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How long you can/ will wait is your personal decision and whenever you feel like it time to call it quits you can do that without it making you a bad person. If you want to move on from this relationship and stay just friends is entirely your right. Do not let her or anybody else guilt you in staying with her. You can see her on reddit so many people who they do not want to be with just out of guilt or the fear of looking like a bad person. Go live your life.
I did read it. Stop being so sensitive and whiny. You’re the one that put this post up. You can’t cum with her because you’re too into dudes. No wonder she doesn’t want to put in effort. How do you think she feels when you tell her you think you’re maybe just gay? Get over yourself.
I think you guys should break up
So from my personal experience, wet dreams and wetting the bed can be cured with more b12 in the diet.
Didn't see any red flags until I got to the answers to the most common questions. Something is definitely off here. I wouldn't agree to go and stay in a cabin in the wilderness with just this guy over Christmas …..
Thats a really blow in trust, also illegal. Trust is key in a relationship, i would move on and find someone who respect me
Just leave i mean
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It’s not that you can’t be best friends, it’s just an immature position. And what I mean in your 20s and before you have a serious relationship and settle down or become committed. When you have a best friend of the gender you date, it can cause problems. Everything from taking the intimacy out of your main relationship, emotional intimacy to one of you developing feelings for the other ones. College high school, even single adulthood understandable. But when you start maturing and have a committed relationship, it will become a problem to your relationship. No one wants to get serious with a person that is hanging out with someone else. Like I said, it’s an immature position.
It’s not that you can’t be best friends, it’s just an immature position. And what I mean in your 20s and before you have a serious relationship and settle down or become committed. When you have a best friend of the gender you date, it can cause problems. Everything from taking the intimacy out of your main relationship, emotional intimacy to one of you developing feelings for the other ones. College high school, even single adulthood understandable. But when you start maturing and have a committed relationship, it will become a problem to your relationship. No one wants to get serious with a person that is hanging out with someone else. Like I said, it’s an immature position.
Thanks for the response, really wise words. I agree, works also been especially stressful.
How do I not escalate the argument?
He's renting? The boiler should be fixed by the landlord/owner of the house. Absolutely do not give money toward fixing an essential part of a rental property, essential meaning it's necessary for the place to be habitable. He needs to work this out with the landlord.
Also, don't give someone you've been dating for less than a year money. If you do it's a gift don't expect it paid back. I think the payment plan he suggested is a red flag. He knows you don't have enough money to just give $300 away but he's willing to take what he can from you anyway.
To be fair, I don't share my dating preferences with my friends and the settings on my dating apps are a little restrictive because I think a lot of folks cheat their age on the apps. I'm early 40's and prefer women in the mid 30's. When I was in my 30's, I sought out women in their late 20's. It's just a preference and doesn't mean I wouldn't see a woman my age or a little older, but it isn't what I actively seek out. I think you may be putting too much weight on settings on a dating app without enough conversation with the guy. Everyone has preferences. You're still early in the relationship and it sounds like you're not thrilled with what you found. If you're thinking of breaking things off anyway, then sit him down and have a conversation about his age preferences. Either you'll realize it isn't a big deal, or you'll split.
He is allowed to not like your body type but
wants to open up the relationship on his side.
Lots of lol, he is crass. Dump him. You're 22, don't allow a douchecanoe to waste your time.
He is allowed to not like your body type but
wants to open up the relationship on his side.
Lots of lol, he is crass. Dump him. You're 22, don't allow a douchecanoe to waste your time.
I guess that is the test – to see if she's willing to change. Either way she should not be alone especially if I tell her we're done. She works from home and lives alone.
Time for tough love. You should tell him that if he doesn’t knock it off you’re create burner accounts and start looking at jacked guys with big dicks.
Or better, just start doing it and leave your device strategically open.
Even worse then. Yet another reason for OP to leave him.
I lived with someone like this. Refused any offers of money management help, kept herself reliant on her abusive father's money but also wanted to sob to her friends about how awful he was (and he really was a terrible abusive piece of shit). She had terrible impulse control around shopping and bought expensive makeup, clothes, etc all the time, so she was always in need of more money from him. She had a part time job but none of that went into savings.
At a certain point though it got exhausting to see that apparently her mental health is for sale, that needing to keep in contact with her horrible dad was a price she was willing to pay so she didn't have to even sort of manage her money better. She seemed like she had decided that since she was a victim, she deserved his money, and didn't really think about how much it was affecting her to have to rely on her abuser.
Your girlfriend is not even trying to get out from this crappy situation. She could get a job and save her money until she has enough that she feels comfortable telling him to fuck off. She could try to cut back on weed. She's not even sort of trying, just sobbing to you and expecting you to tell her that it's all going to be okay, when none of this is okay. She's not going to magically change and you can't make her change. You can stop comforting her when she's sobbing on the floor, but really I can tell you're already over it and exhausted from this post. You don't see a future here with her, because until she has some sort of wakeup call she is just going to look for someone else to support her. You're not wrong for leaving.
It's easier to blame you than to confront her own deep rooted and conflicting issues.
Word of advice mate – leave now and never look back. Accusing you of rape is incredibly malicious and dangerous, irrespective of her own issues. What if she told somebody? Your life could be ruined over something you didn't even do.
No good can come from this situation. Leave her and save yourself.
Thanks, I agree to trying to get one of us out of this reporting situation, soonest. As for the flirting, he’s way younger and seems to text, talk to everyone so I don’t know if he thought of it like that. I do want to be sure my husband doesn’t feel threatened or disrespected and take the recommendation on seeking therapy.
go to a clinic if you can. explain your situation, they tend to work with people from many economic standings and are often more than willing to help you work something out!
don't be afraid or embarrassed, you did nothing wrong and are not alone
He is politely telling you he wants to end the phone call. 1 hours is a long phone call, I couldn't imagine talking to anyone for longer than that
you should probably tell him, but be prepared for some awkward times at the party. But that's miles better than him not being told and then finding out at the party.
