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Yeah that’s fair. Idk I didn’t think much of it bc I wasn’t doing any of that stuff to her, I guess she was just paranoid, but it came back and fucked my entire life up
5 months?!?! You’re being childish.
No it doesn’t. How old are you guys?
If they are close friends, meeting up.for lunch is not a big deal. I used to go out for lunch or dinner with my coworkers without it being a problem.
However the other things in his post are making it a bigger issue. In that case it could be suspicious.
You logically should have cold feet. He’s 27, works part time, is in debt, and constantly skips work.
You’re not worried about his ability to maintain a full time job. He doesn’t have one. You need to be honest about reality.
Love is almost always the common denominator keeping people in objectively bad and/or unhealthy relationships. It’s awesome that he treats you well. That’s a baseline expectation.
But you need to stop worrying about feelings and focus on being honest. How do you logically have a future with him?
Thanks.
You both are not happy and I have no idea why the hell you stayed when he throws shit at you. That should have been when you left. He is a mommy boy and that will not change. In all honesty you should end it because neither of you will change and you want different things in life. Breakup, go through the emotions, and finally be happy. This will be a favor for you and him.
BC – should have added that. ?
It's highly likely to be mine, I've already told her I want to be involved all the way. Im getting my own house soon down the road and I have a good career and supporting family. We both do. But yes there is the manipulation aspect I don't like. Im trying to find a response that doesn't enter her frame but at the same time, I disagree with the controlling aspect. If she's honestly ok to lose me then she has no say in who I date or what I do.
Email pics to a new gmail to keep them.
Leave.
Call the police.
Don't stand in his way …. Eskimo Brother ……
I think you’re thinking about this pretty clearly. Sounds like it’s less about money and more about the hassle of moving.
Moving is a big hassle.
But compared to having and raising kids, moving is extremely minor.
it's not babysitting, its called raising a family fucktard
hum. you're right i guess.
Block his number. Problem solved.
Money. I don’t have a job due to mental health, he doesn’t have a job due to uni. We both live with our parents so we don’t have an opportunity to move in together yet.
Why can’t I see the comments ??
If he won’t do anything to fix the problems then he’s not giving you any options but to leave. It sounds like he has abandoned you to play video games. If he is so disabled that he can’t be an adult in the marriage then maybe he isn’t fit to be in a marriage.
Also, if you want kids and he doesn’t then that’s just one of those nonnegotiables. If you want kids then you need to move on asap so you can meet someone who wants the same things.
You can continue to love him and be a friend like you are now, but you don’t have to continue being his mother and roommate.
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Your boyfriend raped you and you still want to be with him? It's been 3 months and he's showing you who he is, how can you feel completely safe with a rapist
The act in itself was a form of control / manipulation and in my experience is something abusive partners do. This is exactly what he wants you to do, he wants to hurt you, he wants you to feel pressured into being with him, do not fall for it.
He is with his parents / has medical help. He is no longer your problem. You are not to blame for this nor is it any longer your responsibility. If he tries to kill himself then that is on him, not you.
There's a difference between dominant men, who know what they are doing, how to fix problems, how to treat you well, etc… And “dominant” wannabe alpha losers at age 26 going after an 18yo to judge her constantly and are being controlling.
Dominant does not being being controlling. Seems like he just sought out a young woman who he would have an “easier” time controlling. Ask yourself why he is not dating women his own age. It's because women his age can see he's a freaking loser and a creep.
I don't see a lot advocating for the relationship, so here I will.
Do it. Start losing weight. You'll be better for it. But do so under the condition he goes with you that way you both better yourselves for each other. I always try to get my partner into fitness because it's mutually beneficial. It's another thing to have in common.
Fitness is an important part of life, whether it be jogging for 10 minutes every morning or heavy lifting. You're already unhappy with your weight so why not use this as extra motivation?
NO NO NO NO NO. Do not trust this man with condoms as your only form of birth control. No fucking way. That man will baby trap you in an instant. Don’t get another IUD if you don’t want it, but also don’t trust this guy.
I’m childfree too (I literally thought I wrote your first bullet because I have said those exact words). Get sterilized yourself. You are most definitely old enough to not get much, if any, push back. I’m 25 and got my tubes removed last year with no more than a signature saying I was sure. Take matters into your own hands. Ensure that no matter who you are with, this guy or the next, that you will be protected.
I had a bilateral salpingectomy and was 100% fine 24 hours after surgery. I took 4 days off work and most definitely could have taken less. Take a look back on my profile for a full write up of my experience back in September.
I seriously think he needs to freeze sperm and get the procedure done to restore any kind of trust. If he isn’t willing to do that, I would leave him. Not to be harsh, but if he refuses a vasectomy he will inevitably leave you when he’s ready to have kids so you need to get ahead of it.
You absolutely shit on and invalidate things you don’t understand or agree with dude. You need to take a beat. Learn how to validate her feelings. I promise it’ll help.
