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So you're in Europe, you've got like 6 months until school ends, maybe less. Stick that out. Turning up in France with not even high school qualification to stay with some guy is how people end up on the streets.
If things are that bad with your dad you would be better of staying with a friend or family and staying at the same school.
Well, if I were in a relationship with someone who was scared of me, I'd take steps to make sure they no longer had me to fear and would consider ending it.
She's dropping ultimatums of the sort that don't make sense without more context. Without that context, the best I can suggest is to end this relationship. She's afraid of you, and you have reason to fear her, and it does neither of you any good to try and work past these fears – especially if they're the sort that involve law enforcement.
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I recommend borrowing a page from her book and recording your separation, should you decide to proceed.
Worthy a breakup, you don’t need to deal with his mental issues and laziness. Laziness can also make someone depressed, if you sit and wait others do things for you, you get depressed. Run
What’s stupid about it? It points out how ridiculous it is to assume someone can’t have platonic relationship with some of a gender they’re attracted to.
As a person who's now ex wife cheated on him after ten years, if he's suspicious enough to be posting about it on reddit, 99% chance he's right about it. In my experience it's not just one thing, it's little things that might be hard to articulate like being more protective of their phone than usual, and then you have a bigger thing like this to tie it all together. If anything, I'd bet he was suspicious enough to go looking and is lying about how accidental the discovery of the lingerie was.
Spray him in the face with water every time… 😛
Yeah he’s either lying or unhappy, check his phone to find out which
People are shallow anyway so I doubt I'd be getting into a deep relationship anyway.
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Absolutely the fuck NOT. OP was severely disrespected to start with, and has a right to be fuming and disgusted.
So you're in Europe, you've got like 6 months until school ends, maybe less. Stick that out. Turning up in France with not even high school qualification to stay with some guy is how people end up on the streets.
If things are that bad with your dad you would be better of staying with a friend or family and staying at the same school.
Ask her why calling you ugly is funny to her or you. Have her explain it.
Ask her if she would enjoy that joke ever for her?
That may be more eye opening.
But it's not the models, you'd have the same problem if he was scrolling sports, ie lack of presence and quality time
Well, if I were in a relationship with someone who was scared of me, I'd take steps to make sure they no longer had me to fear and would consider ending it.
She's dropping ultimatums of the sort that don't make sense without more context. Without that context, the best I can suggest is to end this relationship. She's afraid of you, and you have reason to fear her, and it does neither of you any good to try and work past these fears – especially if they're the sort that involve law enforcement.
For the sake of both of you, I think one of you needs to lead in walking away. Describe the reasons why – how you feel unsure and unsafe. That you don't understand the escalation and that you wish you could. But don't expect or demand an explanation; we aren't guaranteed closure.
I recommend borrowing a page from her book and recording your separation, should you decide to proceed.
Worthy a breakup, you don’t need to deal with his mental issues and laziness. Laziness can also make someone depressed, if you sit and wait others do things for you, you get depressed. Run
Dump her. She'll have plenty of time to think then.
It was sickening.
I'll say.
Save the text and photo. Go see an attorney and get the pre-nup invalidated. Her behavior and the texts/photo will look horrible in front of a judge.
You know that SHE suffered for 9 months too, AND gave birth, right?
She suffered a heckin lot more than he did, and they both survived the experience.
What’s stupid about it? It points out how ridiculous it is to assume someone can’t have platonic relationship with some of a gender they’re attracted to.
As a person who's now ex wife cheated on him after ten years, if he's suspicious enough to be posting about it on reddit, 99% chance he's right about it. In my experience it's not just one thing, it's little things that might be hard to articulate like being more protective of their phone than usual, and then you have a bigger thing like this to tie it all together. If anything, I'd bet he was suspicious enough to go looking and is lying about how accidental the discovery of the lingerie was.