about children in the past? Maybe reassure her that you want a child someday (if you do), but that you’d prefer to wait until you’re married, have a car, or are both financially secure. Also be sure she’s aware that you have other personal goals that you’d like to achieve before settling down and starting a family.
I’d also advise you to be careful in bed with her. If her birth control is the only protection you guys rely on, definitely start wearing a condom. Once she’s pregnant with your baby you’re stuck with her for the next 18+ years, maybe not physically, but for SURE financially. Don’t get baby trapped, you guys haven’t even been together that long.
Good luck man!
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So fake ?
You didn't lose desire. She killed it.
What are some of these comments telling you to leave him. He just said preferred it, he hasn't demanded that you do it, he just said that's his preferences and what's wrong with that? We all have preferences and as long as he isn't demanding you do it, I don't see the problem.
If you want to make him happy you can try some alternative methods as I certainly get the itchy part and discomfort, I got some new blades and razors to use and other products that help with that, so it isn't an issue for me anymore.
Seriously, if he keeps doing it and you keep sticking around like some sad street dig without direction in life, what do you expect? Every time he cheats and you accept it, you basically validate his shitty behavior and approve. There are no consequences – so why would he feel the need to change..?
Im surprised you’re even posting this, cause if you haven’t left by now, I don’t ever see you leaving.
Sounds like your boyfriend might controlling/abusive. Let him stay gone. Hopefully your new job benefits include access to therapy.
I've never cum from her.
Is it really a that big of a “rewire”? If you want to make change for your partner then that isn't impossible right?
You tell her family, as she is their problem now.
If you want to go a step further, call the police and get them to do a welfare check, tell them she has been telling you that she wants to kill herself.
But you do not reply to her.
Time to start playing Marvin Gaye loudly.
Thank you. Was me giving her “space” today by not sending a followup text a bad move on my part?
I….just say I don't want to do that? Why lie?
It sounds like she lost her identity she just feels like a mom and a wife. That’s sad man she doesn’t have a sister or a close cousin something she can talk with. Maybe talk with her to get a small pet if she likes animals
True. That was a comment for you, not in the advice to OP.
I know OP may read everything, but it’s fair to have dialogue between commentators where we might be more forthright in what we think.