They both refer to it as novel experiences.. who calls it that lol. I wonder if the first was real then people saying she was gay freaked him out so he posted the “totally not gay” wife’s side?
They were in polyamorous relationships (she also has few guys beside) so it was not really a cheating since everyone knew… but anyway, thanks for your response and there is a lot to process ❤️??
You guys are dumb af how would this not just cause my family drama and ignoring the under lying problem which is this dudes wife establishing rules with her fam
Your brother has you blocked on everything. He has clearly told you he doesn’t want anything to do with you. You betrayed him, it doesn’t matter how old you were, betrayal is betrayal. You continued to date this girl, and now marrying her. You made your choices, and he made his. He hasn’t bothered you all these years, he doesn’t want anything to do with either one of you. Again, you made your choices. Respect his!!!! Leave him alone.
I don’t know if it’s a coincidence, I don’t know if it’s intentional. I know what was presented to us and i’m not assuming past that.
to me, the only reason op is being defensive in her responses is because everyone she is responding to is agreeing with her mother that she is going to be abused.
what she is hearing from these comments isn’t a caring nudge towards research and therapy. it’s a reinforcement of hearing her mother say to her face that her unborn child should die. obviously op is going to react negatively to that.
You sound like a handful. A whole lot of going through his phone, dictating his actions, I’m guessing that’s why he doesn’t want to tell you anything that will upset you.
How about just getting “sick” the day of the event. Migraine headaches are a good excuse. Or really bad cramps.
They both refer to it as novel experiences.. who calls it that lol. I wonder if the first was real then people saying she was gay freaked him out so he posted the “totally not gay” wife’s side?
He’s gay. Move on.
Oof I’m sorry bro. U know what’s going on here just as well as the rest of us
They were in polyamorous relationships (she also has few guys beside) so it was not really a cheating since everyone knew… but anyway, thanks for your response and there is a lot to process ❤️??
You guys are dumb af how would this not just cause my family drama and ignoring the under lying problem which is this dudes wife establishing rules with her fam
Your brother has you blocked on everything. He has clearly told you he doesn’t want anything to do with you. You betrayed him, it doesn’t matter how old you were, betrayal is betrayal. You continued to date this girl, and now marrying her. You made your choices, and he made his. He hasn’t bothered you all these years, he doesn’t want anything to do with either one of you. Again, you made your choices. Respect his!!!! Leave him alone.
It's nothing
I don’t know if it’s a coincidence, I don’t know if it’s intentional. I know what was presented to us and i’m not assuming past that.
to me, the only reason op is being defensive in her responses is because everyone she is responding to is agreeing with her mother that she is going to be abused.
what she is hearing from these comments isn’t a caring nudge towards research and therapy. it’s a reinforcement of hearing her mother say to her face that her unborn child should die. obviously op is going to react negatively to that.
You sound like a handful. A whole lot of going through his phone, dictating his actions, I’m guessing that’s why he doesn’t want to tell you anything that will upset you.
Agreed people say it, my opinion is that it's a manipulation attempt implying that they will be disappointed if the other person has an issue with it.
It's basically saying 'I don't want to be held accountable for this and if I am, I blame you for being insecure'.