I have to add that she does not make unnecessary confrontation like Meegan in the video. She would bring it up after the fact and ask if I was aware of people targeting her various ways. I’d like to see them too, but after pondering many instances. I came to the conclusion that I need to re-learn what I know about social interaction. I played each instance frame-by-frame in my mind and just cannot see the “death glare”. I asked GF to let me know every instance so I can tune my radar to similar frequency. However she is losing patience on how blind I am.
Well, I do commend your for realizing this, even so soon. Truthfully, some people take many years(and even decades) before they understand such a folly and break away from it.
Hope it goes well with later on(but yeah, that guy is no good).
This is the thing… Attraction should not only be about the physical. One day your wife is going to grow old, she'll have wrinkles, and her hair will thin. Will you suddenly tell her she's no longer attractive to you? I hope not. Love and attraction supersedes the physical. However, now that you know how she feels, it's great that you're trying to get back in shape. Still, you should do it for your health, not so you can meet her standard of physical beauty. Hopefully, she will grow in this area.
He didn't ask you to “fix his house.” You badgered him about something petty like “outdated bathrooms” so he's letting you do what you want. Update them. But, by no means should he put you on the deed for that. He doesn't even want it. He also doesn't want your townhome.
Keep your properties separate and live separately until you can come up with a solution. So far it seems like you are pushing for change and he doesn't want the changes you're pushing.
Sorry if you already mentioned this, but what does his place look like? Do you go there often?
And why are you still in this relationship? I know you’ve realized by now that it’s not progressing how it should
That's literally rape.
I have to add that she does not make unnecessary confrontation like Meegan in the video. She would bring it up after the fact and ask if I was aware of people targeting her various ways. I’d like to see them too, but after pondering many instances. I came to the conclusion that I need to re-learn what I know about social interaction. I played each instance frame-by-frame in my mind and just cannot see the “death glare”. I asked GF to let me know every instance so I can tune my radar to similar frequency. However she is losing patience on how blind I am.
This long comment and the box throwing at her head and gaslighting wasn’t mentioned once. Wild.
Well, I do commend your for realizing this, even so soon. Truthfully, some people take many years(and even decades) before they understand such a folly and break away from it.
Hope it goes well with later on(but yeah, that guy is no good).
We’re out here waiting to hear that you are away from him OP.
This is the thing… Attraction should not only be about the physical. One day your wife is going to grow old, she'll have wrinkles, and her hair will thin. Will you suddenly tell her she's no longer attractive to you? I hope not. Love and attraction supersedes the physical. However, now that you know how she feels, it's great that you're trying to get back in shape. Still, you should do it for your health, not so you can meet her standard of physical beauty. Hopefully, she will grow in this area.
He didn't ask you to “fix his house.” You badgered him about something petty like “outdated bathrooms” so he's letting you do what you want. Update them. But, by no means should he put you on the deed for that. He doesn't even want it. He also doesn't want your townhome.
Keep your properties separate and live separately until you can come up with a solution. So far it seems like you are pushing for change and he doesn't want the changes you're pushing.
Thank you for your advice I really appreciate it!