This is great. If you’re ready and able to have this child as a single mother – if that’s what you decide you want – do that.
You can deal with your ex after you resolve that. You should absolutely do what’s best for your child if you go forward, including seeking child support.
You say he doesn’t act like this in front of family and friends. Therefore, he’s controlling you through his reactions for his own gain/amusement/benefit. This is not a healthy relationship for you. Either record him and his behavior and show to him, asking him if he thinks this is normal behavior and insist on therapy or counseling; or leave. I mean, what kind of life do you have with him right now? Are you happy and fulfilled? What if you had a child? I mean, another child. Because he’s acting like a child with you if this behavior isn’t consistent with family and friends.
I got pregnant using both condoms and hormonal birth control. It happens.
This is great. If you’re ready and able to have this child as a single mother – if that’s what you decide you want – do that.
You can deal with your ex after you resolve that. You should absolutely do what’s best for your child if you go forward, including seeking child support.
You say he doesn’t act like this in front of family and friends. Therefore, he’s controlling you through his reactions for his own gain/amusement/benefit. This is not a healthy relationship for you. Either record him and his behavior and show to him, asking him if he thinks this is normal behavior and insist on therapy or counseling; or leave. I mean, what kind of life do you have with him right now? Are you happy and fulfilled? What if you had a child? I mean, another child. Because he’s acting like a child with you if this behavior isn’t consistent with family and friends.