I gagged upon reading this. GOOD HYGIENE IS NON-NEGOTIABLE!! If any grown man has to be “bribed” into doing basic tasks like washing themselves, wiping their ass, etc. then that is not a grown man at all — that’s a child. You tell your husband you did not marry a child and you refuse to mother him about taking care of himself. Not being clean before sex will lead to UTIs, yeast infections, and a bunch of other unsavory health issues for your body. How dare he try to compromise that due to laziness. This should be a standard that you do not budge on and if he refuses to comply then girl, you need to think long and hard if you want to stay with someone who thinks it’s acceptable to wallow in their own filth after a long work day for the rest of your life. Ew.
I gagged upon reading this. GOOD HYGIENE IS NON-NEGOTIABLE!! If any grown man has to be “bribed” into doing basic tasks like washing themselves, wiping their ass, etc. then that is not a grown man at all — that’s a child. You tell your husband you did not marry a child and you refuse to mother him about taking care of himself. Not being clean before sex will lead to UTIs, yeast infections, and a bunch of other unsavory health issues for your body. How dare he try to compromise that due to laziness. This should be a standard that you do not budge on and if he refuses to comply then girl, you need to think long and hard if you want to stay with someone who thinks it’s acceptable to wallow in their own filth after a long work day for the rest of your life. Ew.
It's generally illegal to assault someone who isn't putting you in any danger/is attempting to flee. It's like this in most of the US too
Excuse me for trying to support/understand my partner
It’s a lack of sexual compatibility. He desperately wants blowjobs and you won’t give them.
My ex was like this. He would go soft often too. I would say ED