I’ve met his now-wife before we broke up, and I’d love to catch up with her again. But you make a fair point, the lunch invitation didn’t explicitly include his wife.
Regardless, this comment helped a lot. We had a great friendship in the past, but I’m very happy with where I’m at without reintroducing this person. I’ll continue with leaving that person (along with others) in a previous chapter of my life.
Thank you!
Don't even know what to say If he can't get it in his 29. Last thing to try probably just dirty talk directly when you guys are doing the deed.
As the reason why it's happening – it could be anything: – previous trauma – lack of experience – he's not that into you – something is left unspoken
I can see that the situation is really bothering you, just wishing you a good luck.
Woah this is extreme deflection of responsibility, it’s not her fault that you have those characteristics. Most people don’t choke their girlfriends under any circumstances. Get help bro it’s not her that is the problem.
Beats me. He’ll share maybe one or two posts a day, maybe every other. It feels weird and the fact that they’re so different makes it weirder.
He might be introverted, shy or a bit autistic even. He certainly is very nervous in person. It is very easy to me kind of smooth when texting. You are alone, in peace and are not distracted by your environment, as you would be on a date. You can think about what you are going to answer, even if its just for a minute or two, that is a lot more than the time you have to answer in person. Texts do not carry over voice, body language and such, so you make up a picture of the guy in your head that never matches the reality. It is a lot easier to text that you want to hold someone than it actually is to get over yourself and do it in a reality situation when you are super nervous and stuff. Especially if you never kissed or held hands in reality this is a big hurdle for some people. You can just tell him that you want him to actually do these things. You can either text him before your date that you want him to take your hand, hug you, kiss you and other expectations and hope that he gets over himself or you just take his hand on the date or go for a kiss yourself. After that first kiss it is a lot easier to go for the 2nd and 3rd one.
You’ll get a lot of advice to drop everything, tell him the kids are his for the day, turn off your phone, and go to a spa or something. This might help, if it’s within a lot of parameters that many families just can’t meet, like:
he’ll use the excuse of money to not take the day off again he’s demonstrated so clearly that he can’t handle the kids that you’ll send up feeling guilty and worried for their well-being anyway, making it hard to relax it might be out of your normal budget, also making it guilt-inducing or just straight up impossible
At any rate, the result would be: a mad husband, because that’s sort of what your husband seems to be. One lesson in child care won’t change his everlasting attitude.
There are two things that will:
couples counseling, if he will actually do the work and won’t just turn it all around back onto you, which seems like a real threat here you separate or divorce, and he has mandatory time with the children where there is no other option, and he learns what it takes to be a parent and not just a paycheck with a penis.
No attraction, no time, no chemistry, no interest
should I answer her msg?
But you can't live with this for the rest of your life.
I agree. We've been together for seven years and I'm a bit worn out by it all. It's complicated too though. We have a young child together who is my world so I'm trying to really give it 210% to make it work for him. And I do love my wife still. I may not be in love with her but I do love her and really care about her. It's hard to know what to do.
Well you clearly only want him for his body, because you didn't want him before. Of course you can't really control what you're attracted to, but your language is gross . Hopefully he knows his worth and won't settle with you
?? I wouldn’t vent to any of my friends that are battling with depression or that are low in mood. You literally can’t support them as much as you can it’s literally selfish. I ALWAYS ask my friends can I vent because not everyone is available to help me with my needs. Imagine having a depressive episode and someone sends you a 10 minute voice note venting to you? You can’t even help yourself let alone other people
Well you clearly only want him for his body, because you didn't want him before. Of course you can't really control what you're attracted to, but your language is gross . Hopefully he knows his worth and won't settle with you
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Brother and I love each other very much. But he is the only boy, the baby, and the golden child of the family and so I'm used to kinda standing in his shade. But I've worked my ass off in med school and I would really like to attend my own graduation, but when I expressed that to my family (brother included), everyone got very upset for even considering attending my graduation in lieu of his wedding. And now I really don't know what to do..
Are you serious you suspect I didn't ? It is a gift to be granted the ability to nurture care and look after your own children, at any point you think it is a chore or a job is the point when you should realise you are not capable of being a good responsible parent, no it is not East for anyone who is not sound of mind and capable but for anyone who actually loves there children it is only ever a rewarding experience.
Tell the wife anonymously without saying you are the other woman. If he asks if you told her, deny it. When you tell her write her a letter saying you saw him with another woman. If you have pictures of you two being affectionate send that along with the letter. Do not identify yourself.
It is not uncommon for cops to cheat. It is also not uncommon for cops to be violent to their SOs when they get pissed off. If you decide to tell her, protect your identity so no one can prove it was you.
Of course you should tell him.
Why in the hell did you go with him on his motorcycle when he was drunk driving?????
Yes be worried.
She is forming an emotional attachment with him, and after that emotionally cheating, and then physically cheating is more likely.
And also her hypocrisy about her friendship with him, and what she expects from you regarding your friendships with women.
