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Date: October 14, 2022
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You can’t push anyone to therapy tho, they have to decide on their own usually otherwise they likely won’t be receptive at all and it’ll just be a waste of time and money.
Imo there’s no rule that says what we can and can not do. It’s really up to this person involved and the situation. Personally in my experience we jump into sex like a week in lol but that’s just the chemistry I had w my partners. It’s good ur taking ur time. I think u should just explain to her what sex means to u and how it’s an experience u want to share with her bc u have feelings for her. I mean it’s only natural
I’m going to say it depends on what the photo album is but probably not.
I think the only time I would give a gift I already got to an ex is if it was both non-returnable and non sentimental, and I couldn’t use myself. Most things don’t fit the criteria so I would just get my money back on those. Then most things that aren’t returnable would be like a customized sentimental gift (photo album) which would be weird for the sentimental reasons. But if it’s just an empty album with her name on it (doesn’t mention you or your plans) then I would give it to her unwrapped and say “I already got you this and can’t return it so you might as well have it.” Make it clear this isn’t a gesture to get her back and merely a way to avoid wasting something
Backpack gonna be pregnant
The notion of putting out implies that it's something the woman does for the man, like it's a reward or something. If that's the base, good luck building up an equal relationship. It's antiquated and belongs back in the relationships of the 50s.
I really appreciate your time for this I really do.
I do mind her being friends with the guy since hes toxic and cheats, ofc he's gonna be manipulative, that was my biggest concern, that's why I questioned the trust that she had so much with him and manipulation. Even before we talked I told her that it's a no for me and she should do less contact as much as possible, and she said she will cut him off if I wanted to, only reason I didn't mind much is because she is open and transparent with me about it and I have a couple of friends that cheats, but I know I can't trust them much for sure.
She didn't cheat before, like she said to me, even before we started talking. must've been an error on my part.
I'm a 100% with you on the blocking with emotional manipulation and toxic behavior.
Damn, I’m sorry, that sucks. Honestly in my opinion I think you should tell him he is being lazy in the bedroom and you are tired of it. You deserve the sex you want and you shouldn’t be afraid to demand it. Do you really want to spend years with a man who isn’t willing to fuck you the way you want to be fucked?
That said, I’m not telling you to breakup with him right away. Give him it as an ultimatum, he either eats and fucks you or there will be no sex. If he is so selfish and stubborn that he accepts no sex then it’s time to leave him in my opinion.
I feel like im the guy in my rs, im just honestly realizing it now. Like a ice bucket of water just poured into my head, is it better to break up with my gf now so i won't hurt her anymore?
Don’t leave anything behind while you’re out that your brother could use to get money in your name; bank statements, identification, financial info, credit card statements, anything. You do t have to be around him if you don’t want. So t feel guilted into it.
Everyone who lives in a rented home is contributing to the mortgage. Should she hit up her previous landlords and ask for equity? She was likely contributing to their mortgage after all, that’s how housing works.
Being a property owner incurs cost and infers liabilities and risks.
If she wants equity then she shares in all of those.
If the roof is damaged, does she pay to replace it? If the furnace dies, does she split the replacement cost? If the bathroom sink blows a pipe does she help with the plumber? If the neighborhood kid breaks his arm in the driveway, is she party to the ensuing lawsuit?
There’s a million other ways this could go wrong. She needs to deal with this 50/50 if she wants to be on the title, after all if they split she will get half the property. OP will deal with that as her landlord, that’s his responsibility. In that case, I’d far rather be the tenant with a well-written agreement and my rights set out explicitly.
She doesn’t get equity if she doesn’t take the responsibilities – full stop.
Agreed
Why did your husband get you a butt plug when he already is one?
Yeah, the way she said he has been suspicious for a while now makes me think OPs husband stumbled upon some new information and wants to see if she’ll come out and just be honest. I can’t imagine they’ve been arguing about this for 16 years without just getting a test or a divorce by now
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That’s great. Is it working out between you guys?
“I was thinking just the two of us. Would that be okay?”
OP it sounds like your bf’s family just outright sucks at being understanding and caring. This is controlling the narrative to get what they truly have in mind and that is to get you removed from his life. I’m sorry that you got involved in such a toxic situation being with someone you believe is good all the while part of such nasty family members. Stay in PA for your personal and legal protection. Establish residency to safeguard you and the baby from such trash. Inform the bf after this is done that he is welcome to relocate to you but that interaction with his family is to be terminated for your well being. To compromising about this. Tell your bf you love him and want to be with him and him only no exceptions. And gather your support group close and hold tight.
What should I say to my friend? I'm not sure I want her to know why he isn't around anymore.
Send her a final text during her time in the festival that you won't be there when she comes back and she knows the reason.
She can do whatever she wants to do since she's already single and she's free to have sex with anyone she meets in the festival. She can even get herself a new boyfriend.
This is pretty solid advice, im in an age gap relationship and the previous two relationships were women 2-4 years older than me. Never had a gap larger than that until now and we have a fantastic relationship.
No, I think you're right. I think she is the affair partner. At least OP hasn't denied it when people referenced that in other comments.
is it too late for me
My mom finished up her associates when she was in her 40’s so no it’s never too late
If having sex immediately is more important to you than building a relationship with someone you appreciate, love and click with, sure, break up with her to give her the chance to save herself for someone who’ll follow her pace.
Men and women orgasm differently, you know that right?
This is a potentially serious situation, she's accused you of something and the accusation alone could ruin your life, even if it is false. I can't understand why you haven't ended the relationship immediately.
Will she qualify for the loan without you as a guarantor?