I remember a gf of mine at the time told me after the fact that a boy in her friend group blatantly asked her to have sex with him that night. She didn't tell me until later, but had I heard that, I'd have broken his jaw.
I'm a mess on the inside, truly. He's been incrementally better, but just don't know
He said the arrangement is convenient & it is. To him. Tell him he is expecting you to act like a wife from the 50's or his mother & that is not how you choose to live. Tell him you tried it based on the agreement that you would do it on days you worked at home? Was he supposed to do it the other days? You should sit down & talk expectations & not just for cooking. Also, if he wants you to cook, maybe you BOTH can do meal planning, shopping & prepping on the weekends. If the ingredients are already prepared then the cooking is quicker. Maybe he can order takeout once a week, or twice. Get a crock pot or instant pot & he can literally dump in the weekend prepped meal b4 work & it's ready when he gets home. However, it's important that both of your needs are met. You can find ways to compromise, but this will quickly turn to resentment on both sides & then fester. You need to make sure he doesn't steamroll you now or it will start to happen with more and more things. His work may be physically demanding. Maybe you compromise on you do meals & he does, I don't know, lawn care or laundry or something that satisfies your needs as well.
I also think there's a level of understanding and deep knowledge of one another that is shared between queer people that can't be found in heterosexual partnerships.
OP identifies as queer
You're already this far, it's best to just call it quits and break up with her
Why don't you perhaps reread OPs post again? The guy is going for 6 to 7 days without showering sometimes and he's calling HER weird. try reading it
so even w your size and how many Os you have given her, she still said YES to be exclusive w you?
she's still w you and isn't too late, get your head out of ass and stop wasting time on things you can't change like your size and focus on what she likes so you can give her some Os….
And that is the first intelligent thing you have said all day.self-awareness is great. Good thing is, if you put in a little effort and, I don't know, get a fucking job until you are actually a wife or a mother, you might actually become a good girlfriend who he wants to marry and give you that life you want so badly. But if all you do is put in the minimum and expect the maximum, you'll never get anywhere in any damn relationship.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate you taking the time to respond. I definitely have been feeling discouraged but I know that it’s just a season and won’t last forever. We are both each others biggest support system and becuase of that I think we both are guilty of taking too much responsibility for the other persons emotions (I.e. feeling like we’re “failing” if we aren’t making the other person happy), which obviously isn’t reasonable when the cause of stress/sadness is primarily external factors. I think focusing on our sex life could improve things drastically, so that (along with my personal work) will be my primary focus for now. Thank you, again! I appreciate the insight and encouragement so much.
This isn't a marriage. You are a free live-in fuck maid.
Wife and I had this conversation 30+years ago. Needless to say, I think it worked out pretty good for us. Good luck to you.
Yes and they mind starts to suspect. But she’s been there for me at other times. Came down to do some reiki healing for my mum. But everytime there’s a tiff about some small misunderstanding, it has to snowball into a situation that doesn’t need to be stressful
Yeah I can’t understand how you’d get married without this coming up beforehand?
The Mandalorian rocks! Can’t wait to see it and listen to the music then watch the screen drawings of the show at the end. This is the way.
This^ the guy is 19 and sounds like he just isn’t good at sex due to a lack of reciprocating to his partner. If you both consistently don’t finish, then it’s bad sex…
You aren’t choosing the dress over him. You are breaking up with a controlling insecure man baby. Very different things.
she said it's business dinners and people he doesn't know as well.
I am very familiar with the family court system. To get up to overnights could take months, even years depending. It would be months of supervised meetings as this man is a complete stranger. Then unsupervised day meetings of a few hours. To get to overnights those kids could be 16 at that point? And if they decide they aren’t interested in those, no overnights. So while this is all well and good and they should go through the proper channels, the kids will ultimately hold the power to decide if they are anywhere overnight with their bio dad. They could say hey this guy is pretty cool, I like him, let’s do this. They could say I am not comfortable with this and they will not be forced to go from a legal standpoint, especially well into their teen years by that point.
No one with the kids’ best interests at heart (since that is what every single ruling in family court is made for) will force them to go anywhere with someone they have only known for a few months or a year. They can rule it, sure, but they can’t violate the kids’ bodily autonomy that way. The kids also have rights here and their comfort, happiness and stability are the priority of any ruling, not what dad or mom wants.
He broke up with her for good reasons and I can’t imagine had any intention of getting back together, just wanted attention. But having her fulfill that to me, is where I consider it emotional cheating.
Well, elaborate on the conversation. Be blunt, “we met when I was getting out of a sexless marriage. I’m afraid this is a sign our marriage is taking the same direction. I hope I’m wrong, but as my husband, its both of our responsibility to discuss this as a couple. If you’re stressed, we need to work on things together, because I am not prepared to stay in a relationship where excuses run rampant and I feel tossed to the side. I’m happy to work with you, but this is something we actually need to talk about.”
I understand your concerns about the “what if” but that is just projective thinking. Most of these horror stories you read about had clear red flags for a long time that were overlooked. It’s important to also know the laws in your state for situations like that.
No, you didn't need anything. You WANTED his company. You asked him. But he had responsibilities that were more important than babysitting you.
So you’re all over the country and she’s at home? Is she supposed to pop herself in a cupboard and wait for your return? Begrudging her friendships is a bit of an AH move. Rule of thumb with opposite sec friendships is that it’s inappropriate if the partner isn’t included – this is not the case here