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Date: October 8, 2022
I agree in principle with everything that you’ve said, I would only add that from my perspective at this point with all the history of the relationship and this topic behind them yes, OP is being unfair.
Boyfriend stated very clearly his boundaries right at the beginning. He was clear and concise and has never wavered in that. OP is silly for continuing on in that relationship having been told what his boundaries are and expecting that she will be able to change them.
What you’ve written is completely correct – neither is right or wrong, it is only their outlook and boundaries. That’s absolutely fine. But OP is starting to cross a clear line at this point, and I would call that unfair 8 years down the line.
He said that he hit (not break) the door on purpose (to release anger) but didn’t expect the door broken easily. His excuse was his intention wasn’t breaking the door. He was just unlucky that the door would break easily… I had also pointed out that his action was to scare me. He said that it wasn’t his intention to scare me and I wasn’t that ‘special’ that the intention of his action was revolving around around me. He was just angry and he couldn’t control his anger. He thinks I should just forgive his action because he couldn’t control it and he is improving already ( he did improve – he was way unable to control himself before). And he said I was the one who couldn’t control myself and I didn’t improve. ( I freaked out and screamed at him when he broke the door)
Perfection.
Bruh, why did you even bother talking to this guy? He sounds utterly unhinged. I wouldn't have even bothered
You don't need a relationship. You need a therapist. Why would anyone stay in this relationship when you want so much more than he will give?
Last time was like 3 weekends ago. It's the date I mentioned where he said after it was fine but he didn't really think it felt the same, more like friends than partners. Not a lot. I know what he's doing but often we don't really chat except about practical things. I often avoid topics I know will cause conflict e.g. I told him all about a promotion opportunity at work that I was excited but also nervous about, he basically told me not to take it and that was the opposite to what I was expecting and was kind of condescending about my thoughts. It didn't make me feel good. I understand this. He however is totally unwilling to work on the body issues. I mentioned in another comment that I have been gently suggesting therapy or something for this for years. But he firmly doesn't believe therapy is real science or works, and won't go unless I make it an ultimatum (which will probably defeat the purpose as he will just go to the sessions and not do the work). The sex issue has been going on for around 4 years. I think so, at least anxiety and some mild depression, however see above point about therapy – no idea how to help him if he won't help himself with the tools I think he has.
A gentleman would delete pictures if asked for any reason.