So she needs to cut all contact with him (see from a comment that she has sent him a message about this, so wait and see if it happens). She needs to apologise for her hypocrisy She needs to apologise for lying and hiding it in the first place. You both need to set and agree to the boundaries of your relationship again. And you both need to be talking more about your lives outside of the home. So that something like this is less likely to happen in the future.
The kid needs a mother. The mother wants her kid with her every weekend. The compromise is. Have her kid over every weekend.
If it's only in your name then you need to go talk to the leasing agent about options. You might be able to evict her. If she was never on the lease to begin with she might not legally be allowed to be there anyway and they will kick her out for you.
I don’t see why this is considered strange?? I talk to my husband’s aunt and uncle and cousins all the time. He talks to my mom, brother, aunts and cousins as well. It’s all family.
Exactly this. She's a little girl for christ sakes. A child!
My daughter is still in the womb and i know my husband would kill for her.
This behavior isn't wht a loving parent allows from anyone towards their own.
I've shut down stupid comments from my extended family about how my kid's gonna look like my husband.. who is black.. well no shit Sherlock! It's her dad.
I don't get how as a parent you aren't fiercely protective of the being you literally created! OP should do better and his wife sounds horrible.
I grew up in a strict household bt i always felt love and acceptance. There is a major difference between having strict discipline and being emotionally abusive to a child and neglecting them because they don't do wtf u want.
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Hi, English is my second language, this is located in Canada.
For a bit of context : My dad (57M) has always had a penchant for younger girls. Only, it got gradually worse throughout the years. He was 22 when he started dating my mom (51F) then 16. They had me and my older brother (24M). When I was 9, my parents had a very ugly divorce, turns out, my dad had been cheating on my mom with my then 20 year old babysitter, Mary. My parents met Mary because she was my cousin’s best friend. My dad hired her at his company and as our babysitter and she had worked for the family for 5-6 years by the time my mom caught my dad with Mary.
Throughout the years my dad would gradually stop hiding his «taste ». I would go to eat with him and he would look over my shoulder at girls who were clearly very young. He would never even look at me when I was talking to him. I also handled the family photo albums, and I found so many pictures that he secretly took of girls my age while at the beach. He always like my other cousin’s (24F) friends who were all trained dancers too much and also took random secret pictures of them.
He also installed a bunch of cameras inside the house, which had audio and would spy on me a lot. Cameras under the tv, in the bookcase, in the light fixtures.
He was always talked about his sex life, his penis size, women’s bodies, etc very openly, even at diner.
He married Mary after a few years when Mary was about 25, but by then the comments about Mary being too old started. He would often take me to dîner just so he could complain about her looking older, developing, and he would often say that he was overdue to « trade in and get a new model ».
Mary left my dad about 3 years ago. The divorce is still ongoing. During this time my brother would often have parties at the family lake front cottage and my dad would single out the girls and make special dinners for them, try to pick them up over his shoulder, get them to drink. But the whole time, he kept the wedding pictures of him and Mary up and would brag about how much of a stud he was to get someone that much younger than him.
I don’t talk to my dad anymore. He’s sexist and treated me badly. Imagine a Cinderella type situation. I have been vvl contact with him for 3 years. I occasionally have to see him at family obligations, but I’m not terrified of him anymore. My brother still talks to him, but he was always treated very well and is very non-confrontational.
My dad recently started seeing Prada (22F). She is a very skinny, tall, strawberry blonde, blue eyed girl. She was a waitress in a pub where he went and was not looking for anything serious. His loved her into his condo, bought her gifts. And now, they are apparently officially together. My dad is trying to introduce her to the family. I am disgusted by this whole thing. She is younger than me!!! He calls my brother to tell him all about sleeping with Prada which is nasty. My brother still lives with my mom and my dad tried to bring Prada over to introduce her to my brother. He’s also been trying to trick me into meeting her. He’s been texting me that he has stuff to give me and that I can pick it up at his place, but I know he’ll ambush me with Prada. That’s his whole goal. Everytime he asks, I just text back no.
My bike is still at my dad’s lakefront property. He texted him before I knew of Prada that I’d like to come by and take my bike. He said he’d be able to take it out once the snow melted. But now I know that he’s been bringing Prada to the cottage and I know he’ll arrange for her to be there in the weekend I go up. And knowing my dad, he’ll say something like « I’ll take your bike out after dinner » to try to force me to spend time with her.
He recently changed his profile picture to a mirror selfie of both of them and changed his status from married to it’s complicated. Now everyone we know knows.
I want to express to my dad how disgusting and inappropriate he’s been. To be frank I just want to yell at him that he’s a pedo. I know I won’t change him but I want to mark him. If he doesn’t stop with the young girls, we will never fix our relationship, I refuse to be around that and I refuse to have any future kids of mine be around that. How can I put into words how nasty this is knowing I’ll have to see them both in a few weeks to pick up my bike?
TLDR; my dad had a preference for young girls and now has a gf younger than me. How do I address that with him?
Edit: I mixed up Prada’s name and fixed it
Sounds like it is over. Walk away. Don't look back.