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Date: November 25, 2022
I'm sorry to hear what you've gone through.
Looks like my relationship is over, too. We just tried to talk it out but it was just an argument.
She called our relationship “years of shit” and said bye.
Honestly, good riddance. Knowing her she'll cool off and try to reach out later acting all sweet. I'm so done.
We have, he’s amazing at communicating and it seems like he gets it in the moment.
He insists on 50:50 but if he was missing a few dollars, or maybe if he ran out of gas I usually paid for it. I also paid for his haircut and bought him a few pairs of shoes so if we were to really weigh the pennies and dimes it would be 70 (me) : 30 (him)
Wtf… you need to stop hanging out with him if you feel like you want to sleep with him. Also, I feel bad for your husband.
Well if it was just casual why didn’t you tell your gf. It’s not cheating but it’s WEIRD and it will turn into cheating if you start doing other things. I think if you need to ask if it’s cheating then you know it’s wrong. So tell your gf and stop doing it
So you are a piece of shit
Thank you.
What she is doing is called parent alienation and I used that in court when my ex bf would do the same with my child. I won custody and eventually took his parental rights away when he started harming my son to “get back at me”.
Just proceed with caution because your ex wife already sounds unhinged. Get evidence of all of this cause you will need it. Keep a closer eye on your son because your wife might try some shit, either by hurting him or claiming abuse on your part.
Sorry if I seem paranoid but I lived through this and me and my son suffered a lot because of some unhinged piece of shit who couldn't get what he wanted.
Lmao your both 20, have been dating for one year and are at different unis and you think you wanna marry him. This story has played out a million times before. Be realistic and a bit more mature. It is not surprising your bf doesn’t want to potentially promise to commit to something as serious moving to another city to study for someone he hasn’t even been dating for a year. And this is not even a slight on you or your relationship it could be great and might last. Unless you have both been open on the page about it and discussed this is how you both feel which it doesn’t sound like from how you phrased it – being at this stage and having the mentality of “ I’m in it for all or nothing, I’m looking for someone who’s willling to do ANYTHING for us to workout”. That is not at all reasonable for this and he is almost certainly not on the same page on you as this and that is perfectly fair. Your advice really shouldn’t even anything – if your relationship is going strongly and isn’t going too badly long distance there is nothing to change – that’s is a reasonable response he gave. But if this is a deal breaker for you good luck to you in your future long term dating endeavours.
Thanks. He doesn’t use dating apps so I have no idea, but entirely possible. Is there any way to salvage the friendship?
He’s not actually a chick he’s a guy, he just wasn’t born biologically male. Trans men take testosterone to look like biological men, op isn’t blind for not noticing. It’s not always obvious.
In the end I’m trying to find a solution to how to prove her wrong in some things where I know I’m right
Well that might be part of the problem. Why would you want to make someone you love feel wrong so you can be right? Why not look to understand both sides and find a solution that works for you both?
As for childish, does she actually say she’s going to have a breakdown if she doesn’t get her way? And to be honest, if having a breakdown gets her her way, it’s perfectly logical that she does it then. It’s not childish, it’s expedient. If you don’t want her to negotiate for her needs that way, then you have make it so her doing that doesn’t get her what she wants.
As for talking crap to get you to do what she wants, you’re right over time you will want to do it less. What she’s doing is guilt tripping you as a way to negotiate for what she wants, when what you want is for her to ask and compromise with you. For her she should google how yo turn complaints into requests, as that could help her better communicate her wants in ways that don’t feel shitty to you. And for you there’s an article on how yo stop guilt trips that might help. If you’re interested in that, let me know and I’ll send it to you.
Break up completely and move on.
She will continue to see both of you because she’s calling the shots with both of you.
It sounds like she’s the one who wanted the open relationship not her ex.
It’s now the same for you. She wants open with both of you and she doesn’t care what either of you want. Your feelings are not considered. She’s a selfish lover.
Break up and block. You should be able to do this easily as you haven’t had 4 years to get over her like he has to do. You’ve not invested much time so just walk away.
It’s him that has my pity. He’s prepared to have an open relationship just to have her in his life.
This should be the top comment. OP please read this.
This!!! He could not like the way you talk to a co-worker or a friend of his and think you are cheating. If this is a real post you should take this as a huge red flag and leave.
Well she told you she’s seeing someone… I think that’s your big neon sign in your face answer.
Listen, just realize if you do tell her, it can go one of two ways:
1) she feels the same and wants to be together
2) she doesn’t, things get awkward, she may ask for space and may or may not want you around
Also have to ask yourself regarding 1):
How are you two going to sustain?
Is one of you moving across the country?
Dude is it grown ass man dating a girl 10y younger and throwing temper tantrums to keep you under control. Get out.
