I think if you’re feeling guilty, maybe don’t go on any more dates with any more girls until you figure out what’s going on with this one, but maybe don’t say anything about this date until your relationship with this one is more established. But definitely tell her when you are more established. Something along the lines of ‘I want you to know, I did go on a date with another girl before we were exclusive, but I felt bad about it so I didn’t go on anymore.’
My other half never actually told me he did this, and then when we announced on Facebook we were going out, a girl messaged me and said ‘He’s been going on dates with meeeeee!’. It was one terrible date, but it did freak me out.
Apologize to your boyfriend for you brother’s behavior. It’s embarrassing. Sit down your parents and explain to them that your brother’s prejudiced and hostile verbal attacks on your boyfriend are something they should be concerned about and control. Boyfriend comes from a culture where you can’t toss inflammatory speech around without expecting reprisal…take that for what it is. I would say that he is a man who could protect you if a situation arose that warranted it. But make no mistake, he is capable of violence…..albeit closer to righteous indignation in this case.
If I were the boyfriend, I would definitely be wondering if this family is in fact all prejudiced against immigrants/el Salvadorans/Latin peoples.
If you two have a friendly rapport and he’s generally like this with people, it might not mean much. Especially because you reached out to him (in what I’m understanding was a friendly curiosity not strictly for work way?)
If you weren’t friendly in mentorship this is still kinda weird. If you had to reach out strictly for work purposes then it’s also weird.
Yeah, so much digging to find a post from 4 days ago
Like you’re expecting us to read your mind about what’s actually happening?
If you can't bring yourself to go to his house unannounced, then send him a registered letter so you have proof that he got the information.
I think if you’re feeling guilty, maybe don’t go on any more dates with any more girls until you figure out what’s going on with this one, but maybe don’t say anything about this date until your relationship with this one is more established. But definitely tell her when you are more established. Something along the lines of ‘I want you to know, I did go on a date with another girl before we were exclusive, but I felt bad about it so I didn’t go on anymore.’
My other half never actually told me he did this, and then when we announced on Facebook we were going out, a girl messaged me and said ‘He’s been going on dates with meeeeee!’. It was one terrible date, but it did freak me out.
Apologize to your boyfriend for you brother’s behavior. It’s embarrassing. Sit down your parents and explain to them that your brother’s prejudiced and hostile verbal attacks on your boyfriend are something they should be concerned about and control. Boyfriend comes from a culture where you can’t toss inflammatory speech around without expecting reprisal…take that for what it is. I would say that he is a man who could protect you if a situation arose that warranted it. But make no mistake, he is capable of violence…..albeit closer to righteous indignation in this case.
If I were the boyfriend, I would definitely be wondering if this family is in fact all prejudiced against immigrants/el Salvadorans/Latin peoples.
Maybe she forget to uninstall it and its been automatically logging her on.
Just ask her.
If you two have a friendly rapport and he’s generally like this with people, it might not mean much. Especially because you reached out to him (in what I’m understanding was a friendly curiosity not strictly for work way?)
If you weren’t friendly in mentorship this is still kinda weird. If you had to reach out strictly for work purposes then it’s also weird.