If she was emotionally cheating on someone she head over heals for than it can only get worse. Not to mention that leading you on as a back up option is scammy regardless of her relationship. Don't delude yourself.
I'm saying that she wasn't black out drunk, came to bed as she claims and your brother is a liar. Why would you believe someone who had more than one reason to lie to get back at you?
Well… when someone has an emotional attachment to you already, it's harder for them to leave you. So maybe they would be more forgiving. Sort of like how married couples stay in dead bedrooms because they don't want to go through divorce.
To get to my point, I think it's easier for someone to hump and dump you when you aren't already in a committed relationship cause they have other options.
He lied because if you find out the reason, it would be a deal breaker. I think one major rule is that in sickness, you stick to your partner. If not it is better to be alone.
Marital rape is still rape, and it’s illegal. He is NOT a great guy, he’s a Taoist who thinks you owe him sex and he’s forced you into birthing children as well. I’m sure you love your kids but YOU get to decide when you want to reproduce, not just “I guess I’m having a baby because I was raped.” Where does this stop? When he actually hurts you? What if he’s in a shitty mood and he decides you were trying to deny him his “right” to sex and that a beating will put you right? You are NOT safe with this man.
Show him this thread
If she was emotionally cheating on someone she head over heals for than it can only get worse. Not to mention that leading you on as a back up option is scammy regardless of her relationship. Don't delude yourself.
I'm saying that she wasn't black out drunk, came to bed as she claims and your brother is a liar. Why would you believe someone who had more than one reason to lie to get back at you?
Well… when someone has an emotional attachment to you already, it's harder for them to leave you. So maybe they would be more forgiving. Sort of like how married couples stay in dead bedrooms because they don't want to go through divorce.
To get to my point, I think it's easier for someone to hump and dump you when you aren't already in a committed relationship cause they have other options.
He lied because if you find out the reason, it would be a deal breaker. I think one major rule is that in sickness, you stick to your partner. If not it is better to be alone.
Marital rape is still rape, and it’s illegal. He is NOT a great guy, he’s a Taoist who thinks you owe him sex and he’s forced you into birthing children as well. I’m sure you love your kids but YOU get to decide when you want to reproduce, not just “I guess I’m having a baby because I was raped.” Where does this stop? When he actually hurts you? What if he’s in a shitty mood and he decides you were trying to deny him his “right” to sex and that a beating will put you right? You are NOT safe with this man.
Please get out.
I didn’t want kids at 29. I changed my mind at 30.
Tell her to make some food so you can just see how it tastes.
I am 4 inches and this is one of my fears.