He picked that fight on purpose.
Even if what he told you is in true and he's not lying in my opinion it would still be cheating. If you had a male friend over and that male friend touched you everywhere that your bf admitted he did to the woman in the private room, I'd bet your bf would not be happy.
Do you ever stop giving your same exact opinion on this subs every post? I don’t want to have to read your comments every 5 comments down repeatedly on the same thread, especially when no one is replying or engaging you.
Please, your opinion is NOT that important dude. Give other people a chance to say something, we get it.
You guys needed to go to therapy for this. This is something serious and complicated that merits the hand of a professional.
Catch a cold???
A 23 year old knows fake rape allegations are wrong. This is inexcusable behaviour. You can respectfully communicate why you’re leaving, which is what OP should do. This is absolutely not ok nor worth the risk.
OP. Your husband is a gay man who is using you to cover it up. Stop being a doormat and get a divorce.
A 23 year old knows fake rape allegations are wrong. This is inexcusable behaviour. You can respectfully communicate why you’re leaving, which is what OP should do. This is absolutely not ok nor worth the risk.
You are right. It would be prison not jail most likely.
He's gay.
File for divorce. You deserve better.
I hope he divorces you ??♀️
I don't see the problem. She's a woman. You are having a good time with her. You've had sex and I assume you enjoyed it. What's the problem?
what did he not consent to?
Damn i was just askin questions, why are you so pressed lol?
Wtf bro. Stop with the sexist statements. I'm reporting you.
What a stupid relationship, probly a ragebait, cant be real
Should’ve mentioned that in the post
and maybe that is the case. Either way, she is still willing to meet up with you so there is that. The most you could do right now is ask her if she still wants to meet up, but then you run the risk of this really being no big deal and you sounding like you're the one expecting more out of this. Just be patient, maybe it really is just a “not now” thing. if you want a relationship RIGHT now then you might just have to move on.
She sounds exhausting and very “pick me”.
You reached out. She didn’t respond. She wants you to chase her and shower her with attention. That’s ridiculous. Not maybe so far as toxic but certainly immature and unhealthy.
Sounds like she's wasting your time to me. What adult has time for this kind of game lol
you sound like an awesome person to be in a relationship with, jim sounds like an ignorant asshole. I feel like there are other guys out there who would be better boyfriends more fiting for you.
Search the ‘net for “brat taming”
Shes been hiding it, and lying about it… That's pretty much a solid base for cheating
If it was a friendship, she wouldn't have a reason to lie.
Some home truth right here ⬆️
Honestly I don't want to love ever again, I'll rather die alone and get some pets . I can't bring myself through this again. Would be my 2nd relationship out of 2 where I got cheated on. I'm really shy honestly and I don't think I look good at all so I never go and approach people but i was always faithful and gave everything to the person I was with . I've considered many times just ending it all before she came in my life and now I'm starting to have negative thoughts again. I wouldn't do it cuz I'm a pussy and I don't want to cause pain to my family and the few friends I got but I'll be happy if it'll just happen. I didn't asked for indecent stuff from her because I respect her so much and want her to feel safe with me since people were already sexualizing her enough. I never had like a hook up partner before or anything, I'm 25 and a virgin because I can't do anything with someone I don't love , I just don't have it in me to do so without anyone else than someone I love and thought she's the one and I'll finally be happy
I don’t have to ask anything or comment at all as you took the thoughts right from my mind. Simply wanted you to know… I thought, same.
His income goes to a limited grocery budget and 2 small bills. He make a little above minimum, I am able to afford everything else and also to take a trip once a year (up to 2k) but I still feel like I don’t make enough money for him and his “wants”
I’m sorry that you’re so stressed out instead of being able to enjoy the excitement of pregnancy.
It sounds like your family just sucks, and I think you have to accept that and control the things that you actually can control.
It does not sound like you’re going to have the bonding experience with your mom that you hoped for, and instead, you were attempts at bonding will just be used to hurt you. That is so unfair and I’m very sorry, but I think you should take that knowledge and use it to protect yourself.
You know that your sister is going to take over conversations, so don’t have conversations that matter to you when she’s around. Don’t spend time with your parents when she’s there. You know your family is going to disappoint you, so don’t ask them for things and keep your expectations really low. You know that they will weaponize information and use it against you so put them all on an information diet. They don’t need to know anything about your pregnancy or how you’re prepping for the baby going forward.
Lean on your friends and your partner’s family for support and to celebrate your pregnancy. You’re going to be a mom soon, which means that you are making your own family, and while it sucks that your family of origin is a big disappointment, look at this as a beautiful opportunity to create something new instead of letting them drag you down.