The only thing you can do is get help. Either therapy or through a different social system.
Did it occur to you she was drunk? I just think if she was, the kiss with the other guy didn’t actually mean anything, and you may have jumped the gun
If you aren't going to listen to advice why did you ask the question?
My guess is your trying to brag and don't give a thought to what it will do to your relationship.
Well congratulations you can tell your kids and grandkids about your threesome some day. I'm sure they will think your a real stud.
i moved in with a male friend near the beginning of my relationship with my current bf. he didn’t have a problem with it because i needed a place to live and that was what was available to me. why would that be a problem unless your relationship already has problems? it just allowed my bf the opportunity to get to know my friend better. a year later i moved in with my bf, but my boyfriend is a rational person and knew there was no reason to be jealous, so there were no issues in that year
I think my main fear is asking him and him thinking oh wow this person is nuts
?♀️ okay? But that was those two specific people. How does it relate to this.
Which in itself was a terrible relationship… lol
Hi, me! It really sucks to be doing literally everything while that sack of shit lays around. You are absolutely with a narcissist. Your husband sounds exactly like my ex. Like to a t. My daughter was 2 weeks late and the night before I was induced, my idiot ex got mad at me and left me alone the entire night to go smoke weednwith his friends. Then when she was born, he left to go let the dogs outside and didn’t come back until like 12-15 hours later.
Girl, run. Run away from this narcissist. Everything is your fault in your situation(in his eyes). It’s always something YOU could’ve done differently. It will never change. My ex NEVER got up with the baby in the night and when I started co sleeping with her so I could get sleep, he became furious with me and started sleeping in a different bed complaining that he wasn’t being woken up with blow jobs. Like I’m serious you need to get your support team backing you up and figure out your single life because it will not get better. I stayed with my ex til she was 3 and I’ve been living my best life since. Good luck.
There are several techniques for this, i will give one here but modify it as needed to be effective for you.
First of all, you have a subconscious mind that is child -like in nature. I recommend treating this “inner child” as you would as if it were you own physical child. It needs a lot of love and reassurance.
Second, make a habit of talking to your inner child and letting it know you really love it. You need to establish a relationship with your inner child, just as you would with anyone else. Lois Hay recommended using a mirror to talk to your inner child. Whatever works. The main thing is to not just tell your inner child you love it, but really feel the love when you communicate. When your inner child feels loved, you will react to the external world with a lot more love and a lot less fear.
Another thing: your emotions are how your inner child communicates with you. So don't ignore them by tensing up your body and suppressing them. Instead, let your body relax, breathe deeply and fully feel the emotions. This will show your inner child that it has been acknowledged, and you will be able to release the emotions. Emotional baggage is simply emotions that were suppressed insead of being released. Emotional baggage will lead to triggers, but when emotions are released the triggers will disappear as well.
and it also takes everything literally. If you say something like: “I can't ever do anything right” this inner child will take you literally and start sabotaging your life. So so one is to always think positive thoughts. You're not trying to
Somehow I knew this would be said. But I can’t, I want to work through this I just don’t know how to
Half Thai male here, living in Thailand.
>where she squeaks and makes a scrunched up face almost like she's in pain and… well.. being raped. That's why I always thought it was only in porn thing like some sort of rape fetish for the guys to enjoy. I never got
That's a new thing I never heard of before, but different people react differently to sex.
>I didn't know it was a cultural thing to show enjoyment as pain?
That is absolutely NOT a cultural thing to show enjoyment as pain.
>So it's almost like she's only switched up those two reactions for sexy time.
It could be something she learned from porn as well, and is what she's expecting.
Honestly, talk to her about it, bring it up, see if it's something she's forcing.
If you think Reddit’s so weird go ask someone in your personal life for advice. I’m sure they’ll think you’re just as trashy as the rest of us, and your sister, do.
Hey, a question. What, possibly, in all seriousness, would you withhold from another 29-almost-30 year old because they're “too young?”
Surrogacy is also an option. Maybe an expensive one. But if you have $, maybe something to look into. Also being childless is also fine! And if he’s okay and you’re okay with it.. I don’t see why you’d ever go the open marriage route. Obviously your mom is wrong and crazy and I’d cut her off for even suggesting that… so weird! It’s your relationship and don’t open it up to appease your crazy mom. Best of luck.
This is a you problem, not a him problem or even an us problem, 100% YOU.
good for you. Your friend also sucks. Not only did he not care he swiped a girl from you, but it was a girl he didn't really care about. he's got no honor in his soul.
No way. Turn it down, sounds like a trap to me. Next threesome with be her birthday and your friend.
Keep going out with guys, don't fall too quickly or let your guard down. Keep introducing her to them at the start so you're not in too deep. The more guys you date, the more chances of meeting someone who really likes you for you.
I know this post is emotional…just have to say, Roger the Lodger cracked me up.
exactly what I'm trying to avoid
Yuck
It’s how he is and his personality .
Yours isn't unusual at all. I love in Scotland. People fuck off to the hills weekly and monthly.
Every month I have one weekend where I do absolutely nothing but sleep and chill. I absolutely need that. Every 2 months would burn me out. Keep your monthly get away and tell your boyfriend to fuck off. It's controlling how clingy he is and argumentative. I'd personally leave him the next time he blows up. Then go on a long weekend get away glamping before taking 2 weeks holiday glamping to make up for the additional stress you've had to suffer.
Accountability is admitted you are wrong and owning you're mistakes and I'm doing both of those things here right now
Cancel it asap. He's just using you. Get the money back and pay your rent! Geez!