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Honestly, my first thought is, if you haven't already, go give Terrible, Thanks For Asking (podcast) a listen. Specifically, every year they host an episode called “Happy-ish Holidays”. My recommendation is to start from the beginning, but at least with the first of these themed episodes (~2016) so that you understand them/their purpose. The whole show is wonderful, and carves out space for grief in an authentic way. It doesn't make a disingenuous spectacle out of loss.
Second, try allowing yourself to actually not like Christmas anymore. It isn't worth fighting- you like neither the decor nor the memories the temporary theme harbors. Perhaps then, in the space you give yourself to be unhappy about it, you can appreciate A's enjoyment, and solely her enjoyment, as opposed to feeling obligated to join her in that joy specifically. It's a bit of a mental twist and trickery, but the goal is embrace only the thing we can tolerate without self-imposing the obligation to feel more or different. “Holding both” would be the therapeutic term. Moving forward, though, be honest about how it feels. Either draw the boundary outright if you need to– “No decorations please” – or perhaps start small, and try finding new traditions. A wee bit of garland, christmas themed candle scents, baking a new recipe, etc. Approach this as you would exposure therapy to a phobia, and challenge yourself only in the smallest doses. If it backfires, it's a small amount to put away– or avoid. Your wife should support you as you engage with your grief, and certainly not guilt you for it. Frankly, couples counseling, if you can afford it, is a great place to unpack this. EFT specifically.
Floyd is a 45 year old Grandad so duh, yeh..
Anyone who can be THAT disrespectful and insulting to their partner will always be that kind of person.
Dude, really? She actively sends nudes to his asshole friend, and he's the problem? That's like someone punching you in the face for standing somewhere and then expecting you to apologize. Your criticism makes no sense.
He's asking about how to deal with his situation with her because he knows how to deal with his now ex navy friend. That's easy. Stop victim blaming.