For real, was gonna leave exactly the same comment. Childhood friend in love with well-established adult woman who treated him with kindness when he was down on his luck growing up? Ignores her established relationship to shower her with lavish gifts and demand more and more of her time? Rents a prop mansion to impress her, and makes his money from some kind of vague startup with a web of mysterious connections? Takes her to a gala?? Disappears after ultimate rejections?? Fails to achieve the American dream??? IS NAMED JAY!?
I'm fairly certain OP has simply been doing some online Great Gatsby roleplay with these posts for entertainment, but I'm not mad. It was fun putting the pieces together.
There is two different things here.
First of all if you can't get over the fact that your partner had a relationship before you, you gonna have an hard time for the rest of your life. If you 29yo had only one relationship before, that's unusual. Guys at 29yo usually have more than just one past relationship unless they had one very long term one. Unless you are ready to date guys that were very young, you won't find many that never had any relationship and it's gonna be near impossible the older you get. Think of it your way. If you ever break up with him you will now have a past relationship, would you be ok with every single guy you will go out with in the future think the same way about you as you do with your current boyfriend? There is not much to be done here, you need to get over that for your own sake.
Second is about the current relationship your boyfriend have with his ex. That can be a touchy subject. Having a friendship with an ex is relatively rare and it make total sense for the new partner to not be ok with this. Some people can be ok with it, some people can't and both are normal reaction. I think that it's something you should talk about with your boyfriend. If you are not comfortable with him being friend with his ex you can tell him that.
You have a gf problem. Going on a cruise with this loser is totally unacceptable. Why are you even with her?
I’ll also say that Reddit is very prone to the “break up with them immediately advice”.
Sometimes guys are stupid and they haven’t been properly trained in sexual education. Some people just think that nothings off limits with your other. This is not true. Your boyfriend could genuinely not realize that initiating sex while you’re sleeping is not ok. That’s something YOU need to decide. Reddit can not make that decision. You’re establishing this boundary that it’s no longer ok. If you think he’s just blowing you off and not taking you seriously then leave him. If you think he feels genuinely mistaken then give him a chance. Sex in our society is extremely complicated because not everyone is on the same page and we all have different educations and expectations.
So ask yourself, do I want to spend emotional ammunition on a woman that is a cheater and a coward? Breaking up is better than keeping it a secret but she doesn’t have to see your hurt, your anger, or your disgust at what she did. She can write her own Reddit post and say something limpdick like “I know breaking up hurt him but I know I did the right thing…” and bullshit herself into thinking that that’s true.
She doesn’t sound worth your time.
This is the like the 10th story this week of a hot head woman that is disappoint her man doesn’t go get in a fight for her. WTAF is with this attitude?
Dude, it don’t matter if you had back surgery or not, the absolute right thing to do in that situation was stay in the car. You should not have to risk your life because, um, your wife wanted to back up like right the fuck now and was super offended by the presence of a pedestrian.
Honestly, if telling her you are not going to go get in a fight with a stranger over stupid bullshit doesn’t work after the heat of the moment has passed, let her go man. She is a fucking idiot.
& in less than 24 hours he stopped having a crush on me?
The two of you have different ideas of what shared means. If you are helping pay for the car it is “our” car. That said, if you were okay with how things were being paid for there was no reason for you to throw that in her face. Some couples, even married, have separate accounts for what they want and a joint account for shared expenses. Nothing wrong with that and might be best for you.
Being in your 30s does not change how relationships work, and you can't rush things. I didn't get married until I was 40, and had 3 relationships end in my 30s. Stop pressuring him to conform to the timeline you set.
First I wondered if he was at the wedding as her date and now I wonder if there even was a wedding or if that was just a lie to cover her weekend rendezvous.
Convenient there was no one at this event that would talk to you about anything.
Run bro
Ask him about what he wants.
I don't think it is wrong to not want a partner who travels alot. I also think since you were broken up it is alright to try and find someone else.
However she did not just do that. She is telling you about it in a way to try and hurt you and she is also blaming you for it all. On top of that it is very childish to send that message and delete it.
This woman is not mature enough to be in a relationship and she will hurt you further.
Yes, wishing you all the best, take care
OP Sally sounds EXHAUSTING. I think you focus on having the most wonderful life with your fiance and let this friendship drift into the ether. Her demands on you feel like the codependent, middle school type of friendships girls have.
Right now your first and only priority should be your wonderful SO. Maybe you should propose to him instead and make him feel as special as he makes you?
yeah! there was a post a few days ago where 25m fucking his 30f sister & was caught red handed by his gf.
& at 22 she needs babysitting by her brother? so suspicious …… & now sharing a bed!? wtf !!??
I love my brother soo much too BUT I will never share a bed with him !! yuck!! (unless we are at war & staying in a bomb shelter LOL)