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Date: October 9, 2022
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Yes you are. He’s waiting for her to change her mind.
I'm a Forgive Once person, but DV is off, even for me, and I think you're an idiot. But I see this is going the way of most DV cases – the abused returning to their abuser. For your sake, here's what I think “a chance” will require of both of you. Hopefully neither of you will agree to it, but here you go.
First, she confesses in full to the law, and if she gets parole, and/or community service, she accepts it without complaint. She also lets mutual friends and family know the whole story.
Speaking of community service – she volunteers at your area's women's shelter, at least a half-day a week, for at least a year.
Next, she's off intoxicants. No exceptions.
Next, anger management. Full commitment, start to finish.
Next, an act of penance. Something you'd appreciate. Something that will take effort. Not mere money. Not sex. Effort. Personal sacrifice.
Now this also requires a little from you. First, YOU must understand that a Forgive Once person gives only one mulligan. Otherwise you will teach her that she can go right on with drinking and DV, and you will ultimately cave. Or your head will.
It's also necessary for you to show positivity if she straightens up and flies right. Show appreciation for her act of penance, and other self-improvements. You'll have to take your doubt and pain to a confidant, clergy or counselor, and welcome to your 'reformed' GF back with a show of gladness. A fake-it-til-you-make-it deal.
Now a very serious warning. You are NOT OK to reconcile with someone like her unless you're willing to walk away from potential conflict at the slightest sign of her anger. Since she's violent, you walk backwards. I'm not joking.
And don't even think of simply imposing your will on her actions, physically or otherwise. If she wants to sleep naked on a park bench, you can present your arguments to the contrary, but you won't spend half an hour, or even half a minute, trying to wrestle her clothes back on. You OK with this? God, I hope not. Take her back, and I don't think either of you has seen the last of the police.
So? Cheating and being an ass is okay?
Bullshit. He's manipulating and abusing you.
It sounds like your boyfriend is monogamous, but, like a lot of men, is conditioned to sexualise girl on girl encounters in a very non threatening way. (Count the number of shows or films where a partner kissing another woman is hot, but kissing another man is cheating.)
But this is reality. And when the chips are down he doesn't like the idea of you with another person, and your desire to be with another person who isn't him makes him uncomfortable. He probably can't quite merge the two just yet, and thus struggles to communicate his feelings.
If he viewed it purely as a bit of kinky fun that he'd get behind, he'd have given you the go ahead. But he hasn't.
If he viewed it as a valid reason to open your relationship so you could both explore your sexualities he'd say so. But he hasn't.
He's given you his answer. Pushing the issue is just taking advantage of his inability to properly address his feelings and communicate them. Best case scenario you get a straight no, worst case you get your way and he resents you for it. Maybe that's worth it to you, who knows, but I won't recommend it.
If you want the harsh adult advice then we don't all find a partner who shares our sexual desires, and often your fantasies go unreciprocated. It is not your partner's job to enable you to tick every box you want to try, either with or without them.
It is however entirely up to you if this matters more than the relationship. Power to you if it does. Call it quits and live your life, settle down with someone else in 5 years. You're only 25, you've got ages ahead of you. But he doesn't have to accept you doing it and stay with you.
Decide what you want to do, stop pressuring him about it. Nothing good or healthy comes from pressuring a partner to agree to your sexual exploration outside of your relationship.
I’ve asked her this same question and she tells me she does. I am not naive and can take the hint that something is up and she must not be enjoying it for it to drop off as fast as it did. I make sure she O’s everytime. I’m not selfish, I guess she lost interest. I just don’t want to end it over this reason but I cannot be with someone who doesn’t enjoy the most intimate part of a relationship with me.
Your parents are gonna come running back when baby is born
Honestly what help are you looking for? Your girlfriend turned out to be a bitch now all you gotta do is to treat her like one
Well mate, the only thing I can tell you is this:
When I was a year or two younger than you are now, my (F) best friend and I (M) found ourselves both single. This year we'll celebrate our 23rd wedding anniversary.
No one said this was about me. I find it interesting when there are ridiculous generalizations about women, people get up in arms, yet when there’s one here about men, people immediately jump to “this means you’re one of these men.” It’s some double-standard, illogical nonsense.
I'm Indian and it's unfortunately pretty common here but you know what's extremely rare? Women who are against it not knowing what to do when they are dating a man who supports it. OP saying she doesn't know what to do instead of asking how to leave safely makes me think that it's a fake post.
It was most likely assault and not her cheating. For a vitctim it can be hard to accept what happened and to actually tell people. Also she might have been too drunk to actually remember what happened.Give her some time. Her friend was probably drunk to and either didn't see it happening or doesn't remember too.
Well if he is so sure it isn't cheating it's fine if his partner knows right?
Absolutely let her know, she deserves to know, if she's really okay with that in the relationship she will probably laugh it off and thank you.
But sounds like he's trying the pull the same thing my ex did, he also said it was the same as porn to him. Then why hide it from me? Because he knew it wasn't.